Synastry observations (partly) based on personal experience, part 6:
(18+!!)
(Back after a year! Lolππ)
Moon conjunct mars: can be one sided asfuhck. Iβve seen it play out. Fully accepting that deeply personal intimacy of having someoneβs sex aspecting your deepest emotions and/or the other way around is a sort of intimacy that some people just.. donβtβ¦. want with that other person. This comes as a shocker because to most people, having a synastry aspect automatically means you have to like that with the other person, but Some people are just not into the other person like that! Or have trouble with intimacy. And even though the very primal emotional bridge between (possible) intensity of emotions and (possible) intensity of sexuality really βclicksβ and hits like no other, it doesnβt mean that the emotions or sexuality of both of the people will be intense within themselvesβ¦ or that they will be seen in the same way. Many times Iβve seen this aspect play out in two people who worked really well together, were natural kissers and such, had almost iconically amazing fullfilling sex together, but one person wanted to marry and move into the other person and the other person simply did not want that, got the ick maybe, or simply closed themselves off from that meaning to the connection that one party attached to it but they themselves could not get in touch with, and either abused that power dynamic as much as they could or they ran away. Meanwhile thatother person, and Iβve seen both the moon and the mars person in that situation, is left completely addicted and insecure and an unstable mess because of this, because this aspects didnβt cause them so much to be in love, it caused them to have an addiction to this perfectly fullfilling passion and intimacy that they fundamentally lack in their life. They wanted to marry this person because of that. A friend (the mars person) of mine once puked when they saw their recent mars-conjunct-moon-synastey ex (it was a 1,5 month relationship) walk into a room. He later discovered that for some reason, that extremely intense feeling heartbreak didnβt really have anything to do with her, but more about the affection he lacked from an absent parent in his childhood, and the (obvious to everyone else) fact that he was bordering on a complete burn-out. He desperately needed that dopamine and those endorphins. Meanwhile the moon person was nowhere near in the headspace to have that kind of emotional intimacy so fast in her 1st relationship, so she started finding him less and less attractive, and then it was over. I once had an international student (moon) I think fall in love with me (and later stalk me) after 2 dates. He was a lonely international student in this Nordic country and his mother was sick in Egypt. We could not hold an interesting conversation on our own if we tried, but we were -very good kissers-and the almost-sex was extremely good. I didnβt want to cross that line, because for lack of better words I felt like it would go on to mean too much, be too emotional and too intimate and the thought crossing that border with him gave me the ick/ a fight or flight response, like I would just let this man be wayy too intimate with me if it happened, so I cut it off π€·ββοΈ All the hormones of interpreting yourself to be totally βin loveβ are there in the synastry, but itβs not *really* that, and most people in the sorry position even secretely know that, even though itβs confusing because they forever remain adamant that there here was something bomb in their connection.. because there was. But imagine: the moon feels emotionally hit in their core by marsβsβ¦ sexuality/attractiveness. Mars sees the deepest inner emotions of the moon and feelsβ¦ turned on. You see where Iβm going with this? The intensity and intimacy is great, but for a real love connection you need synastry on things that lead to mental, spiritual and emotional connectivity too. Can you even have a good conversation with this person for longer than 25 minutes? Do you even.. care about them? and vice versa? Would you love them if they were a worm? I have even more stories but theyβre for another time πββοΈ
Moon trine mars: so. This one is kind of different. What do I mean? Well I believe that in synastry aspects, planetary influence comes to exist in the context of the aspect. Mars conjunct a planet will get all of mars. Mars square a planet will get the worst/most challenging side of mars (brought out by both). Mars opposite will get the antihero kind of mars -the conjunct mars on a possible (and needed) character delevopment journey if you will- and mars trine and sextile will get the harmonious benific, kind of βangelicβ sides of mars. He becomes the Aiden from Sex And The City, the soft woodchipper. This mars is in relation to the moon person a 10th house oriented, responsibility taking man who makes you laugh in the form of making you smile. The moon person becomes enamored with the mars personβs standing for something, his way of solving problems, overcoming obstacles, his professionality and his energetic form of taking action. The mars here becomes the kind of mars that is serious about protecting and heartily keeping what he feels is hitting his mars, instead of fighting with it or having sex with it necessarily. The moonβs emotional being becomes like his healthy objective, that he will protect and will fight/work himself up for in a way that he can control. A trine is harmonious which is kind of how youβll see the mars person get into that civilised and gentlemanly role (to the emotions of the!!π) moon partner. Where mars squaring the moon is like a mean alcoholic to the moon, the mars trining the moon will be a driven, shaved man in a suit or a spencer, kissing his wife goodbye before going to work. The moon in this aspect is different too: like water, the moons energy decides to flow depending on the factors and tides of the environment: If the moon has no reason to feel stabbed all the time, the moon wonβt act overly sensitive or insecure or reactive to every little thing. Being shown the harmonious and safe/secure part of such a powerful planet like mars, the moon person will let their guard down big time. Typically, in this aspect, the moon person opens up, becomes very emotionally comfortable and shows their real and raw private selves to the mars person in a way that even surprises the mars person. There will be lots of oohs and aahs from the mars person who is *absolutely thrilled* to discover that the moon person is actually way softer than they come across in their personality, or more insecure than they wear on their sleeve, or are actually way weirder than anyone would expect. This is like an emotional theme in the relationship for mars. Granted to mars, it actually is a kind of odd way of special, because Real selves are often only shown to others in despair, crisis, moments of survival, very few deep talks, or during sex, but here the moon person is comfortable being their quirky and complete and utter selves with the mars person just during βdaylightβ so to speak, as if they were alone in their room doing a talk show monologue in the mirror. Itβs because mars made themselves this safe haven but is also a good reason to get excited and happy. So this aspect isnβt so much about physical/primary (so sexual attraction) passionate intimacy as you see, it becomes a personality thing of more mental and earthy(?) substance imo. In couples this aspect creates a forever-kind of βfondnessβ of each other. In this relationship itβs the sex that becomes the highest feat of romantic bonding, not commitment to each other or affirming affection like with the conjunct or the square, which needs those components to make or strengthen the connection as a romantic one.
Mars conjunct mercury: best friends aspect! Being able to talk for hours, do any activity together, spend an entire day doing stuff together or going to a daylong event with just the two of you without it ever being awkward. Being able to do groceries together for a pregame with each other before going to do an activity that youβll also be doing together. Energy, jokes, and things to talk about never run out. Marsβs energy lets mercuryβs thoughts and mind race through multiple subjects and important comments at once, and mercuryβs thoughts excite slash fire up marsβs energy. Their response becomes fuel for mercury again and so fort. I know two best friends who have this in double whammy almost exact and they are *always* together. Like in the same day, they would hang out, go to do something else/hang out with someone else, then go hang out with each other again, then in the evening one would visit the other at work. I have this aspect with one good friend that I can talk for hours with. Catching up is never awkward and we constantly learn from each other, plus weβre interested in the same things, because his mind/daily thoughts/the things he pays attention to and tells me (his mercury), fires me up and consistently happens to catch my fixation (mars). And what I *do* in my life, the things that were motivation by nature of taking action, triggers his insight! Isnβt that the perfect combination? This aspect makes you very good and close friends, but this alone doesnβt grant an emotional bond. Those two best friends I talked about lacked in moon connections, so they kept surprisingly much of their feelings and what went on in their life/emotional world private from one another, including crushes they had on mutual friends π like how was that possible?
Moon square moon: a link is a link, an attachment is an attachment, so moon square moon is that too. You will βseeβ each other for who that person emotionally is from the inside. You will acknowledge it, you can even understand it, but trying to emotionally βrelateβ or connect to the otherβs emotional world causes a short-circuit. This sounds like a finished deal, and marriage it often is. This aspect imo means kind of sacrifing a part of crucial understanding of the other partner. But there is another important part: some people do not have moon to moon aspects in their partnerships. Some people can connect with a moon through their sun mercury venus and mars for example, but not be able to deeply feel the other person next to them with their own moon, like whatβs possible in a moon to moon aspect. With moon square moon, the two people deeply *see* each other. Itβs hard not to because the friction of the square makes them very neon noticable to each other. One moon person might not be able to touch or soothe the other moon person from and with their own emotional angle, because through the square it will inherently cause a (n immediate often) frictive disconnect, but their presence will be enough. They will learn from each other and with enough respect for the other, (seriously) they will be able to teach themselves how to manually get their moons to relate, by in their empathy intuitively touching and patting to learn what the other person feels, and sleutelingen on their own emotional patterns. With the man I had this with. I completely saw and understood how he was. We, to each otherβs emotional automatic ways of thinking, understood each other, but could never relate, so in our most intimate conversations we saw each other raw, but were also like.. damn,, you live like this? you do you! π
Male Venus conjunct womanβs moon, but the man has venus square moon natal: so this is really too specific, I know, itβs from my personal life, but the observation is such an almost lawful rule that it needs to be said. So the natal venus square moon man has a problem with women in a romantic or otherwise emotionally intimate sense. He either sees them as charmless but safe, emotional, and boring βkinβ, who fullfills his emotional needs, clicks with his inner emotional world, but in a way that cannot fullfill his romantic wants because they fundamentally clash, or he sees them as these charming, pretty, sexy sensual creative people or muses that fullfill his wants and desires, but cannot fullfill his emotional needs because they fundamentally do not mesh/are not able to βmeltβ with each other. So men with this aspect are doomed to have a lonely romantic life where they deeply hurt a lot of women but in the long run also themselves. This is ofc unless the man is capable of self reflection and is willing to do the work and *respect* the challenges that squares require you to work on, but since misogyny is a thing, that challenge and perceived radically different worldview of the woman he meets practically never gets respected, found interesting or compelling enough for the man to study, or get romanticised like the way in which women will handle a natal moon square mars for example. BUT! If a womanβs moon conjuncts that squared venus, they kind of crack the code in a weird sense!? And become sort of βthe only woman that can tame this man blabla that he actually respectsβ. Because the woman becomes like a domineering mother to him. In his moon square/battle/tension her moon, so where his emotional βneedsβ are challenged by another personβs needs, his moon yields to the womanβs moon because his venus is enamored by the womanβs moon emotional world. You will get two people who are weirdly intimate friends, because both square moons emotionally βacknowlegdeβ each otherβs emotional life and wavelength, in a kind of bizarre to witness way that will have the woman wear the pants and the often so misogynistic and macho guy follow her and her needs around like a (doggo)π, acting like each otherβs bf/gf, but sitting too close to each other?? Kissing? The thought of having s**?? Will make them revolt. From an astrological standpoint, this may be the most significant planetary relationship with a woman that this man will ever have in his life.
A womanβs venus conjunct that sort of manβs moon I have never seen, only conjunct other planets, but I imagine it would be the same but the other way around at the same time. I think she would be only possible romantically intimate partner for the man, the only girlfriend to exist, only girl that he can wholeheartedly register as βgirlfriendβ, who will hold that *romantic* muse place forever, the only one to forever fullfill his emotional needs like a romantic partner does and can, but he doesnβt like her as a person, he couldnβt be friends with her, canβt talk with her, was never even his type, wants to cheat on her, canβt admire her really. This female venus is the sensual and sexual but disrespected girlfriend to the female moonβs sexless but elevated wife. If that man ruled the world and had all the money and the woman who marries him would win the universe, these were both equally bad but extremley solid places you would want to be in, because youβd be one of the only two women that he will ever seriously consider in his life.
