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All aspecs are lgbtq+ if they wish to be. Mods are all 16+. Mod Applications are Closed

[aphobicopal-blog]

Hello! My name is E.C. Miller and I run a small online store called “ThreadyToGo” and the money is going towards a chest binder and my eventual top surgery, so every dollar and cent helps me out! I ship internationally for a low price, all of the prices of items are converted to your currency and since pride’s coming up it’s the perfect time to look into a bracelet/pin of your own! I also have blind bags and bulk orders!

Also till the end of pride month all bracelets are 20% off with code “PRIDETIME”, so this makes it a perfect time to buy from me! 

Note: Will do all variants of aromantic flag, please just ask! Demisexual, lithromantic and many others available 

(Source)

Note: Will do all variants of aromantic flag, please just ask! Demisexual, lithromantic and many others available 

(Source)

(Gay / Lesbian)

All of the bracelets are available, inexpensive, cute and in the process helping a non-binary person!

Also on top of that, custom orders are available! So Everyone can find something here!

And in honour of pride I’m now selling handmade soft pins that are now for pre-order (20 available at the moment), they do not count for the sale as they are for pre-order but the money foes go to the same place!

(Source)

If you are interested please contact me at @apeskyhedgehog or check out the store here. 

I hope you have a great day!

//Get them Here//

[mabel-loves-aces]

Being ace isn’t cringe worthy.

[puchidol-positivity]

Good post OP! May I add that being aro isn’t cringe worthy, either?

[mabel-loves-aces]

Of course.

[nycto-draggo]

Or demisexual/romantic! That too!

[mabel-loves-aces]

Yup.

[magical-kid-subaru]

No aspec identity is cringeworthy

[aphobic-opal]

I can't believe I found a blog starting with "aphobic" that was NOT an auto-block from me. *Thumbs up* you're a first!

That makes me kind proud??? B-)

- Mod Sap

[aphobicopal-blog]

Hello! My name is E.C. Miller and I run a small online store called “ThreadyToGo” and the money is going towards a chest binder and my eventual top surgery, so every dollar and cent helps me out! I ship internationally for a low price, all of the prices of items are converted to your currency and since pride’s coming up it’s the perfect time to look into a bracelet/pin of your own! I also have blind bags and bulk orders!

Also till the end of pride month all bracelets are 20% off with code “PRIDETIME”, so this makes it a perfect time to buy from me! 

Note: Will do all variants of aromantic flag, please just ask! Demisexual, lithromantic and many others available 

(Source)

Note: Will do all variants of aromantic flag, please just ask! Demisexual, lithromantic and many others available 

(Source)

(Gay / Lesbian)

All of the bracelets are available, inexpensive, cute and in the process helping a non-binary person!

Also on top of that, custom orders are available! So Everyone can find something here!

And in honour of pride I’m now selling handmade soft pins that are now for pre-order (20 available at the moment), they do not count for the sale as they are for pre-order but the money foes go to the same place!

(Source)

If you are interested please contact me at @apeskyhedgehog or check out the store here. 

I hope you have a great day!

//Get them Here//

[aphobic-opal]

Seeing that this blog is actually inclusionist was a nice surprise :^) have a nice day!

I’m glad for that anon! You have a nice day as well!

- Mod Sap

[intersexgaysatanofficial]

@420theatricalroses

Speaking from a psychological point of view, QPRs cannot simply be considered as “just friends”

Due to the commitment component of the relationship, using Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love, they would be categorized as companionate love. Most examples given for companionate love are long married couples who love and are completely commited to one another but whose passion has faded. However, it can also describe QPRs if the passion was never there to begin with, and is considered wholly seperate from friendship/liking alone as well as seperate from romantic love.

(intimacy in this case refers to emotional intimacy/attatchment to a person, passion refers to both romantic and sexual attraction)

In the Color Wheel Theory of Love, I think QPRs could be best described by Lee’s description of Storgic love, though his descriptions usually assume that there will be sexual attraction in all the relationships, so I personally prefer Sternberg’s theory.

TL;DR: The emotional intimacy and commitment found in QPRs is more than ‘just friends’, and is what many people have taken to calling ‘alterous’ attraction. You can also call it Companionate love or Storgic love - intimate, committed relationships without passionate feelings, that is different from Liking (intimacy only) or Philic love (friendship).

[exclusionistcringe]

[puchimas-against-aphobes]

“being a bigot is so hard uwu”

[aphobic-opal]

I'm gonna,,,try to be more active y'all. Sorry.

- Mod Cetus.

[aphobicpokemon]

since the ace community loves to erase lgbt identities i’m coining the term erace

[vulpixtrans]

what

[aphobicpokemon]

there’s literally an ace flag for halsey who is very out about her sexuality

[vulpixtrans]

ive never heard of that but that sounds gross since shes bi but like i do not see what that has to do with all asexuals or “the ace community”

[aphobicpokemon]

y'all are trying to steal jughead a canonically gay coded character

[vulpixtrans]

“canonically gay coded”

[vulpixtrans]

also if u rlly wanna say hes gay,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, he can still be ace too because,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, gay aces exist

[aphobicpokemon]

have you not read like any of the old archie comics ??? and yes bc gay men need to be further desexualized

[vulpixtrans]

yes i have thats why i said  “ #i understand arguing he was queer coded in the past tho”

and wow okay i guess im desexualizing myself by existing as a gay ace thanks

[aphobicpokemon]

don’t use the q slur please & don’t expect me to read petty tags

taking a heavily gay coded character & making him ace is still erasure &

yeah?? isn’t that the point of being ace?? to desexualize yourself??

