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the most ideal date

you and your partner(s) spend an afternoon establishing safe touches and cuddling together. maybe on a bed or maybe just on a couch or a really big chair. each person takes turns saying and showing how they like to be touched

a hand smoothing slowly down your ribs, across your hip, and to your thigh

or nails dragging lightly across the inside of your arm, kind of ticklish but in that pleasant soothing sensation

thumbs rubbing circles into your hips or the heel of your foot or across your knuckles

saying what you don’t like–certain positions that bring back bad memories or body parts that are Not OK to touch. saying any of the above is not OK and making new suggestions. I don’t like having the back of my neck touched ever, but it’s grounding when you put your hand on top of my chest. Missionary position actually scares me a lot. I don’t like people on top of me when I’m on my back. I love being the little spoon though!

your partner(s) go through their list too, maybe just saying it out loud, maybe taking your hands to run them across their body to show you. actually knowing what they want and what makes them feel happy and safe without trying to guess and feeling awkward.

they know what touches are safe and comforting to you too, and you spend the whole afternoon cuddling and touching each other, maybe trading back massages for head scritches or foot rubs. none of it is sexual. maybe just not yet, maybe not ever.

quick little kisses all over your face until you’re laughing and blushed red, maybe a tickle fight retaliation

watching a documentary or reading a book or listening to music. each of you doing different things and that’s OK, you’re enjoying your different things separately but still together, still poking each other to show something cool, still shoving your cold feet against their warm skin, or maybe you’re not touching at all and that’s what’s Safe, warm glances and smiles just as intimate

nothing is scary and there’s no pressure. just a sunny afternoon laying in bed, whispering to each other, learning how to be good and happy

bigwizardhat

i think green is the best color. like it’s not my favorite, but it’s the best out of all of them. if you disagree i’m going to kill you so hard and so fast

givemearmstopraywith

remember that the real justice system is the grassroots activists, rioters, protesters, fighters- the people who literally bled at the hands of the system last summer. this fight is ceaseless. first chauvin, then the system.

oldfarmhousefallfeatures

perfect green & subway tiles with open shelving

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thenordroom

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ratbeast

Late tonight a bunch of staff are playing a game called role call and if you thought fugitive was wild just w a i t until i tell you how this goes cause role call is absolutely terrifying

We aren’t letting the campers play it so that lets us up the scare factor by 147%

ratbeast

Ok so the game had to be pushed back a few days so we can figure out scheduling so heres the gist of it.

The more people you have for this game, the better. It has to happen at night. The people get into a straight line, and begin to walk in that line all around the area. They cannot turn around and look at each other, and cannot speak; with the exception of the person at the front of the line.

That persons job is to begin the role call. They simply say, “Role Call!” And their name, then each person down the line says their name in turn.

Here’s the kicker: there’s one person not included in the line. The Taker. They have the job of stealing away the person at the end of the line as silently as possible. The game’s sole purpose is to instill a sense of fear and paranoia in whoever is in front, because as more people get taken, there are less and less people to say their names during the Role Call.

The front person decides when they want to start the Role Call. Obviously, the more often it’s said, the less scary it is. But as more and more people disappear, they become Takers and can then do more damage than just the one.

Some Takers can replace the person they stole, making the person directly in front of them either incredibly paranoid or safe. At least until the Role Call. Takers cannot say anything during it, so it usually ends up more terrifying to know that the person behind you is silent. Again, everyone in the line cannot make a sound except responding to the Role Call.

The game is over when the person in front is taken. There is no winning, only waiting. Waiting for your turn to go. Imagine the fear that person in front has, when they softly announce “Role Call” only to find that everyone behind them is gone.

Not exactly a game for the weak willed.

artnibbles

I played a kid friendly version at camp when I was 10! This would be so much fun as an adult!

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weaver-z

Why do right-wing memes make us look so cool. I support these gay anarchists and their dog backpack

ambermaitrejean

one-time-i-dreamt

A tall, thin blonde person of indeterminate gender was watching me. They were very tall, dressed like David Bowie and had a German accent. They took a big drag of their cigarette and said, “You know, the problem with you humans is you give away every part of your self until there is nothing left.” I looked down at my body, and my entire torso had been hollowed out. Everything inside had been replaced with black and silver machines. They blew out a big cloud of cigarette smoke and told me, “Just because you exist by accident doesn’t make it any less meaningful.”