Venus square jupiter: I have this with almost every man I get involved with, because their venus is in that way also conjuncting my scorpio sun and mercury. Iβve found with these people that they are confused if they should be charmed by the grand/optimistic/philosophical side of me, or cringe. Either way they are overwhelmed. Venus in crush-mode will be especially interested in jupiters views and opinions and outlook on situations and jupiter is enthusiastic about the romantic muse that they see in venus and become a kind of a philosophical rant-y person near them, in a good way, because they see venus as an equally inspiring and interesting and beautiful (big ideas and emotions) creative peer of their outlook on life. Venus listens and is in awe. Jupiter is like a positive-energy bomber to venus and venus can be confused, overwhelmed, but very butterfly-prone and wants to be swept in. This is an aspect where the other knows or can relate to what the other is feeling the least, because jupiter is making venus live in their own world and venus is only thinking out loud in their own head. Astrologers say this easily dies out because of it, like an inflated balloon, but I donβt agree. Donβt let your relationship completely ride on this aspect alone and youβll be fine and it wonβt end with a big bang, but stay flickering like smoldering fire like any other venus or jupiter aspect.
Saturn conjunct moon: saturn wants to snatch moon off the market and moon is like βyeesssssβ
Mars overlaying 8th house: itβs true what they sayβ¦ i wonβt elaborate πΆβπ«οΈ just kidding I will of course. Having been the 8th house person, itβs actually very straightforward: whenever we talked about serious matters like trauma, (lost) finances, our heritage, and our secrets, fears, thatβs when I became most attracted to his masculine/sexual side. Those were the moments I would find myself like βdaymβ, just like a 7th house having mars overlay there would have that during moments of romance and partnership.
Moon opposite mars: I talk about this aspect a lot because it just fascinates me. Moon opposite mars in the context of all the other mars aspects is almost funny because in the beginning, when the insane kind of unsettling attraction is noticed between two people, mars doesnβt really want to be in this situation and moon doesnβt like the fact that it exists at all. I feel like itβs a karmic aspect for mars and somewhat for the moon. Moon will feel every single jab from this aspect but because that jab fundamentally hits them in their *feelings* they will just think: βwhat was that, what even is that? Who is this mars person making me feel single intense emotion at once?β Even typing this synastry aspect out is making me laugh. Itβs moon doing what? Opposing. Oh god. And the lucky planet itβs being opposed isβ¦ mars ππ€¦ββοΈπ€¦ββοΈ! Imagine the moon one day going like: βf*ck you! And you, and you, and you,β then pointing to mars βand ESPECIALLY you!β Mars turning around and saying: βwhat are you saying f*ck me for?β looks at moon, boom, falls in love. Kind of disrespectful, but it isnβt meant that way? Which can in short make the connection even more uncomfortable for the moon, or completely the opposite. The intrigue in this aspect lies in how fundamentally foreign (because theyβre opposites!!) these people are to each other. This aspect is an up and down and up and down one, because to have the closeness that they both desire and even need, they have to do the work and understanding to become closer and win each otherβs trust and affirmation. Mars is challenged to channel powerful frictive energy from the fixation that the opposition creates into creating an environment that caters to the moonβs emotional needs. It challenges itself to encompass all of marsβs qualities, both the ying (harmonious) and the yang (not necessarily that) in a hyperaware manner, and thatβs one of the reasons he comes to have like βmultiple personalitiesβ in this aspect. It doesnβt help that mars always manages to come across the wrong way to the moon person, can hurt the moon unintentionally, but can also in a burst of martian energy try to fight with the moon when aggravated (caused by their opposing natures), can come across too sexual and disrespectful by the moon person when they intensely show their attraction and preferred treatment to the moon. When Mars tries to be nice, it doesnβt come natural for them to do that imagining what the completely opposite person would want. When mars succeeds, a very real and mental bond is created that is extremely raw. In the healthy romantic version of this, the moon isnβt really easy sex for mars like Iβve seen male astrologers describe it. Iβve seen men describe it as βdeerβ, which can create reaally different outlooks depending on your respect and goodwill to the more vurnurable person. Goodwill especially can make or break this aspect. I feel like this can either be one of the most pain-in-your-stomach disrespectful cortisol aspects, or the sweetest and most genuine and wholsesome emotionally intimate aspects.
Observations on the planet mars which represents our passions, ambitions, anger, sex drive in astrology. Whatβs ur mars placement? My mars placement is in Leo 6H 21Β° (Sagittarius).
Mars in Aries, 1h, 1Β° ,13Β° ,25Β°: Your passions etc could be your appearance, body, you can be quick to anger, you can have a passionate drive and ambition. You could be into passionate or more aggressive sex.
Mars in Taurus, 2h, 2Β°, 14Β° ,26Β°: Your passions etc can be beauty, aesthetics, finances, romances, you can be more calm / less tempered. Your drive can be based on your stability, finances, and your relationships.
Mars in Gemini, 3h, 3Β°, 15Β° ,27Β°: Your passions etc can be communication, school, the internet, you can use communication with your passion. Your drive can be based on communication and you could be into explicit talk.
Mars in Cancer, 4h, 4Β°, 16Β° ,28Β°: Your passions etc can be home, family, emotions, you can use your emotions with your passion. Your drive can be based on emotions, and you could be into breeding and breasts.
Mars in Leo, 5h, 5Β°, 17Β° ,29Β°: Your passions etc can be creativity, fun, romance, talents, you can use your creativity with your passion.
Mars in Virgo, 6h, 6Β°, 18Β°: Your passions etc can be work, animals, being organized, you can use your organization and logic with your passion.
Mars in Libra, 7h, 7Β°, 19Β°: Your passions etc can be your beauty, relationships, romantic relationships, business partners, contracts, you can use your balance and relationships with your passions.
Mars in Scorpio, 8h, 8Β°, 20Β°: Your passions etc can be taboo, the occult, wealth, intimacy, you can use your power etc with your passions.
Mars in Sagittarius, 9h, 9Β°, 21Β°: Your passions etc can be learning, traveling, adventure, beliefs, you can use your knowledge and beliefs with your passions.
Mars in Capricorn, 10h, 10Β°, 22Β°: Your passions etc can be career, work, being more serious, you can use your seriousness and ambition with your passions.
Mars in Aquarius, 11h, 11Β°, 23Β°: Your passions etc can be your friendships, technology, manifestation, you can use your ideas and friendships with your passions.
Mars in Pisces, 12h, 12Β°, 24Β°: Your passions etc can be your romances, sensitivity, sleep, spirituality, you can use your spirituality and sensitivity with your passions.
When using astrology to consider your compatibility with a mate or potential mate, most women employ sun-sign astrology simply because itβs the most common and well-known form of Western astrology; itβs what theyβre most familiar with.
But in an emotional relationship, the sun sign takes a backseat to the moon sign.Β The moon sign reflects how your man finds his emotional security.Β It tells you how he feels, or if he feels (much) at all.Β It indicates his emotional needs and how he relates to you on an emotional level.Β Without this knowledge, you could be severely misled by considering your partnerβs sun sign alone.
Before we consider the 12 moon signs, letβs figure out which one belongs to your man, or men, in question.Β If you have his natal chart, you know the answer already.Β If you know his birth time, you can go to www.astro.com, click on βfree horoscopeβ and find out in an instant.
If you only know his birthday and year, you can at least narrow it down to two different moon signs.Β And theyβre so different it shouldnβt be hard for you to discern which of the two is his.Β To do this, simply Google βephemerisβ and the year of his birth. Β Find the day he was born and the ephemeris will give you the information you seek.Β You may need a decoder, however; if you donβt know the glyphs (symbols) for each of the signs and planets, go here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Natal_astrology.
Even if you have no clue about the moon sign of the man youβre interested in, you might be able to read these 12 descriptions and figure it out, especially if you know him well.Β This list considers the effect of the moon sign on men only.Β Iβll talk about women and their moon signs another time, although there will be strong similarities, of course.
WHAT A MAN IS REALLY LIKE ON AN EMOTIONAL LEVEL (according to his moon sign):Β
ARIES
An Aries moon gets his emotional security through asserting his will, chasing his desires and always getting his way.Β If he doesnβt get his way, heβll throw a fit β and it might be a very spectacular tantrum, complete with thrown objects, kicking and screaming.Β It will only last five minutes, but if you are a water sign (Cancer, Scorpio or Pisces), you will be scarred for life.Β Itβs best to have a sun and/or moon in a fire sign (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius) or air sign (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius) if youβre going to contend with this emotionally selfish man.
One good thing is he will always tell you what he wants.Β But then heβll try to get it no matter what, even if youβve said βno.β
He may feel love for you now but he may not feel love for you tomorrow.Β So donβt expect those great outpourings of emotion and desire to be repeated every year on your anniversary.Β In fact, this is not the best man to have anniversaries with.Β The relationship outlook for an Aries moon, if youβre trying to connect with him over the long-term, is not extremely fortunate.Β But if you want a nice three-week fling, you may find him to be as emotionally in tune with you during that time than anyone else ever has been.
TAURUS
A Taurus moon gets his emotional security through stability, routine, and both material and sensual comforts.
It may take him a while to warm up to you and realize heβs in love.Β Could take several years.Β But once he makes that commitment in his heart, or realizes it was there all along, he will never go back.Β A Taurus moon is like a lobster, he loves for life.
His temper isnβt quite as volatile as the tantrum-throwing Arian moon, but itβs still there, under the surface, just waiting for you to piss him off β which you can do easily by simply asking him to change any of his habits, routines or interests.
GEMINI
A Gemini moon gets his emotional security through expressing his feelings, learning new things and having a variety of fun experiences.Β He is much like Peter Pan.Β Heβs very young at heart, loves to have fun and is always flying about β mentally and physically, but especially emotionally.Β He has a hard time deciding what he really wants and what really feeds him emotionally.Β If heβs ordering for the two of you at a restaurant, youβll be lucky if the place doesnβt close for the night before he decides, even if youβre there for lunch.Β And heβll talk so much it will take forever for him to finish his food.
He has a lot of great ideas and a lot of ideas that are just simply, well, ideas.Β Heβs going to express all of them to you β including some that (if you have your sun, moon, Mercury or Venus in a water sign) might even offend you, although that is never his intention.Β He wears his heart on his sleeve and he will tell you a thousand times how much he loves you.Β And you thought you couldnβt hear those words too much?Β Heβll tell you exactly how he feels about you and the relationship.
By and large, a Gemini moon wants to keep things fun and light.Β Heβs a good writer and communicator, and expressing how he feels about anything is a must if heβs going to feel emotionally secure with you.Β If you want a man who isnβt afraid to talk about his feelings, this one is the jackpot.Β But remember, thatβs what heβs feeling when he says it.Β Five years, months or minutes from now, he might feel totally different.Β And you might actually be able to discern his emotional needs more adeptly than he can!Β
Emotionally, a Gemini moon is very well suited to love two partners at the same time.Β I donβt mean like a MFF threesome, although he would be the first in line for one of those (because heβs quick enough to jump in front of all the Scorpios and Virgos), but Gemini moons always enjoy focusing on two (or more) things at once β two projects, two jobs, two topics of conversation, two relationships.Β Yes, heβs the one with a beer in each hand, although he might just be holding them for his Pisces and Scorpio pals.Β Β Β Β Β
CANCER
A Cancer moon gets his emotional security through nurturing and being nurtured, through mothering and being mothered, and through being a nurturing mother and being nurtured by a nurturing mother.Β I hope Iβve made my point.Β He wants to be saved or he wants to save you, preferably both.
