If you only knew..

My name is Ashley, and I have been on tumblr for about 6 miserable years now. I am 26. I was born and raised in California but now I live in South Carolina (unfortunately). I love food (I'm VEGANⓋ), video games, movies, art, and music. I'm in school for electrical engineering (sorta lol). I don't have one of those quality blogs, but who does? Lol. You probably do. If you wanna be my friend.. Just say hi.

[adhdmoi]

im a simple gal. people raise their voices at me, i cry for an hour

[superdankpics]

[officialaudreykitching-deactiva]

‪Physical sickness showing up right now can be related to all this lower dimensional energy clearing out. It’s called a healing crisis, you feel way worse before you feel better. This will pass, it’s part of the process as the body and dna is evolving to hold more light.‬

[jays--wing]

if she’s YOUR girl, why’s she using MY crafting table?

[inahiddenplace]

how we act alone when we don’t feel like we have witnesses.. that is the genuine self.. me walking around my room punching the air talking to myself in a bad southern accent, that’s ME baby. you’re never going to know me like i know me. haha.

[dancingonthestars-deactivated20]

@tarynel I feel attacked 😂

[dankmemeuniversity]

[coffee-khaleesi-deactivated2020]

When I was training to be a battered women’s advocate, my supervisor said something that really blew my mind:

“You can always assume one thing about your clients; and that is that they are doing their best. Always assume everyone is doing their best. And if they’re having a day where their best just isn’t that great, or their best doesn’t look like your best, you have to be okay with that.”

Any now whenever anyone in my life, either a friend or a client, frustrates me, disappoints me, or pisses me off, I just tell myself They are doing their best. Their best isn’t that great today, but I have days where my best isn’t that great either. 

[bogfox]

Op I’d like to thank you for sharing this. Ever since the first time I’ve read it I’ve held it in my mind and it really has helped me to be kinder to others and to myself.

[jehovahhthickness]

This shit right here

[granny-core]

I think many of us need a space for softness, kindness and warmth these days. It’s so easy to fall into nihilism and hopelessness the way things are now, and difficult to remember that we’ve still got eachother. You deserve a space to recharge and feel loved and welcome.

[nudityandnerdery]

See, what you need to understand is that “Not all guys like that” is never going to work. Because you’re answering an entirely different conversation than what women are actually saying.

You think women are saying “Every man is a predator and a danger to me.” And you’re replying, “But I’m not like that.”

But women aren’t saying that. They’re saying “There are too many situations where women have to worry about their safety,” and you’re saying “That’s not important.” They’re saying “Women are constantly told it’s their fault if something bad happens,” and you’re saying “Don’t worry about it.” They’re saying “Too often, women find their trust violated by men,” and you’re saying “But you should trust me!”

They’re saying “So many men have decided that what they want is more important than anything about a woman.” And you’re replying “I’m exactly like that.”

[rainnecassidy]

bolded for emphasis

[actualnymph]

whenever i see a girl complaining abt her shitty boyfriend and she says that “guys are just like that!” i’m always so sad, because i know girls that are in happy and healthy romantic relationships with men! having a crappy, horrible boyfriend is not something that’s inevitable if you like men. if a man isn’t fulfilling your needs or if he’s simply just a piece of crap, you don’t have to stay in a relationship with him. not to be cliché, but not all men are like that!!! if your man ain’t shit, find a better one!!! it’ll all be alright, please realise and admit to yourself that you deserve better, and that better is out there!!! you need to put yourself first.

[imperfect--king-deactivated2019]

[disasterbisexual-moved]

LET YOUR ART BE UGLY!!! LET YOUR WRITING BE BAD!!! DANCE OFFBEAT!!! SING OFF KEY!!! LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO LET YOUR FEAR OF NOT BEING GOOD ENOUGH PREVENT YOU FROM LEARNING AND ENJOYING NEW THINGS!!! 

[prettyandmean]

Your APOLOGY needs to be as loud as your DISRESPECT was

[ruinsmami]

If someone seriously wants to be a part of your life they will seriously make an effort to be in it. no reasons no excuses.

[krogersss]

[keeyawnuh]

The bad bitch in me will come out soon, it’s on break right now