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Anxious attachment culture blog

This is for those with an anxious attachment style to vent, talk about experiences or send in characters that you relate to.

> Also see @avoidant-attachment-culture

Rules

- Open with "anxious attachment culture is.." for each ask.

- Do not demean other attachment styles by making negative blanket statements about their nature e.g. "avoidant attachers are always x".

- You may submit asks if you only have anxious tendencies or swing between attachment styles (this includes fearful avoidant/disorganized) as long as it relates to the experience of being anxious.

- You may use sign offs, they will be tagged for filing.

anxious attachment is culture is melting down and crying and wondering what you did bc they haven’t texted you back in 3 weeks

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anxious attachment is finally getting to have a special thing to spend with somebody and they completely forget about it or just dont wanna do it anymore so you gotta either end it all or wait for them to remember you 🤟

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Anxious attachment is knowing the person you’re texting likely just set their phone down and is in the middle of some other task and will get back to you as soon as they can but still wondering what it was you said/dis wrong and why this keeps happening to you; is it because you’re a stupid and clingy piece of shit?

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anxious attachment is hating yourself and your role in (the breakdown of) a relationship whilst simultaneously considering yourself to be 'the good one' or 'the one who tried'

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anxious attachment culture is repeatedly dating avoidant dismissives and swearing this time you’re gonna love em till they love you the way you want

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Being a cheater has nothing to do with attachment style it’s crazy to see it that way sorry for the person who got cheated on though

Actually, as a dismissive avoidant myself I would personally speculate on a correlation between cheating and avoidant attachment style. Morally they arent to be conflated and this is only a discussion id have with people who are able to deconstruct initial biases, but the need for control and emotional distance can often be a driving factor in cheating, as well as avoidants often getting into situationships where the lines are blurred so maybe they dont feel like they're cheating but the other person does. That isnt to say all cheaters are avoidants or all avoidants are cheaters, but I wouldn't be surprised if there is a correlation.

#not culture

avoidant-attachment-culture

Just a psa – attachment styles are not severe in nature and do not affect life outside relationships with yourself and others. If your attachment style results in occupational, emotional or functional impairment, something else is going on. Attachment styles are not diagnostic for a reason.

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anxious attachment culture is obsessively researching and reading about attachment theory to keep yourself distracted enough so you won’t text your avoidant close friend/person you have (had?) feelings for and overwhelm them a bunch again because you’re trying so fucking hard to give them space and move toward a secure attachment style… even when it hurts like shit that they won’t communicate and you feel abandoned and like this cycle of falling into old patterns will never end because you never see it coming until it’s too late and you’re scared it’s too late again💔

I'm sure you're doing so great keep it up

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Anxious attachment culture is your best (and quite literally only) friend telling you that she is going to move 6+ hours away in two or so years and having a total meltdown and panic attack over it

Yes that's still a long way off but the feeling of abandonment gets triggered just when my brain makes fake scenarios of her leaving, now that she's confirmed it's actually going to happen I can't help but feel constant impending doom

I logically know she's not actually abandoning me, I logically know that she would never do such a thing, but that doesn't stop my brain from treating it as abandonment and doing everything in it's power to convince me it's abandonment

-🫐 (Sorry for the long ramble/vent)

No worries, hope you're able to feel better soon, you deserve to <3

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Anxious attatchment is i havent spoken to this friend all day and i was scared the whole friendship group on the server hated me until i joined the vc and then now im still anxious this one person doesnt like me but he normally joins vc and now im scared that something bad happened to him and-

*breathe*

its okay, he was replying earlier and the friends here are all very accepting and kind and genuine and stuff

- may we take 🌌✨️ as our system/main sign off and then we'll add our own personal ones when we know who's fronting ;-; ty

That said, 🌌 from 🌌✨️

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anxious attachment style is. its hard to not be anxious when people keep fucking proving me wrong and slowly distancing themselves and talking to me less before they fucking leave

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Sorry I realise that last one sounds like Im shitting on all avoidants but im not. Im just pissed about that one because they used it as an excuse to blame me because I was too possessive and clingy and they didnt like that :/

not at all it came across more like a vent and personal experience thing, you're fine <3

- an avoidant

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Anxious attachment culture is dating an avoidant and still being surprised and upset when they fuck you over and cheat on you because they got bored of you !!

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Anxious attachment culture is them not replying for half an hour, and getting terrified that they've left you for good because why would anyone want to stay with me

You have more value than you think you do, and if people did leave you you'd end up being alright because you have inherent worth and value without others approval. You'll be okay :)

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anxious attachment culture is being sure that the only reason they don't respond is that they wholeheartedly hate me and want me dead

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