He will have his share of mood swings so be prepared. Β Heβs super sensitive so be careful what you say to him, especially about your relationship and your feelings for him.Β He will hold onto his past hurts and he may need some therapy from you to help him let go of all the past relationships that hurt him β and trust me, all of his past relationships have hurt him!
If you want to know what heβll be like as a partner, ask him about his mother.Β She was and is and always will be the strongest influence in his life.Β And if youβve ever wanted to do that kinky mother-son roleplay thing (Iβm not judging, Iβm just sayinβ), this is your man!
LEO
A Leo moon gets his emotional security through being creative and romantic, and mostly from being adored by you and others.Β If youβre young and hot, or either one, thatβs a big turn-on for him.Β He loves both the chase and the catch, and he will catch you if he desires you.Β
Heβs charming and loves pleasure, and if he doesnβt get loving from you to placate his childish need for it, he will look for it elsewhere.Β Β Heβs a good poly partner because heβll make you think youβre the only one he loves, and heβll have the freedom to pursue others so heβll never get cranky with you.Β Well, not never, but almost never.Β
His emotions may be up and down and they are linked to his ability to express himself.Β If he canβt do this through sex, he may do this with art.Β If youβve got a headache, give him a paint brush and a new set of acrylics.Β But donβt expect this to satisfy him for more than one night.
VIRGO
A Virgo moon gets his emotional security by being productive, organized and as perfect as possible.
This moon wants to help and give to others.Β They absolutely love sex and need to have it constantly in order to feel good about themselves.Β And since they want everything to be perfect in their life, they are quite capable of giving you the exact type of emotional bond that works for you.Β If you are a water sun or moon and want him to be deeply and intensely in love with you, he can do that.Β If you want him to be more detached emotionally, he can do that, too.Β He may not be able to understand your feelings, but he can adapt to them.
Above everything else, a male Virgo moon feels good when he makes you feel good.
LIBRA
A Libra moon gets his emotional security by clinging to you like glue.Β And not just any glue, but that cheap off-brand super glue that will make it impossible for you to let go when you hold his hand.Β And this is what he wants, of course.Β He wants to always be connected to you!
Now, despite his acute dependency on his primary relationship, this is an air moon, which means it is intellectually and not emotionally based.Β Heβs a good talker and listener, heβs very friendly, heβs tolerant and wonβt go off the deep end emotionally like a water moon (you know who you are, Pisces and Scorpio!!)Β
He may not be very motivated to do anything other than have a relationship with you.Β Everything he does, he wants to do with his partner.Β In his perfect world, he is not only sleeping with you and running a business with you, but you actually have the same first name and appear to be twins.Β He can go his entire life without much of a desire for a threesome, but if you do have a MFF, it is guaranteed he will fall in love with the other woman, so be forewarned.
SCORPIO
A Scorpio moon gets his emotional security through intensity, passion and sex.Β So, um, heβs going to need a shitload of this from you.Β If you reject him sexually, you might as well just shoot him because heβs never going to recover from it.
A Scorpio moon enjoys physical pain and actually enjoys emotional pain as well, although he pretends not to.Β They are impossible to break up with, though; you will have to fake your own death.
They love emotional extremes, are easily hurt and are the most vindictive, jealous, obsessive, possessive, bi-polar, depressed, quizzically complex, paranoid, schizophrenic, drug- and alcohol-dependent and most saddled with karmic debt of any sign.Β But the sex is awesome and makes up for everything else, trust me!
SAGITTARIUS
A Sag moon gets his emotional security through a trip overseas, his education, his spirituality and through being independent.Β If youβre independent also, this is a good moon mate for you.
Heβs generally optimistic and will not suffer long bouts of depression or drastic mood swings like the water and (sometimes) earth signs.
They love to be out in the world, meeting people and learning new things.Β They embrace new ideas, new cultures, and any and all changes.Β He may not be the most attached, and that could frustrate you if you have a water or earth moon or sun.Β But you will appreciate him in so many other ways.Β Just donβt be worried if he goes off by himself on some adventure periodically, it doesnβt mean he doesnβt love you, it just means youβll never be enough for him β no one ever will be.
CAPRICORN
A Capricorn moon gets his emotional security through his reputation, his career and his ability to achieve greatness.Β
If he loves you, he may see your relationship with him as a teacher-student opportunity.Β He wants to teach you what he knows and learn whatever you can teach him.Β
A Capricorn moon is actually more comfortable if you are 10 or more years younger than him, or 10 or more years older β heβs even fine with a 20- or 30-year age gap.Β That way, since you come from completely different generations, youβll be able to teach each other so much more.Β It might be kind of boring, though.Β
If you feel you might be a plain, simple or boring person, look for a Capricorn; heβll love you!
AQUARIUS Β
An Aquarius moon gets his emotional security by being quirky and unconventional, from having lots of friends and acquaintances, and from preserving his independence at all costs.
A flirter with all, a partner with few (or none), the Aquarius moon just wants to have fun.Β He loves striking up conversations with strangers, thinking up more crazy inventions and having truly bizarre and barrier-breaking sex with you (and perhaps other people at the same time).
He says exactly what he thinks but may not understand your emotional needs, in part because he doesnβt understand his own.Β He actually thinks he has no emotional needs.Β But just tell him you love him madly and want to be his only partner for the rest of his life β then he will clue-in about his emotional needs!
PISCES
A Pisces moon gets his emotional security fromβ¦ Iβm sorry, but it is impossible for a Pisces moon to feel emotionally secure, and the sooner you realize this, the better.Β Everything scares the hell out of him, especially his emotions and yet he is trapped inside them, never to be released.
You must be a very positive person to endure this relationship.Β And thatβs what he needs most, a woman who is upbeat and will convince him nothing in the world is quite as bad as he is feeling like it is right now (and always).Β What he really needs to do is seal off his upper chakras and his energy field (aura) in general so that he is not unknowingly sucking the negative energy from everyone else.
This is the one man in the world who is so intuitive he can actually sense what you need without asking and without you saying anything to him.Β But he might be too afraid to act on that knowledge.
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My Personal Astrology: I have a Leo sun (Aug. 22, on the Virgo cusp), a Gemini moon and Capricorn rising.Β I also have a great deal of Aquarius, Libra and Virgo in my chart, and a decent amount of Scorpio and Cancer.Β My astrology, I feel, strongly influences my writing style, so keep this in mind as you distill the information in my posts and synthesize it for your own use.Β
Have an awesome day and remember: This is your life, why not get exactly what you want out of it? Β
β€οΈβπ₯Aries Mars: They find their hearts racing at the sight of raw courage, the scent of a challenge, and the intoxicating dance of spirited competition. Their passions ignite at the hint of an impromptu tryst, their hearts beating in unison with the rhythm of spontaneous desire. A game of playful dominance and submission becomes a hypnotic ballet in their shared space, adding a thrilling twist to their romantic encounters. They are drawn irresistibly to a lover who mirrors their own forthrightness, a partner who communicates with the same unabashed honesty as if whispering in the language of their hearts. Their love is expressed through a tangible, palpable dance of bodies, a testament to the vigorous physicality of their desire.
β€οΈβπ₯Taurus Mars: Imagine the allure of luxuriously soft textures, the tantalizing aroma of expensive perfumes, and the aesthetic appeal of high-quality clothing setting their senses ablaze. Picture the comfort of emotional security, the seductive charm of dependability in a partner, drawing them into a deeper connection. Envision the powerful aphrodisiac of a well-prepared, meal, or the sweet decadence of chocolate igniting their passion. The enchanting beauty of nature, art, and melodic symphonies awaken their desires, and the tranquil pleasure of a beautiful setting for lovemaking captivates their imagination. They admire persistence and consistency in a partner, and their predilection for traditional courtship - gifts, romantic dinners, leisurely walks in nature - weaves an irresistible romantic narrative. In the heart of their passion lies the sound of soft, sensual voices, the rhythm of calming music, and the tranquility of relaxation - the allure of bubble baths, candlelit dinners, or simply a calming atmosphere sets their hearts aflame.
β€οΈβπ₯Gemini Mars: They yearn for communication that tantalizes, words that weave into an intoxicating melody of ideas and concepts. A subtle innuendo, a flirtatious debate, or clever wordplay makes their heart race, their desire inflamed in the crucible of conversation. They love playful banter, the dynamic back-and-forth that engages them on both an intellectual and a visceral level. Variety is the spice of life for them, and this extends to their romantic preferences. They crave a partner who can keep them guessing, and who constantly introduces them to new perspectives, novel experiences, and stimulating adventures. The thrill of novelty, and the intrigue of unpredictability, are aphrodisiacs for them. They also have a strong appreciation for spontaneity and playfulness. A sudden, unexpected romantic gesture, a teasing touch, or an impromptu adventure sends shivers of excitement down their spine. They desire partners who can transform the mundane into the magical, who can surprise them, keep them on their toes, and make life a never-ending play of passionate discovery.
β€οΈβπ₯Cancer Mars: These people find an emotional and intimate connection to be incredibly arousing. They are deeply turned on by nurturing and caring gestures; a home-cooked meal or a thoughtful gift can spark their sexual desire. They are attracted to people who are sensitive, and intuitive, and can understand their complex emotional landscape. Foreplay for them might start with heartfelt conversations and endearing touches that cater to their sense of security. Sensuality is key, and they value a slow, romantic build-up; candlelit ambiance, soft music, or a relaxing bubble bath can set the perfect mood. They appreciate honesty and vulnerability, so opening up emotionally can be a major turn-on for them. They crave emotional closeness and see sex as a powerful way to deepen their bonds, hence they desire partners who are willing to delve into this profound emotional connection with them.
β€οΈβπ₯Leo Mars: They are seduced by the spotlight, their eyes are always drawn to the charismatic, magnetic individuals who carry themselves with a flair for the dramatic. Extravagant displays of affection are a major turn-on, as they thrive under the shower of compliments and expressions of adoration. They revel in passionate expressions, savoring the rush that comes from adventurous love-making, one that is as fiery as it is playful. An undying romantic, they are enticed by gestures that speak to the heart, be it a sultry dance or a handwritten love letter. Physical aesthetics also have a role to play, and they find a well-groomed, stylishly dressed partner irresistible. Above all, they crave a lover who views them as the star of their world, one who is willing to engage in their passionate, fiery, yet deeply tender world of love.