[vulpixtrans]

what the fuck

[popnkinnie]

… are u really suggesting being ace is a choice to desexualize ourselv es ? ?? is that what im reading ? ? ?

[aphobicpokemon]

if you don’t want sexual relationships why would you want to be perceived as sexual

[popnkinnie]

thats n ot what being ace means oh my god, why are you in the discourse when you dont even know what being asexual means? ? ? ?

[aphobicpokemon]

being ace is not wanting sexual relationships what the fuck

[popnkinnie]

it’s not having sexual attraction to someone, there’s a difference? ? ? 

[aphobicpokemon]

how can you want sex if you don’t have sexual attraction asking for a friend

[popnkinnie]

i mean im literally an ace who wants sex but tbh i dont feel i have to explain myself to you since you ‘re being rude as fuck and i dont owe you shit. :3c 

[aphobicpokemon]

then you aren’t??? ace???

[popnkinnie]

lol ok so me being hypersexual due to trauma means im not ace then

cool

[aphobicpokemon]

you can’t want sex then say you’re ace that’s like dating boys & girls & saying you’re a lesbian

[popnkinnie]

can you change your url to something else bc at this point you’re just an ableist bigot imo

[aphobicpokemon]

calling a nd person ableist wow you’re so inventive

[popnkinnie]

lol bc being nd means you cant be ableist to other people, ok; like you literally forced me into having to explain something personal and private to show that you were wrong and yet you’re still saying i cant identify a certain way bc you say so

[herefortheace]

funny how many ppl in this mess don’t even approach aces+aros like real actual human beings

and by funny I mean nasty and toxic as fuck

[roguejedis-deactivated20170921]

the new tumblr “safe mode” is shit

so tumblr recently unveiled it’s new safe mode that blocks “sensitive content” on dashboards and completely on mobile.

if you’re under 18, there’s no way to turn it off. 

it wouldn’t be too much of a problem if it was just like blocking p/orn or ns/fw art or anything, but, as it’s tumblr and therefore not a functioning website, it blocks like everything else except that stuff

for example, it blocks a ton of posts having to do with anything lgbt-related…. because kids need to be protected from the big scary gays amirite….

and also it blocks a ton of other innocent stuff like comic edits that have nothing inappropriate at all about them??

tldr; tumblr is censoring non nsf/w gay content just for the hell of it. you can let them know how you feel about that here

below the readmore are some examples of posts blocked by safe mode

Seguir leyendo

[thank-you-everyone-deactivated2]

they need to step up their algorithm for real this is easy stuff

[bismuthcourse]

hey y'all, if you can i recommend blocking @/wtfisadoggo because they’re an inclusionist who intentionally tries to trigger people AND misgenders them

anyone wanna spread this? their blog isn’t strictly discourse but i don’t think any of y'all wanna deal with them. @discoursezilla @discourseful @aphobi-wan-kenobi @discoursecrow

[aphobic-opal]

Their blog is here, for mobile users and easier blocking. I would not recommend interacting or giving them any further intention. Block and no platform.

- Mod Sap

[aphobic-opal]

Hey just a heads up, using the "non-mlm can't talk about pulse" thing is flawed. There were women there. There were trans women headlining. The youngest victim was a woman. Please have some respect for your trans, lesbian, bi, poly, pan, ace and aro sisters

Hey there anon! You’re totally right, I didn’t really consider that in my post. I was feeling very emotional about the whole situation, but if this comes up again I’ll give better consideration.

- Mod Sap

[aphobic-opal]

I hope you feel better soon. Please take care of yourself and give yourself a break from the discourse if you need to. I hope the tests come back with good results.

Thank you anon! I hope it’s a minor/treatable disorder, because it means we’ll know what’s causing my chronic illness plus we can finally treat it :-0

- Mod Sap

[aphobic-opal]

I’ve been super sick and offline again so I’m going to finally get my immuno deficiency disorder testing done :/ 

- Mod Sap

[toxxicognaths]

I love aces they’re so pathetic and easy to rile up…… why are y’all so fucking sensitive (jk I know why: because you have no idea what real oppression is. @ ace and aro people who are also lgbt/poc/disabled/etc: you REALLY need to understand what oppression is if you think you’re oppressed for being ace/aro you’re.. especially a disappointment.) and why do you think anyone cares outside of your bubble on tumblr. honestly delete this site to kill the ace community

[anti-transphobia]

Wow congratulations on telling a bunch of minorities you claim to support that they don’t understand oppression

[aphobic-opal]

"YOU DONT KNOW REAL OPRESSION EVEN IF YOURE OTHERWISE LGBT/POC/DISDABLED!!" says the white cis guy... why are aphobes so pathetic lmao - Mod Amethyst

[brownandtrans]

Commonly used acronyms:

POC: person of color TPOC: trans person of color TWOC: trans woman of color TMOC: trans man of color QTPOC: queer & trans person of color NBPOC: non-binary person of color

AMAB: assigned male at birth AFAB: assigned female at birth NB: non-binary

WLW: women-loving-women MLM: men-loving-men

FAQ: frequently asked questions (sometimes also called facts and questions)

[Sidenote: Some people may not feel comfortable with other people using these terms to refer to them, so if someone doesn’t want to be called a specific term, respect that!]