AroAceDMwithASD

[aroacedm]

really late intro post

i realised i never made one so here we go

Hi, i’m Lily

i’m aro, ace, autism, adhd, ect.

they/them or she/her i don’t really care

i like tgcf, dnd, rain code, hermitcraft and a lot of other things

uhhhhhh

i might use #lilys thoughts

i’m reading scum villain and i’ll use that tag for my opinions

what no i’m not looking at @iamshmolphrog’s intro post as an example why would i do that???

pls don’t be scared to send asks it makes me very happy

and yes i will be scared to send anyone else an ask

oh i’m also part of @aussieaspecforces but i don’t say a whole lot there

i don’t say too much here either but i will just reblog about a hundred tgcf posts in a day then disappear for a week

i do have a writing blog (@writerwithdysgraphia) that i’ve made about 1 post on but that MIGHT change soon if i can avoid procrastination

[aroacedm]

you know what ignore the writing blog ima just talk about it here

[cericertain]

Intersex trending?

• Friendly reminder bæddel, hermaphrodite, & futa are all slurs no matter the context.

• Intersex doesn't mean having a penis and vagina/cosexual/bigenital.

• When trans people go on about how "cis people get gender affirming care" "cis people get puberty blockers/hormones" etc, you are talking about intersex people. And most of the time we don't have the autonomy granted to us to choose. The same system oppresses us and forces us into the status quo. The only difference is for intersex people they are medically forced into one sex category, for the peritrans they are denied medical things to keep them in society's binaries. It's a lack of autonomy.

• IGM (intersex genital mutilation) is when doctors decide to genitally change intersex babies. These surgeries are only cosmetic, meaning the doctors do not care about how it functions, just the look.

• Every single anti trans law has made an exception for intersex people so they can continue oppressing us.

• Lying about being intersex doesn't make you safer. You as a trans dude lying about having gynemastica isn't making you safer. Intersex people are treated just as badly.

• Intersex people are still raped & mutilated by the medical system (yes even in '1st world' countries) and it's common practice.

• A species cannot be "all intersex", as being intersex refers to variations in ones sex.

• Whenever you see a "nonbinary" animal, it's usually just an intersex animal.

• Intersex people are not assigned "intersex" at birth, We usually still have AGABs, as AGAB was original used by doctors to refer to us. Additionally, an intersex person may be reassigned throughout life.

• SIG refers to socially imposed gender, for many intersex people they have an inconsistent socially imposed gender.

i'll think of more later, feel free to add on

[jaypilled]

are those my only options

[prower-labs]

[redstonebug]

hello everyone welcome to my very serious presentation on which god i think pantheon!Legs is gonna be the champion of. I totally have very solid reasoning for all of these.

[iamshmolphrog]

for the inbox thing you reblogged

i followed you cause you were my first follower lol

uhh random question what do you assume about me?

hmmm okay. You have never finished a lip balm before losing it

[aroacedm]

….maybe…. >:/

/silly

[shelbzxcupcakes]

Wanna be nosy? Here's your chance.

0: Height 1: Virgin? 2: Shoe size 3: Do you smoke? 4: Do you drink? 5: Do you take drugs? 6: Age you get mistaken for 7: Have tattoos? 8: Want any tattoos? 9: Got any piercings? 10: Want any piercings? 11: Best friend? 12: Relationship status 13: Biggest turn ons 14: Biggest turn offs 15: Favorite movie 16: I’ll love you if 17: Someone you miss 18: Most traumatic experience 19: A fact about your personality 20: What I hate most about myself 21: What I love most about myself 22: What I want to be when I get older 23: My relationship with my sibling(s) 24: My relationship with my parent(s) 25: My idea of a perfect date 26: My biggest pet peeves 27: A description of the girl/boy I like 28: A description of the person I dislike the most 29: A reason I’ve lied to a friend 30: What I hate the most about work/school 31: What your last text message says 32: What words upset me the most 33: What words make me feel the best about myself 34: What I find attractive in women 35: What I find attractive in men 36: Where I would like to live 37: One of my insecurities 38: My childhood career choice 39: My favorite ice cream flavor 40: Who wish I could be 41: Where I want to be right now 42: The last thing I ate 43: Sexiest person that comes to my mind immediately 44: A random fact about anything

[cobwebkitten-deactivated2020101]

reblog if you’d like one of these in your inbox

- ask me things you want to know about me

- why you follow me

- what’s on your mind/what you’re thinking about

- a compliment

- make me choose between two things

- ask for advice

- tell me a secret

- things you associate me with

- anything!!!!