β€οΈβπ₯Virgo Mars: They are sensually stirred by intelligence and refinement, by someone who values order and elegance as much as they do. They are turned on by the subtleties, the hidden details, and the finely honed expertise that signals a mind at work. They are enchanted by those who take care of themselves, a fit body that suggests discipline, and an organized life that mirrors their own ideals. They appreciate the art of seduction in its most understated form - a light touch, a knowing look, a clever wordplay, a lingering scent that stimulates their imagination and desire. They revel in a well-prepared meal, shared in a tastefully decorated setting, each bite a testament to the meticulous thought put into it. They find immense sexual energy in competence, dedication, quiet strength, and in the pleasure of ritual. They find their desire inflamed in the spaces where the physical and intellectual intertwine, in the connection of bodies and minds, in the profound understanding that comes from truly knowing one another.
β€οΈβπ₯Libra Mars: Romance and harmony form the beating heart of their desires. They are irresistibly attracted to elegance, beauty, and balance, seeking partners who mirror these attributes. A well-crafted compliment can set their heart ablaze, and intelligent, engaging conversation is an irresistible aphrodisiac. The element of air fuels their desire for mental connection, making intellectual stimulation one of their profound turn-ons. They are seduced by refined aesthetics - a candle-lit dinner with soft music playing, a room adorned with tasteful art, and a lover dressed with thoughtfulness and style. There is an allure for them in a game of give-and-take, the dance of flirtation, where words are laced with subtle innuendos and mutual respect reigns supreme. They crave partnerships that strive for equality, where understanding and compromise shape the foundation. For them, love and passion are not just about the physical act, but also about creating a balanced and harmonious connection that is as beautiful and satisfying as a well-composed symphony.
β€οΈβπ₯Scorpio Mars: Their turn-ons aren't your typical sweet nothings and gentle caresses. For them, it's about passion and the unearthing of secrets. They are drawn to the enigma, the mystery that begs to be unraveled. A shared glance that holds an intense promise, the thrill of a love game that involves mutual seduction, and mind games that make the heart race faster. Intellectual stimulation is just as important as the physical, for it lights the fires of desire within them. They crave deep emotional bonds and have a somewhat insatiable desire for the feeling of being utterly lost in their partner. Eroticism for them is a journey into the depths of one another's souls, where trust and vulnerability become the ultimate aphrodisiacs. Revealing your deepest desires and fears to them can be potent. In the shadows and spaces where others might shy away, they are ever hungering for an intensity that matches their own.
β€οΈβπ₯Sagittarius Mars: A mere whisper of an unplanned getaway, an exciting outdoors escapade, or a heated debate over an intellectual topic can act as a potent aphrodisiac, stirring a sense of thrill and desire in their heart. Their thirst for knowledge translates to their carnal instincts, with the intrigue of uncovering the depths and nuances of their partner's desires serving as a significant turn-on. Cultural diversity, passion for sports or physical exertion, and spontaneous playfulness can trigger their sexual attraction. In their hearts, physical intimacy is often intertwined with mental stimulation and a shared zest for life's limitless possibilities. Above all, their primary turn-on is an adventurous spirit that's ready to explore the wide, thrilling expanse of the human experience, embracing freedom, authenticity, and open-mindedness.
β€οΈβπ₯Capricorn Mars: The quiet confidence of someone who can meet their gaze and hold their own in a conversation, that hints at hidden depths beneath a poised exterior, sends a thrilling shiver down their spine. This earth sign relishes consistency and tradition; the soft, lingering touch of a familiar hand or the comforting routine of a beloved ritual can ignite their passions. More than anything, they're drawn to resilience and perseverance, inspired by the quiet strength of a partner who faces challenges head-on. A partner who surprises them with strategic flirtation and a slow burn of anticipation will surely keep them spellbound. Their desire blossoms in the intersection of respect and lust, and they yearn for a love that is both rooted in the earthy reality of their lives and reaches for the celestial peaks of their dreams.
β€οΈβπ₯Aquarius Mars: Their ideal form of sexual seduction often revolves around mental stimulation, shared ideals, and revolutionary concepts. Engaging in discussions about world-changing ideas, or thought-provoking debates about existential truths, can trigger a profound passion within them. They thrive on uniqueness, so showing distinct self-expression or a novel approach to intimacy can act as a major turn-on. Surprises, spontaneity, and innovative sexual techniques keep the flame burning bright in their bedroom. Yet, this does not discount the need for emotional connection and mutual respect. Ensuring freedom within togetherness, appreciating their eccentricities, and understanding their need for space can significantly intensify the intimate bond with these people.
β€οΈβπ₯Pisces Mars: They yearn for a deep soul connection that transcends the physical realm, for to them, lovemaking is a spiritual experience that intertwines their souls with their partner's. The dance of seduction with them is a slow, tender waltz, set to the rhythm of their heartbeats. Dreamy environments, charged with emotional energy, gentle touches, and long, passionate kisses that promise more than just physical pleasure ignite their senses. Sensuality, tender affection, and vulnerability are their aphrodisiacs, inviting them into a world where the walls around their hearts crumble, revealing their purest, rawest desires. A soft whisper in their ear, a genuine compliment, or the soulful gaze of a lover can be a powerful turn-on for them. Above all, they value the magic of emotional authenticity, spiritual connection, and deep understanding in their intimate moments, that resonate with the deepest parts of their being.
Mars in Capricorn and mars in cancer are literally night and day sexually. Having been in a sexual situation with men of both of these placements I must say that mars in Capricorn are reserved, cooler emotionally and detached. That being said they are sensual, raw and very rustic in their sexual allure. Cancer mars are ardent, highly attuned to the emotional atmosphere of sex itself and connected. That being said they are watery(like literally, and figuratively.) they are more go with the flow than they are out right take control.
Capricorn mars men:
seem like they lack the senstive and or soft nature but they make up for it by being very sensual and very slow building. They have this natural energy that leads up to a climax even if sex isnβt even the endgame. They tend to take time getting hard or getting fully into the act but once they do they can be aggressive, cruel, intense or controlling. This may sound like a bad thing on paper but itβs actually very hot in the way they do this. They donβt get off on pain unless mars in Capricorn is afflicted but they do find the allure of being in control sexually gratifying. They are soft natured so if they feel as though youβre not safe or comfortable they will instantly be turned off. Sex gets better over time with them, theyβre not good at one night stands.
Mars in cancer men:
Very senstive, but not in an overwhelming way. They merge intimacy and emotion in a way that makes the experience feel electric. Theyβre huggers and like holding you, this may be a tad bit irritating if youβre someone who isnβt much into kissing or lots of touch during your sexual hookups but itβs definitely a great experience. They are intuitive and know just what to do and how to do it. They arenβt aggressive and tend to do everything in a fatherly/motherly way so they wonβt smack your ass violently but theyβll tap it or increase intensity of their strokes depending on what theyβre are reading from you emotionally. They are heavy pre-cummers so giving them head might be a busy ordeal but in my experience a hookup with a cancer mars is a wet experience overall haha. They have energy for days and love their vanilla positions but they are sooooo open to whatever position or whatever sexercise makes them feel closer to you. They are actually really good at one nighters and will have you wanting more but they also get better as time goes on but if you arenβt emotionally invested itβll be harder to continue sleeping with them as they bring to head emotional issues within you.
PISCES SUN MEN literally will always have me fucking weak. i will forever glaze a pisces man. justin beiber was my first celebrity crush and its been pisces ever since! they have this very quiet masculinity (keyword: QUIET.) thats so attractive to me. they have such calm and confident exterior to them, and maybe its just me, but i can always tell that they have a strong emotional world underneath. idk why thats so sexy to me urgh. a man that knows and understands his emotions??? im wet. like PLEASE let me into your heart ill do whatever i can to make u feel better π₯Ήπ₯Ή.
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CAPRICORN SUN MEN are highkey ass. like i think capricorn men need to accept that they're not meant for a monogamous life LMAO. all the capricorn men in my family except for one have been TERRIBLE boyfriends and husbands. they tend to be users in some way. either for sex or for money. i pray for the day i see a good capricorn man. other than that, yall are indeed SEXY when you actually lock in, its hard to admit it but yall are π. great providers and such loyal people we just gotta focus that energy on the right things ππ.
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MARS CAPRICORN MEN... dont get me started. PLEASE dont get me STARTED. im talkin up and down backflips frontflips cartwheels backbends legs in the air back arched face down ass up and collapsed doggy. i want it all at the same time. ima keep this short and sweet.
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AQUARIUS SUN MEN are so fucking funny and sexy but do NOT know what the fuck they want π. the most indecisive sign in men. this dude at my job got this girls number and she asked him if they were gonna get together but he said he wasnt over his ex yet πππ. i might just be toxically attracted to this sign cause yall are so fucked up but so charming i hate it so much. so sick man. they are EXTREMELY musically talented tho AND THAT MAKES THEM EVEN SEXIERRRR UGHHHH. aquarius artists period are incredibly talented like we need to talk about this pattern more.
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TAURUS SUN MEN why are yall always so naturally good looking ππ. the only taurus sun man ive met was gay, but when i first saw him i immediately was like WHO THE DREADHEAD IN DA BACK. i hadnt even seen his face, just the dreads and vibesπ€π½. but other than that, he was very masculine and always helped me out with shit and i never had to ask for it. he was a lot more manly that what half these straight men claim to be these days π. they are very laid back and funny!! also never afraid to point out bullshit like him and our manager were ops and for a good reason. def need to meet more of yall.
Ο I feel like Libra Moons are underrated in terms of their eyes. I feel like Pluto 1st house and Scorpio rising are always talked about, but Libra Moons eyes are angelic borderline hypnotic ngl. Libra Moons just have beautiful features in general.
Ο Capricorn Mars Men like the "independent need no man" type of woman. Mature women. They like women who have their shit together. They make these type of hyper-independent women submissive without even trying. They give off major "daddy" vibes by being super patient with you and being their whenever you need, however, you can't pull a fast one on them. They will set you straight and hurt your feelings.
Ο People who have Mercury in the 8th have a way of having YOU relive THEIR trauma like you were there just by the way they speak; especially if its a Pisces Mercury. I have a 8th house Moon (for those who have 8th house Moon, you know we're DEEPLY empathetic) it gets super heavy on my heart, and I have to tell them to change the subject LMAO like this is depressing.
Ο If your partner has heavy 8th house overlays and Pluto involvement with you then they may can tell you what your doing at that moment and/or what your ABOUT to do/say. They will legit have you looking for cameras. They learn how you work pretty fast.
Ο I've done enough research to learn that majority of people who have their Saturn in the 12th house struggle with an addiction of some sort or mental health issues. Same with 6th house stelliums.
Ο If you have Uranus in the 7th house, your romantic partners could abruptly stop and start the relationship when they see fit. It's important for you to set boundaries.
Ο If your partner has their north node in your 8th house, this is a Karmic relationship PERIOD. However, more karmic for them TBH. You're the catalyst. You start their transformation. You hold a lot of emotional weight/power over this person without even trying to. They can probably feel that you're upset from thousands of miles away. You will never really get away from this person. They were meant to find you. You will probably change their views on intimacy and trust, sex, and emotional merging. They won't forget you; this is basically a soul tie.
also with this 8th house north node overlay, they might go "nevermind" or "nothing" a lot when talking to you; pulling back a lot of the things they say or do to you bc they are not ready to fully give in. Growth is uncomfortable for them right now.
Ο If your partner has their south node in your second house, then they can become an energy vampire. This can cause entitlement to your time and energy. They can resist change bc they are comfortable in the spot they have in your life which can create an imbalance. They may tell you that they feel like they've met you before or your energy is familiar.
