Kaneki just says age does not matter, funny how you twist it into kaneki likes older women thing
first of all anon I have a feeling you are the same passive aggressive anon from a few weeks ago and I don’t appreciate the attitude. There’s a difference between being critical and being rude, and you are being the latter. My blog is purely for fun, and if you have a problem with anything I state you can IM me and stop hiding behind an anon, thank you.
And Kaneki liking older women does hold extreme significance in TG considering the fact that he has an Oedipus complex, you can read this meta here by @linkspooky to understand it more.
His Oedipus complex mostly refers to women that actually resemble his mother by having the following traits:
Thinking them strong until he realizes it is a facade
And I suppose you could add reading/books since he did read his father’s books when he was younger (and if the anime followed Ishida’s suggestions during this scene, Kaneki’s mother did help him read) There of course are other traits that I’m skimming over but honestly I don’t want to list them
The mothers in TG are generally depicted as cruel and ruthless but incredibly strong women (Rize, Eto, Big Madame, etc), while the fathers are shown as gentle and caring, but due to some mis-parenting/bad morale they majorly fuck up their kid(s) (Arata, Mirumo, Yoshimura, etc).
So Rize and Eto fit the check, but Akira does not (she’s like the cool god-mother who appeared out of nowhere and is the perfect parent for Haise bless her soul and hugs). Which kind of brings me to my next point about how Arima could be a representation of both the paternal and maternal instincts that created Haise Sasaki.
Every time Kaneki endures a traumatic event, it seems that he ends up embodying the quote from a piece of artwork Ishida did:
“Body of the mother, mind of the father”
Post-operation: Rize and Yoshimura. Kaneki struggled with controlling his hunger and random spikes of violence, but Yoshimura had him keep a peaceful mind with non-violent tendencies and a possible chance to unite humans and ghouls together (Yoshimura’s dream)
Post-Aogiri: Rize and Yamori: He displays her strength (which is actually his own but he doesn’t know that) and binge eating activities, he has to live with Yamori’s aftershocks and has the “get stronger to survive and protect” mentality
Post-v14: Arima. Gonna explain below but it most likely has a lot to do with whatever happened during post V14 and Haise’s care
Post Lunar: Eto and seemingly Arima again. Hope I don’t need to explain this one
So that leaves me with Arima. Arima is very… gender ambiguous (take off your Western lens and put on your Japanese lens) as he isn’t overtly masculine, nor is he as effeminate as Haiseneki is.
Arima does seem to fit the maternal traits that Haisneki usually ends up finding himself attracted to: glasses, beautiful, dangerous, powerful (not necessarily romantic since he doesn’t have a romantic association with Eto)
But while Arima does fit the cruel maternal aspects of TG, he also fits the paternal’s gentle and caring but “whoops-messed-up-my-kid” aspects as well. I wouldn’t be surprised if in whatever lab/hospital they kept Haise in after v14 Arima showed kindess and some form of empathy, but also gave his blunt, no-socialization warnings to Haise about how if he can’t control himself, he will be of no use. Not as a threat, but as a warning since I’m pretty sure Arima is in the same boat as him since the guy has no autonomy in the CCG alongside a few other things
This of course led to Haise’s fear of being disposed that the current Kaneki is no longer afraid of.
So basically: Arima is the mom and dad that made Haise, lucky guy.
This is probably why we haven’t seen a whole lot on Arima in :re since Arima and Kaneki have one of the most important/unique relationships in the series, and Ishida is planning to elaborate on this aspect later on in :re
Welp, I got all that out I guess, I’ve been wanting to talk about Arima/Arima and Kaneki’s relationship forever and I finally got a chance to do so, and I got to talk about the Oedipus complex all because you were rude anon, so thank you~
EDIT: added the right link to the Oedipus meta (it was showing a link to a weather site, whoops wrong link)