ᛝ ₊ hi there! welcome to my blog. i wanted in on the anti willo blogs, so i made this.
this is a discourse blog for several different topics, not just syscourse.
if it's not obvious enough : endos and their supporters DNI. you're honestly better off just blocking me, because i'll likely just do the same. if you're willing to have a respectful discussion, then you're free to stay. however, i will not have peaceful discussion with radqueers, nor anyone else who believes children, animals, and the dead can consent. please do us both a favor and block me.
see a more extensive dni down below!
ᛝ ₊ about me! this is actually a sideblog! our main blog will not be linked here to keep things separate. to protect this barrier as well, i won't be interacting back outside of comments and reblogs. so sorry!
i'm actually not a fictive or anything of ivan, i'm actually an introject of andrew. i just thought i could theme a blog better after ivan.
anywho! i'm a 22 year old system who has been openly a system since early 2022. we are introject heavy and persecutor heavy as well. we have zero shame in this, though, and often see our persecutors as protectors. without them, we likely would not have survived this far. i, the specific alter running this blog, am an emotional protector and somewhat of a host. my name is andrew, but i don't mind nicknames and, given the theming of this blog, i don't mind being addressed as ivan here.
ᛝ ₊ dni! maga, T.R.A.S.H, radqueers and their supporters, endogenic systems and their supporters.
ᛝ ₊ the basics of my beliefs! okay! i figure this is important to detail because i believe every discussion has nuance, so here's the basics of what i believe. you will not change my mind on any of these. if your goal is to argue and make blatant character assassinations, i'm just going to block you. i'd love to have respectful discussions, but anything hostile will be blocked immediately.
i am anti-endogenic and anti-willogenic. i am not anti-"i can't remember my trauma, so therefore i'm endogenic." i am not anti-"i thought i was endogenic, but i'm actually traumagenic, sorry guys." i am not anti-"my system is traumagenic and i have a lot of unnamed fragments, so i'm using BAH/NPT blogs to try and provide them a basis for an identity, so i guess that's willogenic." (i don't think it is willogenic.) tldr: i am not anti misinformed systems. i am pro-education and anti-misinformation. i believe many endogenic systems are simply undereducated or simply remaining ignorant because they cling too tightly to, "but i don't want anyone to feel bad or excluded."
i do not think fictive heavy systems are a marker of a fake system. end of story.
i am propara in the sense that i believe paraphilias do not alone make you a bad person. i believe it is your actions that determine this, as well as your own beliefs regarding your paraphilia. i do not think anyone needs to feel disgusted with themselves, that they are scum of the earth, but i do think certain paraphilias do need to be worked on, with therapy or psychiatry. many paraphilias are harmful, many are not harmful. i myself am a paraphile, but i won't say here (just know, not the "big three.")
i do not believe proshipping is inherently harmful. i do not think banning dark content saves victims. i do not think dark content creates victims, nor do i think it creates predators. i think predators are going to exist regardless, even without this content, and the root problem is the predators. predators existed before dark fiction and they will continue to exist, even if you successfully ban all dark fiction. i am incredibly partial to supporting victims finding coping mechanisms that work, and i think that if dark fiction works for you (and it has been recommended by a therapist), then feel free to do that... as long as you age-gate it properly and do not show it to minors. however, i believe that if you are not a victim in some way, it is weird for you to make sexual, romantic, or any other kind of content involving fictional abuse. i do not align myself with any shipping discourse labels. i think shipping/fiction discourse requires so much more nuance than the internet is willing to give it, outside of, "eewww i find this yucky, so therefore it's ALL bad." and "CENSORSHIP BAD AND IF YOU LIKE IT YOURE A FASCIST!!!" there is so much more nuance to my opinion regarding this, but i can't fit it here.
it will never be my job to censor myself. the internet is not a safe space. if you've made it your safe space and expect everything to cater to you, you need to pick yourself back up and grow some tougher skin. i know this may contradict with the next bullet point in this list, but i have to state it. i believe it is on the parents of children online to steer them away from unsafe content. i do not believe it is on creators, outside of age-gating inappropriate content and blocking minors where they can, to parent unmonitored children online.
harassment solves nothing. end of the sentence. while i love to make snarky and rude comments, i try to not throw the first punch. however, and this goes for any side of any debate, harassment does nothing but push the other side further from you and creates an even larger divide. the other side is never going to see you through, and especially not come over to your side, if all you do is lambast them and insult them and tell them to kill themselves.
the radqueer movement does nothing for paraphilic acceptance, tolerance, or any sort of help for paraphiles. the discussion of paraphilic acceptance and tolerance cannot start, nor at any point should it involve, the discussion of the legalization of child rape. your community is forever tied to that movement, whether you claim that it is or not. minors cannot consent. just because you say they can doesn't mean they can.
generative AI is shit. this includes character.ai. if you use ch.ai, block me. i think you're a loser. roleplay with real people. there's even no filter. for free!
being apolitical makes you a bad person. "your actions determine if you're a bad person" includes inaction, which includes a lack of any kind of opinion.
i think that's the important ones.
ᛝ ₊ thanks for reading! see you later. :)