* these are just my personal observations & I'm sorry if you feel slightly attacked omfg i did not mean for that to happen plz don't be mad at me.. :(
btw some of these are if afflicted!!
- Heavy Capricorn placements usually envy Individuals who are able to express their creativity & childlike wonder freely. People who seem to have had less baggage to carry, an easier life/childhood. People with less responsibilities, who know how to let loose, those with a higher status ( in any way that the native percieves it. Whether social status, financial etc.) To sum it up- they envy those who are free. Those who are Free to express themselves & free from obligations because of how restricted they constantly feel. But please remember YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE RESTRICTING YOURSELF. YOU ARE YOUR BIGGEST OPP. LIKE JESUS CHRIST STOP BEING SO HARD ON YOURSELF LIKE FOR WHAT?
- Uranus/ aqua placements envy those who seem to be more unique/ different than them. Sometimes it can be the complete opposite and they can envy those who are " normal" since they constantly feel like an alien everywhere they go. People who seem to be stable. Those who are able to fit in with society. they can envy People who have a very unique style. How creative others can be. Others projects/work/ art. I've noticed also especially when recognition is involved. It's all very funny because you guys are already unique yourselves & have the most brilliant ideas. I swear i would say The most unique people ever actually... you just have to start seeing yourself for who you really are. Stop comparing and start CREATING. That's what you are here to do!
- taurus placements honestly in my opinion are one of the most envious/ insecure placements but idk why nobody ever talks about it? I feel like they're very quiet about it. They may envy those who they perceive to be more beautiful & or have had more luxurious experiences. Those who travel often. Those who they consider to be more talented. People with more money. They can even envy others who seem to get spoiled by their partners. May have lingering undertones of jealousy within female friendships. They also may secretly envy those who are allowed to be and look "messy" because they feel the constant need to be " prepared." Learn how to transmute that jealousy/ envy into inspiration. Because when you guys are inspired... the things you can create. The peace you will achieve. Don't forget about the power you hold!! You are so much more than what you have & or what you can have.
- I've noticed a lot of cancer placements & virgo placements tend to have body image issues/ body dysmorphia. Ive also observed they usually have one or two VERY specific insecurities about themselves that they constantly think of. These natives tend to envy those who exude a high level of confidence & or people who are comfortable in their skin. For Virgo's i would also say those who seem more prepared/ set in life. Those who seem to be " further " in life than you are. Virgos seem to struggle with constantly comparing themselves to others. You have to remember its okay if you are not currently where you want to be. You are currently where you need to be you just have to learn how to trust the universe
Uranus 4th housers may envy those who seem to have had a stable household environment growing up, or just in general Those who have always had a place they can call home. People with good relationships with their family. Little to no skeletons in the closet.
- you may struggle alot and have conflicting dark and intense emotions
- may feel guilty for literally no reason and even when you're not at fault.
- hypersensitive but hide it because of the pluto influence and make you look the opposite of sensitive.
- big rbf like god (I have it too and looks so bad)
- eyes are probably of a darker shade and have an intensity like when you look at them you just lose yourself in those eyes.
- the eyes. They tell stories, the repressed trauma and pain buried deep inside you like a void and having issues to talk about them.
- you might get laughed at by the way you express your emotions because when I told how much I'm struggling emotionally and mentally, I got lectured and laughed at for it.
- people who don't have intense placements will not understand your emotions and how in-depth it is, and you might intimidate placements that are not as intense as scorpio, capricorn and aquarius.
- people with scorpio placements, pluto doms and cap placements understand your intensity.
- you might be attracted to emotionally detached people honestly.
- mommy issues placement, honestly either you are really in a good relation with your mom or its the other way. Might struggle with your mom not understanding you, and don't relate with eachothers opinions and thinking mind set.
- emotionally intelligent
- intuitive as hell, you know when some shit is about to go down.
- when you feel something wrong will happen and you warn people around you about it and they don't listen, believe me it's gonna happen when you said something's wrong.
- might get downloads and visions. deja vu? Like a lot of them. And please listen to your inner voice, it's trying to tell you something. I've regretted not listening to that voice inside my head, it's guiding you.
- honestly the blacksheep of the family, and you somehow might be a rebel, like you are way different in forms of thinking patterns and doing things in a different pattern which makes you a little different.
I hope you like this observation, I'm sorry if some things didn't resonate and if it did, babes I feel you because I understand your emotional intensity. Love you and treat yourself in better way and don't be hard on yourself.
disclaimer: not every moon sign will be included (sorry! ive yet to meet every moon sign, but hopefully i will)
water moons
pisces moons: always have the weirdest dreams. ive noticed pisces moons tend to predict things through their dreams. also, they lowkey can be alcoholics sometimes. really devoted to their loved ones, especially their significant other and will give a lot, sometimes too much. sweet af and have puppy dog eyes. also pisces moons with brown eyes tend to have really dark eyes that almost look black. unevolved pisces moons sometimes act out of emotion and can be really childish when upset, like they do silent treatment or act irrationally. ive also noticed that pisces moon are really attached to their mothers and have a really good/close relationship with their moms.
cancer moons: the girls are always really beautiful, the men are also attractive. cancer moons tend to have great bodies regardless of gender, the girls tend to have very hourglass figures. can be lowkey kinda crazy when they're in a relationship, they have mood swings and can act out of emotion. at best, sweethearts and extremely genuine people. at worst, mean and reactive.
earth moons
capricorn moons: so money motivated, or just have that vibe that they're a hard worker. somehow always employed no matter what. they may feel like they're responsible for other people, especially family wise. these people tend to be the older sibling, or just felt that they had to carry the house on their back growing up. prob had an irresponsible mother. they analyze people a lot. when they dont like someone, they will act manipulatively to find a way to hurt them or ruin their reputation, but its very calculated, never reactive.
virgo moons: likable people and tend to have a lot of friends. look smart and speak really well. tend to know a lot about different subjects. i notice these people love to casually post online, like tiktok or instagram. they may have a blog or just a specific niche they like to post about online. good friends, and stereotypically kind.
air moons
gemini moons: detached af. they are the types to be like "ill do whatever i want and get away with it". they can be a bit cruel and act in a way without considering others feelings. but they are extremely funny and fun to be around. people either love them or hate them. they are charming, but are prone to lying, even about random things.
libra moons: love their friends so much. libra moons are good friends but sometimes may attract toxic friends or people who dont fully value them or reciprocate their energy.
fire moons
leo moons: really fun to be around! but ive noticed that leo moons will literally pretend they're fine and having fun even when they're going through the worst. very likable and have close friends. tend to be conventionally attractive and may even model.
sag moons: love to travel. when they are going through something, they will escape by traveling or hanging out with their friends. funny af. drawn to eccentric crowds, like they may really be into spaces where people are into fashion, music, or just something creative.
cancer mars men have a bre*ding k*nk. they also tend to be addicted to women and sleep around a lot, but when they find βthe oneβ the desire to sleep around completely stops.
if u ask any gemini venus why r they are single they will always say because they feel like everyone is too βboringβ. i noticed that gemini venuses will only feel fulfilled if they date someone who has a strong mercury, especially a gemini mercury.
leo stelliums have this aura where it seems like they can and will accomplish anything in life and are very determined to. for example, alysa liu has a leo stellium
gemini moons are far more harsh and detached than capricorn moons
leos have a reputation for being arrogant/self centered but i find that to be more accurate for sags. sags can view themselves as superior to others, especially in terms of intelligence, creativity, and influence.
saturn in the 1st always have a βglow upβ especially after their teens. they seem very awkward and like an outcast when theyβre young but as they grow up people tend to notice they mature very gracefully. they physically look better but also build a calm confidence with age
leo venus in women can have a very pick me energy if unevolved.
cancer placements in women if unevolved can also lead to pick-me energy but more like, they want attention bc they feel lonely and insecure. i think a perfect example wld be cassie from euphoria
when taurus suns say they are βbrokeβ they tend to have actually way more money than the average person. their version of βbrokeβ is actually pretty stable
pisces moon forgive way too much
sun conjunct venus get lots of attention for being attractive and approachable. theyβre the type who cld go viral on tiktok/insta for being attractive, or be approached a lot in public.
harsh lilith aspects to personal planets can make someone have a love-hate relationship with receiving sexual attention.
moon in sag always wanna travel, partly because they love seeing new places and partly because they want to tell everyone abt the places theyβve been to and the experiences they have. theyβre the type of go somewhere just to say they did
moon in the 12h and north node in the 8h tend to be hedonistic if unevolved. they can gain addiction to sex, overeating, p*rn, ect.
a taurus sun + water moon combo can cause issues with overeating when they are depressed
men who have chiron in capricorn will accuse u of using them for their money
aries placements r the most unbothered ppl bc their emotions dont stick. they get over things in like 10 mins
scorpio mercuryβs have very nice voices
water moons have puppy dog eyes. they often resemble cute animals like cats, puppies, and bunnies lol
taurus placements in women are often viewed feminine by other people, but have sort of a tomboy personality.
1h stelliums can come off as arrogant. they are either very loved or very hated
cancer placements in personal planets r often underestimated and will only escape that if they decide to stop trying to convince people theyβre a sweet/good person.
saturn in the 1h can come off either bitchy or reserved depending on the rest of their chart
ppl who have lilith harshly aspecting personal planets attract jealousy often. ppl who have lilith harmoniously aspecting person planets will attract a lot of love and attraction
Placements that FEEL like exaltation (but obviously arenβt)
Capricorn Sun: bo$$, no one is more unapologetic and confident about their own competence than these bitches
Aquarius Mercury: visionaries but also know-it-all central, disagree with them at your own peril
Cancer Venus: itβs just a slightly more depressed and brooding version of Taurus Versus
Leo Mars: itβs giving lion king vibes, driven and stubborn about what they want
Libra Moon: way too concerned with everyone elseβs emotions and obsessed with romance because they love to love, they love the β¨aestheticβ¨ of feeling emotions if that makes sense
Bonus β Pisces Moon low key: I once heard an astrologer say that this placement is like Cancer moon on steroids
I know you guys love these so here's more! As always, enjoy and happy holidays!
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A common thing I've seen in the charts of people who are firmly monogamous is moon-mercury aspects (this is not the only indicator ofc). Their decisions and interests are guided by what they feel so once they set their heart on someone... that's it for them
A very interesting lesson that I took from doing so many synastry/composite readings is that the "like attracts like" trope is WAY more powerful than the "opposites attract" trope. Here are some of the most common similarities I've spotted:
couples sharing the same ASC (this one is SO common)
Very similar aspects to the moon: Iβve noticed many couples have each of their moons aspecting the same planets, specially, outer planets, usually in similar (sometimes even the same) aspects. For example person A has Moon Square Pluto and person B has moon opposite Pluto (both harsh aspects)
A common thing I've seen in many couples synastry is Venus square Venus aspect
On the other hand Iβve noticed that flings or really passionate relationships tend to have Moon square moon in synastry
Moon sextile Moon relationships are so perfect imo. They have the easy understanding of the trine and the passion of the square/opposition
Iβve seen a lot of unrequited love situations have Venus square/opposite Moon. The moon person is attached to and idolizes the Venus person. The Venus person enjoys moonβs company but they arenβt that romantically involved or interested
Earth Moons are very fond of stability what is known to them but they secretly want someone who takes them out of their comfort zone and opens them up to deep and exciting emotional experiences. I've noticed they usually end up with partners who are more sensitive, expressive and spontaneous
Iβve noticed Venus-Pluto natives (square, opposition, conjunction) end up building some kind of resentment towards their long-term partners overtime and wonβt let them go. The type to spend years married to some they secretly hate and also the type of person who demonizes every single one of their exes. Itβs like they tend to attract relationships that wake up a dark side in them
Something I keep seeing over and over is that Cancer placements are playerssssss (both men and women). They will treat you like youβre βthe oneβ but that doesnβt necessarily mean they have an actual intention to settle with youπ they're just getting carried away by what they feel in moment so I guess they are unintentional players???
