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[astral-bpd]

Imma slowly move everything in this blog over to @nothingweirdhere

[cryptidhunterrobert]

Zombies aren't cryptids, as the classification for cryptids is the possibility of them being real with no real substantial evidence to back it up (the definition varies person to person, but this is basically it), whereas zombies are merely creatures of sci-fi that, while there's a possibility of them becoming real in the future, its accepted by p much everyone that they're fake right now

hey guess what go fuck yourself

[astral-bpd]

Zombies are NOT sci-fi. The first recorded use of the English word zombie was in 1819, and zombies themselves are from Haitian folklore (written as either zombi or zonbi in French or creole respectively)

[astral-bpd]

When you caption videos, please don't add jokes.

[moonfalchion5555555555555-deact]

[fangirlinginleatherboots]

so my mom works at pre-school style program run by an occupational therapy clinic for young kids with ADHD and/or Autism who are either unable to attend or have gotten kicked out of “normal” pre-school. the aim of the program is to teach them simple self-regulation behaviors so that they can return to a school environment, be it special-ed or with all the other students. having both of those disorders, i sometimes am able to help them tweak the program to be more affective and yesterday I had a little idea thats honestly going to change everything, even for me.

TUMMY-CHECK

when children get upset, they learn to excuse themselves to go to the calm down corner until they can regulate themselves better. i came up with the idea that before they are allowed to go back to class they have to ask themselves three things:

Am I hungry?

Am I sick?/Does it hurt?

Do I need to use the bathroom?

because honestly??? as a person with both ADHD and Autism, my body doesnt tell me that stuff. I have to actively think, “do I need this or am i that” because my body isn’t processing the internal sensory input of my stomach and bladder. it gets to a point where i get very angry and very upset and stand up to go storm off and then suddenly realize, im not upset, i just really need to pee. or even, im not angry at all, im just kinda hungry. I even mentioned this idea to my therapist today, who’s son has ADHD, and she’s going to implement it for him too, since he often wont notice until it’s too late.

anyway, if you or a child you’re looking after or whoever are upset and cant figure out why, try doing a tummy check, because sometimes the fix can be that simple and our bodies just don’t tell us that information until we ask <3

[ruinedchildhood]

[astral-bpd]

One of my friends on social media: "send this to 20 friends, if they're too lazy to send it back they aren't worth your time"

My ADHD ass: we can't all be neurotypical Karen

[astral-bpd]

me, thinking I'm talking normally: *says stuff*

someone: hey kiddo turn down the volume

[wheaterss-deactivated20180822]

are you a “clear, clean, empty inbox” adhd or a “999+ emails and im not clearing it out any time soon” adhd

[astral-bpd]

Either I hyperfixate on reading or I don’t read at all, there is no in between

[astral-bpd]

I'm screaming I finally got to read the results from my psych evaluation from over a year ago and it's like "yeah you might have ADHD and SPD and maybe ASD you should probably get that checked out" AND NOBODY TOLD ME THIS AND I HAVENT HAD ANY FURTHER TESTING And at the end there's this list of coping mechanisms and accommodations my school could provide, but ofc I never read the list and my school did nothing. Also apparently me having a high IQ might be why I have signs of autism and ADHD. Because that's a thing???? I don't get it

[astral-bpd]

Terfs: transgendereds are men who want to invade women's spaces and claim womanhood for themselves

Me, a trans man: *laughing so hard I'm crying*

[astral-bpd]

Some fucking terf: transphobia isn't real

The trans people murdered/abused/assaulted/harassed for being trans: *sigh*

[astral-bpd]

Terfs are gross

That's all. Please feel free to continue being transphobic assholes

[r-n-w]

It’s time for another MASTER PACK giveaway!

Your chance to win:

The Game Master’s Kit Deluxe The Full Multi-Classing Pack The Complete Set of 12 Class Specific Character Sheets

RULES:

Must be following me! New followers are welcome!

Only REBLOGS count

Reblog as many times as you like!

No giveaway blogs

An extra 5 winners will be announced at 5000 followers (making a total of 10 winners!)

You must be willing to provide your email address so I can send you your prize

Deadline is the 20th of July 2017, 4pm GMT.

Winners will be randomly selected and notified via inbox

It’s so close to 5000 followers now, I’m pretty sure there’ll be 10 winners this time. Good luck everyone!! 🎲

[astral-bpd]

I follow from nothingweirdhere

[astral-bpd]

Ok but sometimes being touched makes me physically ill but I don’t know how to explain that I’m uncomfortable without being offensive so I say nothing and I still feel gross hours later

[astral-bpd]

Like logically I know that I could just say “hey I’m not feeling up to this rn please stop” but that makes me feel like a Bad Partner™

[astral-bpd]

Ok but sometimes being touched makes me physically ill but I don’t know how to explain that I’m uncomfortable without being offensive so I say nothing and I still feel gross hours later