[kubb-is-a-swedish-lawn-game]

the trolley problem except the guy tied to one set of tracks is your friend and someone you trust and one of the few people in the world that you genuinely like and he's begging for his life and he's saying that you're murdering him and he's screaming and clawing and running like a wild animal. on the other set of tracks is every living thing on the planet. its a no brainer, obviously. but he will still scream. this happened to my good friend eva stratt

[micro-usb-deactivated20230625]

[spaghettioverdose-deactivated20]

As a trans woman I can confirm that they indeed found an ancient forest inside a 630ft deep sinkhole in China

[gayweeddaddy69]

cis people can reblog this but keep it on subject, please

[senshibignaturals]

Happy pride month everyone always remember that the sinkhole has an ecosystem large enough to house not only insects but likely several species of small birds or mammals

[enbye]

Ancient Forest Discovered in Chinese Sinkhole

Researchers say the forest may contain small animal species unknown to scientists

[aroacedm]

once someone tried to convince me jurassic park was a documentary of the species in that sinkhole. same person said extremely confidently that bulls hated the colour red because they “got ptsd from when they were dinosaurs and they all died”

she would not listen to anyone who tried to show her evidence

[vampyyrikosmos]

I love everyone who writes/draws/headcanons Grace as aroace.

I love those who imagine Eridian culture with no relationship hierarchy.

I love those who imagine Eridian culture with no distinction between romantic and platonic love.

I love those who understand that Rocky's love for Adrian doesn't diminish his love for Grace.

I love those who see Rocky and Grace as a queerplatonic relationship.

I love you those who see Rocky and Grace as friends.

I love those who think Grace realized his aroaceness because of Rocky.

I love those who think Grace knew it long before meeting him.

I love those who see Stratt and Grace as queerplatonic.

I love those who see Stratt and Grace as friends.

I love those who see that Stratt betraying Grace was devastating and important even with no romantic strings attached.

I love those who see both Stratt and Grace as aroace.

I love those who think Grace is aroace but never finds the words to describe it.

I love those who think Grace finds the term and everything clicks into place.

I love those who think Grace is sex or romance repulsed

I love those who think Grace is sex or romance favourable

I love aspec people who project onto Grace.

I love allo people who find Grace aroace.

I love you Project Hail Mary fandom for making me and many other aspec people feel seen in a way not many fandoms do.

[introvertathome]

I have never seen a fandom be so open with an aro/ace character

I love that Grace gets to be every flavor of it, moving along the entire spectrum, without an issue

[theloverislost]

as we are rapidly approaching pride month, here’s an obligatory reminder!

AROMANTIC PEOPLE

ASEXUAL PEOPLE

AND AROACE PEOPLE

ALL BELONG IN THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY

I WILL REMOVE EVERY BONE IN YOUR BODY IF YOU SAY OTHERWISE

[queercripintersex]

I'ma "yes and" this and also reminder:

INTERSEX PEOPLE

ALSO BELONG IN THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY

Because I see way too many people implying that cishet is the opposite of LGBTQ+! There are cis het asexuals, cis het aromatics, and cis het intersex people!

The opposite of queer is non-queer!

Remember there are cishet members in the community!

[jazzyloveswomen]

Perisex trans people you have to actually listen to intersex people and not just occasionally remember we exist when it's time to use us as a talking point. This means you need to accept that our relationships with things like agab and sig will be fundamentally different from perisex people's. This means you need to accept that we will not fit neatly into any model in which you separate people or make assumptions on lived experiences or needs based on agab.

[vicprobably]

hey guys I miss kitkat duo

[aroacedm]

new chapter of my vsmp fic!

bit short cause i split it into two with the last chapter

An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Works

[iamshmolphrog]

woahwaohhahwow!! check this out!! @ranidaee's oc who is green! next up I think my good buddy Troy's Sam.........and if you are like 'woah you should draw MY oc' then go ahead and send 'em in! and I may draw them! for practice! yayyyy I love hearing about people's little guys :)

EDIT: I made a mistake this is actually @aroacedm's oc!! apologies!!

[powcreations]

Introducing: Pantheon SMP ⛈️

Coming to Youtube: LATE JULY!

[iamshmolphrog]

BELOVED MUTUALS !!!!

lend me your aid!! I want to practice digital art and also learn about my awesome moots' awesome ocs :))) so! if you wanna, reblog this with ur ocs/sonas and I will improve and practice my epic art skillz by drawing them :)))) (tags under the cut)

@ucallmetroy @mal-dot-colm @atomicraft @astranite

[aroacedm]

yay!!!

no pressure to do any of mine lol but i put a couple so you have options

to anyone reading this i am ALWAYS open to yapping about these guys