Leo and Libra placements on the other hand are intentional players imo. They love the romance and chasing just for the validation it gives them
In order to keep a Cardinal Venus/Moon interested you need to keep showing up like your relationship is brand new. Doesnβt matter how long youβve be together or how comfortable you are with each other, they want their partner to still make an effort to impress and romance them like itβs the first date and they're bound to do the same
Women with Libra Mars I've noticed tend to attract mamas boys or child-like men with mommy issues. These women are always the dominant or mature ones in their relationships
Capricorn Mars women are dominant too and have a strong character but they chase men who are equally as independent as them if not more
Something Iβve noticed with Pisces/Neptune 7th house (and also Pisces Venus/Juno to an extent) is that yeah they put their partner on a pedestal but they also low-key tend to take their partner for granted? Iβve noticed they expect their partner to be indulgent, permissive and basically tolerate their bs. Little is talked about how their tendency to ignore red flags goes both ways; they want their partner to ignore their red flags too and forgive all their behaviors
What is up with Aquarius and Pisces placements attracting each other all the damn time?
Water Venus/Mars win the award for most obsessive lovers out there
Iβve seen a lot of people with Mars in the 7th house who were divorced or never married. One friend of mine who has this placement says she doesnβt want to marry at all or have a relationship cause sheβs too independent
Women with fixed Mars are attracted to men who have rough or bold characteristics such as beard, tattoos, toned body, deep voice, etc. or just a very bold presence in general. They also have a thing for men who have a very confident, understated and nonchalant demeanor/personality to them
Women with mutable Mars and their attraction to flighty and chaotic men who donβt give them the time of day. Iβve seen this countless times πππ
I've seen harmonious aspects between Mars-Moon in people that work very well together! This aspect typically means fertility which in a work environment translates into a fruitful relationship. The two people wanting to create/initiate things together with lots of motivation
Who came up with the idea that Aries Moon/Venus are disloyal and flighty? All I keep seeing irl is these natives tend to have a strong attachment to their partners. Once they're in your corner they won't ever let you go fr. They could have a tendency to get attached to the wrong people tho
Iβve seen many many couples having 7th house Mars in synastry but this overlay is super chaotic imo, creates a back and forth dynamic that ends nowhere. The house person is the chaser here, they are always pushing commitment on the Mars person cause they donβt want the mars person to βslip awayβ or something. The mars person enjoys the eagerness of the house person and finds it very attractive and could enjoy challenging the house personβs interest. Eventually if the mars person isnβt that interested they get bored and are often the first ones to walk away
A very similar outcome I've seen happens with 7th house Mars in Composite. This could make the bond between the two a bit "forced" and dragged out. This also means the connection will really be put to the test, you guys may have to fight for your connection a lot which can either bond you more or exhaust you, could eventually become tired of the relationship and how much energy it takes to keep it alive.
I have a theory that your preferred house overlays could be indicated by your Venus/7th house/Juno. For example if you have Leo Venus you might enjoy 5th house synastry, if you have Neptune or Pisces in the 7th house you might feel comfortable with 12th house synastry, etc. Let me know what you think about this
Iβve noticed that 8th house synastry results in a lot of physical touch going on so people who have this as their love language might be specially fond of this overlay. This is the couple that literally canβt keep their hands off each other
Scorpio Moons π€ sabotaging the few healthy relationships they have in their life. They eventually learn to keep the right people after really going through it tho
With 7th house synastry you can really feel like something's missing when you don't have that person around.
When moon falls in fire houses in synastry the two people are always excited to see each other
Moon in 1st house in synastry is the only 1st house overlay that is not superficial. The connection is usually very genuine while it lasts. This person likely sparks a lot of nostalgia and you remember them fondly
When someoneβs personal planets fall in your 4th house, you feel like this person can see you for who you truly are deep down
Gemini Venus/Juno/7th house: the people they date tend to have almost identical characteristic, there's always this blatant "twin" factor in the people they date or attract. For example all their exes worked in the same industry, have the exact same personality, etc
Venus Observations...
Libra Venus has the rep for being big flirts and charmers but this is actually a Cardinal Venus thing tbh cause, as I've said in a past post, they love the chase, they just all do it in different ways
It's true Virgo Venus are picky but this doesn't necessarily mean they have high standards. Yes, stay with me here. These natives have a very clear series of characteristics they want a partner to meet and that's how they are picky/critical (earth) but if those boxes are checked, they don't care much about anything else (mutable) and can be quite flexible. They donβt really care if their partner is not the most sought after person
In contrast, Capricorn Venus are picky AND have high standards. They want the best of the best, the perfect partner
Virgo Venus wants a partner that doesnβt need validation however they want their partner to validate them all the time
Aquarius Venus will only commit if they see a future with that person. Not only they are ruled by Saturn (which rules longevity) but they are also ruled by Uranus which rules innovation, Aquarius is the visionary of the zodiac so Aquarius Venus people need to feel like their partner will help them evolve or "upgrade" as a person in some way (not in a materialistic way like Capricorn but rather mentally). That's why they are attracted to people who are "different", intelligent or eccentric
The reason why Aquarius Venus is "flighty" as per my observation is because they tend to go for partners who are radically different from them and as a result they often stumble upon many incompatible partners
Leo Venus is very underrated when it comes to acts of service, Iβve noticed this is a very common love language for them
In my experience Pisces Venus natives are SO deceitful and immature. I'm sorry I really wanted to like this placement but they always make me cringe and are only cute on the surface imo. The type to lead everyone on by saying things they donβt mean and exaggerating compliments. Theyβre very passive in love and romanticize bare minimum. This means they don't expect their partner to take accountability but the native never takes accountability themselves either. They ignore issues in relationships and instead of working things through they expect everything to be fixed with lovebombing and/or pretending like nothing happened. Men with this placement tend to be emotionally unavailable and always want to date a doormat girl. Women with this placement are childish and tend to have princess complex
The only Venus sign that doesn't care much about looks from what I've seen is Scorpio Venus. They care more about the bond and chemistry over their partner fitting a certain type.
Also, what is up with Scorpio Venus and dating people they donβt actually like that much or at all? π€¨ They be dating people that low-key annoy them
Libra, Leo, Capricorn and Taurus Venus very much care about looks in a partner. Taurus/Capricorn Venus natives I've noticed pay special attention to how a potential partner dresses and grooms themselves
All Fixed Venus natives are pretty obsessive to honest, it's not just Scorpio. I've noticed they like the idea of having some sort hold or control over their partner. Their love language is making themselves indispensable in some way cause they enjoy feeling like they're partner will always need them and won't get away from them
Men with Pisces/Libra/Cancer/Taurus Venus have a thing for women who are people pleasers or stereotypically feminine and charming. They like it when a woman is kind, gentle, understanding, accommodating, etc
Men with Fire Venus are attracted to confident and independent women who have this it girl vibe to them
Something else Iβve noticed with Fixed Venus natives is that they have a thing for partners that have a mysterious or reserved vibe to them. Not necessarily introverted, but people who protect their privacy or keep to themselves a lot.
Mutable Venus fall for partners that have this very open and outgoing vibe to them. Again, not necessarily extroverted, but people who have a more bubbly personality
Cardinal Venus natives will only fall in love with someone who they deeply admire. They commit to people who have this put together/respectable vibe to them
Juno Observations...
I've actually observed Juno synastry is very significant in business relationships not just romantic ones. In fact, those married couple I've seen with heavy Juno synastry also tended to be involved in business together
Sagittarius Juno I've seen manifests mostly as the native getting a spouse that is very permissive and gives them a lot of freedom, a spouse that never says no to anything. This placement overall gives a very respectful and supportive spouse. However because of this the Sag Juno native will have a tendency to cross boundaries in the marriage and take their spouse for granted
In general both Sagittarius and Pisces Juno have a tendency to "abandon" their spouses either physically or emotionally and kinda forget about them from time to time. This doesn't necessarily have to mean disloyalty tho.
Sag Juno natives want to feel like they have the freedom to go and do their own thing, like they'll leave for days or weeks on end and their spouse won't mind and will indeed support the native. They donβt like to feel like marriage hinders their desire to live freely but rather encourages it. Side note: I have seen some cases in which Sag Juno natives actually did abandon their spouses/families either for another partner or because they were perusing better opportunities
Pisces Juno natives will give a more sacrificial energy kinda like "babe I love you but I have to go, I'm sorry". There's something that stops the native from actually being there for their spouse, but this placement indicates the spouse is bound to be very forgiving because they'll see is not your fault in a way
Cancer/Capricorn Juno is an indicator of having a marriage with traditional gender roles or traditional values.
Iβve noticed Scorpio Juno natives or Scorpio ASC in the Juno PC have a marriage that REALLY rubs people the wrong way. Others could see your relationship as toxic or even predatory in nature. People believe that you landed your spouse (or vice versa) through manipulation, abuse, deceit, stalking, controlling behavior, etc. This placement also means you met when either of you were going through a hard time so there could be some case of trauma bonding here
Iβve seen that soulmate relationships tend have their Junos in the same element (most common case). Honorary mentions: Juno in opposite signs or signs ruled by the same planet
Leo Juno natives are a bit flighty and afraid of commitment. They just want a partner for the sake of the romance and feeling spoiled. They want the relationship to stay fun and playful and really dislike the sense of seriousness and "settlement" that can come with marriage sometimes
With Juno in the 7th house either you or your spouse will be in a relationship when you meet
When looking at the Juno PC, Capricorn placements/Saturn in the angels/Saturn conjunct inner planets indicates long-lasting marriage
Fixed Juno natives will have a spouse that is completely fascinated and obsessed with them. You want your spouse to worship you specially with Leo and Taurus Juno. The way your spouse will love you will boost your ego thus acting more confidently after marriage. The energy of the marriage could be a little overbearing or suffocating depending on other aspects
I've observed this in virtually all cases with Virgo Juno have a tendency to attract very inconsiderate partners that make them feel like they're not good enough (the opposite can be true). They had unsuccessful first marriage that drained the shit out of them but they eventually find someone who is very modest and nurturing
Cancer/4th house Juno natives have a VERY hard time moving on from their exes if they ever saw that person as marriage material.
