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Julia, 33. Ontario, Canada.

[anxzyeti]

I fucking hate this.

[anxzyeti]

I wish I could see you happy, taking care of yourself, and living your best life. Or us living our best life. Together. Fuck.

[expressions-of-nature]

by Anita Austvika

[nemfrog]

The Bird. 1879. Book cover.

Internet Archive

[anxzyeti]

Bought a cake and gifts to celebrate my nephews imaginary friend’s birthday. Some things are worth the investment. Happy 3rd birthday Ryder! 🎈

[expressions-of-nature]

Sagres, Portugal by Luca Severin

[autumnoiir]

[the-enchanted-little-star]

[anxzyeti]

Am I starting to like birds?

[anxzyeti]

🌾🌻🩵

[anxzyeti]

Little guy snuck up on me

[the-enchanted-little-star]

[werenotreallystrangers]

you don't just marry a person. you marry their ecosystem. their food. the temperature of their house. their sleep schedule. their friends.their family. their way of moving through the world

[theambitiouswoman]

This made me think about all the “I can change them” people and how in reality, it usually ends up changing you. The reason we become those people isn’t just control but the hope that love can create the safety we are craving. That we never got or aren’t giving to ourselves. It’s attaching to potential instead of reality. Believing that if you can fix what feels off, you won’t get hurt later. That if you can shape the situation, you can finally relax

Sometimes it comes from old patterns where love to you meant earning, proving, or holding everything together. So you start adjusting yourself your standards, your needs, your routines,trying to make the relationship work. But you don’t change someone into alignment, you choose someone who already is because that “ecosystem” isn’t a small detail. It’s your everyday life. It’s what you wake up to, how you feel in your own body around them

And if you constantly have to reshape yourself to fit into theirs, you’re not building a life together you’re slowly abandoning pieces of yourself just to stay. And this expands to everything else in your life. Just to avoid looking inward, and really going for the love you deserve

[anxzyeti]

Find friends to do wholesome shit with.

[wetheurban]

You owe it to yourself to move on and make healthier choices.

[aidashakur]

The art of wanting it with all of your heart and still letting it go.

[trapjiggaa]

Deadass don’t be having any other choice.

[vexheart]

The fine line between wanting to say so much and knowing that it's better to say nothing.