From what I've seen Capricorn Juno doesn't create that much of a delay or age gap in marriage. It can of course, but in most cases these natives marry in their late 20s to their first serious bf/gf and they usually have an age difference of 2-5 years approximately. This placements Iβve seen manifests mostly as βI married my high school/collage sweetheart and weβve been together foreverβ kinda scenario OR marrying someone from your past you reconnect with later in life
Scorpio, Pisces, Capricorn and Aquarius Juno indicates you'll marry your soulmate or your relationship with your fs is karmic or from a past life. You might meet your spouse after fulfilling some karmic lesson or some life milestone
Cardinal Juno/Juno in the angles tend to be very proud of their spouses or being married in general. Could be the type to be very invested in finding a life partner cause they tend to turn marriage into a very essential part of their lives and themselves
Venus and your romantic fantasy, the love story you low-key want.
Edit: you can also apply to the sign of your 5th house.
MUTABLE VENUS
Venus in Pisces: You want that soft, emotional, almost psychic-feeling connection. The kind where you look at each other and just know. You fall for feelings, not logistics. The fantasy is deep talks, vulnerability, being understood without over-explaining. If someone is cold or overly logical about everything, it kills it. You want romance that feels emotional and meaningful, not transactional.
Venus in Sagittarius: You want a relationship that doesnβt feel like a cage. Thatβs it. The fantasy is laughing a lot, going places, learning stuff together, being honest without walking on eggshells. If someone gets clingy or overly intense too soon, you feel the urge to escape. You need space but you still want connection. It has to feel voluntary. If it feels like pressure, youβre halfway out the door.
Venus in Virgo: You donβt want dramatic romance. You want someone who notices things. Like refilling your water without asking. Fixing something you mentioned once. The fantasy is practical care. Acts of service hit way harder than speeches. Big emotional declarations can actually make you uncomfortable. Show up correctly. Be consistent. Handle your life. Thatβs attractive. Sloppiness is not cute to you.
Venus in Gemini: You want someone who talks. Like actually talks. Texts back fast. Sends memes. Has opinions. The fantasy isnβt candlelight and violin music. Itβs staying up too late laughing and jumping between five topics. If it gets quiet or too serious too fast, you start drifting mentally. You need stimulation. You need movement. If youβre bored, itβs over and the other person wonβt even realize when you checked out.
FIXED VENUS
Venus in Aquarius: You want a relationship that feels intentional, not traditional just because itβs βsupposedβ to be. You need mental connection first. If you canβt talk about weird ideas or random topics, itβs dead. You also need space. If someone tries to merge lives too fast, you get uncomfortable. The fantasy is being with someone who chooses you freely, not out of habit or pressure. You want closeness, but you still want to feel like your own person.
Venus in Scorpio: You want depth. Not small talk dating. Not surface vibes. You want to feel like thereβs something serious happening underneath. Your fantasy is emotional loyalty, exclusivity, real trust. If someone keeps things casual or detached, you start pulling away because whatβs the point. You donβt want half. You want full emotional investment. And if you sense betrayal, itβs done. Thereβs no light version of love for you.
Venus in Leo: You want to feel chosen in a very obvious way. Not subtle. Not implied. Obvious. Compliments. Attention. Effort. You donβt want to guess if someone likes you. You want to feel proud standing next to them and you want them to feel proud standing next to you. If you feel ignored or taken for granted, your interest drops fast. The fantasy is being adored and appreciated out loud.
Venus in Taurus: You want consistency. Thatβs it. You want someone who shows up, keeps showing up, and doesnβt switch personalities every week. Your fantasy is regular affection, physical closeness, shared routines. You like knowing where you stand. If someone plays games or sends mixed signals, youβre not intrigued, youβre annoyed. You attach slowly, but once youβre in, youβre in. And you expect the same back. Stability is hot to you. Chaos is not.
CARDINAL VENUS
Venus in Capricorn: You want something thatβs going somewhere. Even if you donβt say that out loud. Your fantasy is someone serious about you. Reliable. Put together. Youβre not impressed by charm alone. Youβre watching how they handle responsibility, work, life. If it feels unstable or immature, attraction drops. You want commitment that makes sense, not just feelings in the moment.
Venus in Libra: You want romance that feels mutual from the start. Balanced. Effort on both sides. Your fantasy is good conversation, thoughtful dates, and that feeling of βweβre into each other and we both know it.β You donβt like chasing and you donβt like being chased aggressively either. It needs to feel equal. If things get messy or one-sided, it ruins the vibe for you.
Venus in Cancer: You want emotional reassurance early. Not five months in. Early. Your fantasy is someone who makes you feel safe pretty quickly. Checking in. Caring about your day. Remembering small details. Youβre not impressed by flashy charm if it doesnβt come with warmth. If someone feels emotionally distant, you start protecting yourself. You want closeness, comfort, and to feel like thereβs a soft place to land.
Venus in Aries: You like the beginning part. The spark. The tension. The βare we doing this?β energy. Your fantasy is mutual desire thatβs obvious and fast. If someone takes too long to decide how they feel, you lose interest. You donβt want to decode mixed signals. You want chemistry you can feel immediately. You like when someone is direct. You also like being the one who goes after what you want. If it feels stagnant, you get restless.
βοΈ in aries: venus in a fire sign, venus in the 1st hous, or a venus/mars conjunction. a mate whose venus conjoins your ascendant might also be able to provide the kind of love you want.
βοΈ in taurus: youβd be happiest with a mate who has venus in an earth sign, venus in the 2nd house, or venus sextile your mars
βοΈ in gemini: youβd be happiest with a mate who has venus in an air sign, venus in the 3rd house, or venus conjunct mercury
βοΈ in cancer: someone with venus in a water sign, in the 4th house, or conjunct his/ her moon will get the best results. his /her venus on your nadir might also be a good choice if you want a comfortable, relaxed, stay-at-home sort of relationship.
βοΈ in leo: choose someone with venus in a fire sign, venus in the 5th house, or a sun/venusΒ conjunction. try to see that this venus isnβt under stress from natal uranus or from your own uranus
βοΈ in virgo: youβd be happiest with a mate or lover who has mars in an earth sign, mars in the sixth house, a mercury/mars conjunction, or a mercury/mars sextile.
βοΈ in libra: youβd do best with someone with venus in an air sign, in the 7th house, or trine your mars
βοΈ in scorpio: choose someone who has venus in a water sign, in the 8th house, or conjunct pluto, for best results
βοΈ in sagittarius: your best chances of happiness would come from someone who has venus in a fire sign, venus in the 9th house, or a venus/jupiter conjunction. people with fire or air predominating in their charts will probably be more compatible with you than those who have earth or water predominating
βοΈ in capricorn: youβd do best with someone who has venus in an earth sign, venus in the 10th house, or a venus/saturn conjunction
βοΈ in aquarius: someone with venus in an air sign, venus in the 11th house, or a venus/uranus conjunction or sextile would be ideal
βοΈ in pisces: someone with venus in a water sign, venus in the 12th house, or venus conjunct neptune would be a great match
where venus is the ideal feminine for the man, mars is the ideal masculine for the female. traits the male may exhibit from his venus will be searched for in the female
aries venus β confident, self-assured, and honest women
these men want women who are self-assured, confident, and authentic. an arian venus is a venus that seeks stimulation, growth, and adventure. without these in a relationship, the man will eventually tire and leave. spontaneity and surprise are a man's love language; he wants light-hearted love but he is possessive and will ensure to keep a close eye on his woman. while he may be jealous, he looks for women who try not to "control" them or "hold them back" from living life. for him, love involves growing by expanding boundaries and going beyond the comfort zone. if he is in a relationship with a woman and feels stagnant, the man will eventually reach an ultimatum of whereby he feels he cannot grow if he is still with her. he has a broad mind and will not settle for someone who tries restricting their way of living. they could be "out there" and party or simply just travel a lot and if the woman he is with attempts to restrict him, he will feel suffocated.
emotional expressiveness and honesty are key qualities these men look for also. he does not look for someone who smothers or someone who is overly protective, but he looks for someone he can rely on honestly. these men are not overly emotional but they are very impulsive and will heavily rely on their impulses to keep them moving and going through life. as long as feelings are kept honest and light-hearted, these men will feel most comfortable in the relationship. relationships where the woman is overly sentimental or "too sensitive" can actually trigger the man into leaving as he feels he has no emotional freedom as he is actually forced into feelings things, rather than coming to his own senses. this man needs to be pushed (mentally and physically) constantly and they cannot be stagnant in their personal and love life. lively, energetic, and confident women are most attractive to this man. shy and reflective women are only attractive if the man senses her inner confidence, mysticism, and self-respect.
women who are unafraid of expressing their thoughts and opinions are attractive to these men also. they may date women who are more "masculine" than feminine in the sense that they may be more sexual and free-spirited than a typical emotionally-attuned woman who values emotions and family over sex and etc. he may date women who are independent and have their own money and lives sorted as he feels unable to be wholly relied upon.
sex and lust will flow through the relationship in big, strong waves. passion and infatuation will be strong indicators of raw chemistry. these men want a connection that triggers their mind and soul into growing and chasing. these men, being an aries venus, love chasing; therefore, the women they are with must be enticing, with something to always discover. if the man feels as though he knows his woman thoroughly or feels as though he "caught" her, he may become bored or uninterested. if he doesn't feel a fiery connection or profound attraction, he may feel dissatisfied as his sexual needs can be hard to please. he wants a woman who is confident in her own sexuality and is not interested in women who are insecure or self-doubting. he doesn't want to feel owned while simultaneously owning the woman, if, of course, his venus is negatively aspected. in extreme cases if the man is insecure or threatened by a woman's self-confidence he will "own" the woman and become controlling. these men may have one night stands or just have very light and free relationships with people where labels don't define them. they may be cheaters or just very hot and cold in relationships. for an evolved man however, commitment and loyalty are actually desirable traits in a woman, because he offers these too. he may rush into relationships quickly or just offer a very quick-paced relationship... the woman must keep up or he will have no problem leaving her behind!
taurus venus β sensual, giving, and traditional women
in a broad sense, taurus venus are traditional men, whether with morals or actual traditions. traditional may include marriage or just very dedicated relationships. he may even have a provider mindset in his relationships. this is an insanely romantic placement with a very grounded demeanor that ultimately hides his passions and desires. he feels everything very deeply and looks for someone with whom he can live comfortably. he does not look for someone overly adventurous or spontaneous like a fire or air venus; instead, he looks for someone who can offer him the simplicity of love and peace. he loves women who value their appearance by taking care of their hygiene and taking care of their looks. they don't find unpresentable women attractive or women who don't make an effort on their appearance. this isn't to say these men are vain but, in a broader sense, these men love aesthetics; they love looking at something pretty or aesthetic. they love art and are fascinated by the magic of art and will, therefore, instinctively, look for "aesthetics" or the "pretty" in women. fashion, makeup, hair, etc. are all included in the "aesthetics."
these men might go for women who are independent and career-oriented. these men have the long vision of family and kids however, and he cannot settle with someone who does not share the vision of having a happy-ever-after with kids and love. these men are the type to spoil with gifts and surprise dates but these men do not rush into relationships. he is not insecure to bother with people just for the sake of being in a relationship. these men have no problem being alone whatsoever and will actually be alone until they meet someone who convinces them to stay. taurus men look for the qualities of loyalty, caring, loving, humility, and honesty in a woman. if he meets a woman he will not make any further movements until he is convinced she offers these feminine qualities. he is not interested in insecure women or women who have a lot of exes or promiscuous women. for him, a life of stability and financial freedom is all he wants; he looks at life as something to build rather than to exploit. by giving away his body or himself, he is giving away valuable access to people who don't deserve it. he doesn't need anybody's attention to be happy or feel free. he will also look for this in a woman.
these men are not emotionless; rather, they can be very emotional with the woman they have chosen. the only distinction is that he is very grounded in the way he expresses and processes his emotions and thoughts. he rarely lets anything bother him to the core but he is also very observant in how others act and treat him. he can be a very stubborn person with slight vindictiveness but he is generally a kind soul with little room for vengeance. he looks for women who won't mother him but will offer a balance between love and independence. he can provide for himself and is merely looking for a companion more than someone to care for him. if he is traditional, then he will actually look for someone to provide for. he may date women who are traditional or just very attractive. he may date women for marriage. he may date women who are independent; whether financially, or living alone, or working a specific job
these men express their love on a physical and emotional level. touching and gift-giving are these men's key love languages. they love experiencing life and others through touch and will devour their women with affection and attention. they are lowkey clingy with a very cold and hardened demeanor on the outside. he will rarely share his depth with people who haven't touched him emotionally. only close friends and family will know who these people really are. the ideal woman for this man would be someone who is of a consistent and hardworking caliber. she cannot let things get to her because she needs to stay consistent and dedicated on her journey to success. these men might not value materialism too much but it is also how they express their gratitude towards the woman they are with. someone who is predictable and humble will win his heart. it's like they are hardwired to be monogamous...
gemini venus β communicative, honest, and knowledgeable women
mental stimulation is probably the most important thing for these men. for these men, a mental connection is required for any relationship to bloom. it's why gemini venus typically prefers someone like-minded as them. in general though, gemini venus are very light-hearted people with little to prove. they are opinionated and somewhat stubborn; they are superficial but very funny and optimistic also. they can be very philosophical or just very communicative. he thinks nothing is impossible for him, not even relationships, however, relationships can become a real struggle if he surrounds himself with the wrong women. to specify, gemini venus is a very unserious sign, usually very light-hearted and very much non-committal. them being cheaters or two-faced is a direct manifestation of the superficial personality they show to everyone. it's not wholly true, because that suggests these people feel nothing below the surface when they really do. it's just they are very selective about who they share their feelings with and when. in relationships, for example, they may communicate their feelings very rationally or very specifically. for women who are overly sensitive or emotional, it becomes a bore for the gemini venus to give constant reassurance when, in his mind, there is nothing wrong. the disconnect between emotions is real when he is an unevolved gemini venus. he may lead people on or be very flirty, but he may also run away quickly once he detects any ounce of seriousness creeping in.
for him, his ideal feminine is someone who can keep the conversation going forever. he loves learning and will look for someone who can learn alongside him. he loves traveling and exploring and looks for a best friend and a lover to join him. his ideal feminine is someone who can trick him, someone who can make him laugh, someone witty, someone who can challenge his mind. physical aspects are important, but this sign tends to focus on the mental to really feel anything else. they look for the mental "click" between him and his woman before he feels comfortable going further. he may prefer women who are social and have a lot of friends.
independence is a strong need for this placement. they need to feel like they have the freedom to roam and do whatever they want without the restrictive "labels" that tie them down. a lot of these people don't commit because they actually fear commitment. he needs a man that keeps her guessing at all times.
these men may date women who are independent, flirtatious, and unserious. these men may date women who are vain or just very superficial. he may prefer short flings to real and long-lasting relationships. these men may date women who are insecure or need male validation; he often preys on these as a result of being an insecure man. when a gemini venus is insecure, he will become highly opinionated, will gossip, and will cheat. therefore, the women he attracts will be of the same caliber.
cancer venus β sentimental and family-oriented women
the ideal feminine for this man is someone caring, loving, and family-oriented. there is usually a nostalgic or sentimental connection with these men's lovers because of their connection to their roots and mother and how much they try to replicate it in their own personal lives. these men are tenacious and ambitious, being a cardinal sign. he is a leader at heart and understands the need to provide and his responsibility in building a home. he doesn't desire or go for women who are too loud or showy. he prefers women who are quiet and down-to-earth like himself. women who are homebodies or women who enjoy spending time alone are most likely his preference as he is the same. many people may associate this sign with immaturity because of certain stereotypes that cancer placements are cheaters but, in reality, it's only the case if this venus is unevolved or malefically placed/aspected. it can also be the case where these men are overly protective, jealous, or possessive of their women; these traits usually signify an underlying problem though, such as mommy issues or just neglect from a young age. for most men, they try to replicate their domestic home in their current one, whether it be through sentimental objects or just through certain traditions.
he is protective and loving of his woman. he is connected to his feminine side of nurturing and being sympathetic. he looks for these qualities in women too. his ideal feminine involves someone who is caring, loving, humble, and childish like him. he is a loyal man who will devote his time and energy to his woman, always. on the outside, he may be known as the guy who works hard to provide for his woman. he may be known as someone who's just ambitious or a workaholic. but really, he is a gooey and affectionate guy who loves hard. he expresses his feelings both in an affectionate and gooey way but also in a provider way, where he provides for his woman and gives her gifts. this is a seriously happy placement but it can also be a severely damaged one. these men may attract women who are insecure or just very emotional and overly sentimental. this typically speaks of an issue the man has, as the women he meets are reflections of his own insecurities. an unhappy home may lead him to see women with broken homes too. he may play the saviour in relationships or try to "heal" the other without realizing he needs healing too.
his ideal feminine will be someone who is sensitive to others and himself. he may go for women who are shy and sweet. he may be the indecisive type and will actually need a woman he can go to for counsel when necessary. he really just wants a best friend and a lover with whom he can relate to. this is a very needy placement and women who are easily overwhelmed or disgusted at gooey affection will not be satisfied in a relationship with these men. he wants someone he can build a family and a home with, not somebody overly focused on superficial things like money or social status (although because this is a cardinal sign, cancer venus are typically very ambitious when it comes to these things... but only because he has to!!!).
leo venus β dramatic, fiery, and loving women
leo venus is arguably one of the most devoted and loving signs of the venus zodiac. they are loyal and care for their partners very deeply. for a man, the level of devotion he expects should be returned from his woman. an evolved leo venus will always be humble and loving when in a relationship. to him, however, his ideal feminine will be someone who is unapologetically self-expressive and fiery. he wants someone who can bring the real deal and someone who offers an undying passion for their partner. he feels things on a dramatic level and expects his woman to express his feelings, however dramatic they may be. he goes above and beyond for his partner in a love so unconditional and somewhat divine. what he wants from a female, however, is appreciation, compliments, and to be valued as a man. if he is in a relationship where he doesn't feel reassured, valued, or appreciated, or feels as though his loyalty is being tested or abused, he will quickly lose interest. he does not settle for women who lack gratitude or appreciation in simple things. the ideal feminine will involve personality and security. this may be a vain placement in the sense that these people typically go off looks or appearances but their attraction towards physical appearance wears off as attraction towards personality and actual expressions of love take over. he needs someone who isn't validated by the world or someone who has a very strong self-image. he wants someone who knows how to dress. he has a love for art or just writing and would appreciate words of affirmation. he may be attracted to women who are independent but most importantly women who are proud and confident. he does not find insecure women attractive as it does not align with his goal to become his best possible self.
these men radiate luxury and materialism. they, if evolved, are hardworking and attract very elegant women. therefore, women who are promiscuous, or women who do not offer loyalty, are instantly out of his mind. their strong desire for affection and attention are sometimes expressed in how much they spoil their woman. they love love and love being loved. leo mars in women typically look for men who are ready to bow to her and worship her but leo venus in men look for this "worship" in a different way. if the woman is outgoing and herself and offers her time to the man only, then he will feel like he is worshipped. he wants a woman who is confident in her sexuality as he is very sexual and very intimately demanding. he will have a high sex drive for his woman and will continuously look to bond with her. in general, this placement dates for marriage or, at the very least, for the long term. because these men have so much love to offer, they typically hold off until they meet their "one" or until they trust someone. unevolved leo venus men actually act gullible because they desire attention so much and are so insecure they need it from multiple women. they tend to put their trust in so many people and are therefore abused.
leo venus men are probably the tamest out of the fire venus bundle because this is a fixed sign with a very hardworking streak. they are very calculated in their work life and will look for a woman who can match the independence, work ethic, and morals that he has. he has very high standards in love and will look for a woman with matching dignity and self-respect. he also looks for optimism, support, and advice from his woman. these men must ensure that they do not attract the wrong type of confidence, i.e. women who are cocky and self-absorbed. these men may have the tendency to be self-absorbed and cocky and therefore attract women who are the same. but, they must find childishness in the woman they date because leo, in general, is very childish/childlike and heals through playing with their inner child. releasing their inner child in a relationship is very important.
virgo venus β critical, humble, and self-giving women
virgo venus is a critical sign, especially in a man. because this placement is so logically placed, there seems to be an emphasis on logic or rational thinking in love. these men love being alone and spending time with quality friends/family. they're not the type to make friends with everyone, but instead the type to make a few friends along their journey. therefore, it's a clear sign of love if a virgo venus man decides to keep a woman in his life. his main struggles will revolve around learning humility and learning how to stop being critical (towards his woman and himself) and learning to not be a perfectionist. being perfect is great, but it is not realistic. modesty and honesty are admired and desired by these men because they love cleanliness and being tidy. they love women who have good hygiene or have a (strict) routine they can stick to, whether it be a work routine or a gym one. the ultimate downfall for this sign is being overly possessive or controlling and having standards too unattainable. on a general level, though, these men are attracted to quiet women. they don't like or desire women who are too loud or overly expressive.
these men may be the loner type, or at least the type to have very few friends. he needs a lot of time for his social battery to recharge. it's important for him, then, to have someone who respects his need for loneliness. he looks for women who are dependable and reliable because he is also. being an earth sign, reliability, consistency, and predictability are his strongest qualities. he may be overly critical or too much of a perfectionist, but his work ethic or sympathy toward the poor can never be undermined. he looks for these qualities (sympathetic, loyal, clean, predictable, reliable) because he looks for a woman who can live her value, rather than not having any self-esteem and trying to prove something she isn't. dignified women who have a lot of self-respect and humility are most desirable for these men. they may be traditional or, for example, look for maternal qualities in their women, too.
these men's downfall can involve self-esteem issues or heavy insecurities, usually projected when in a relationship because of how much they are forced to look at their partner who mirrors these men's self-esteem issues. they may attract "low-value women" with qualities the complete opposite of what these men desire because of their own "low-value" selves. these men may surround themselves with too many people because they actually fear being alone and they look for the attention and validation of others to satisfy their inner void. they experience great turmoil when they realize their critical and hateful nature actually stems from their own distaste for their own character. they become hypocritical and heavily hateful towards others.
these men don't fall in love very quickly, therefore making them very slow-moving in love. they're not quick to love or feel (but are definitely quick to judge!), so the woman can always expect the man to reveal himself later on in the relationship. he is not the one to expect immediate commitment, but commitment that is worked on instead. loyalty is everything to him, as he makes an excellent companion. these men can actually become infatuated and deeply in love with women, but it takes a long time to really get there. when in love, though, become provider men. they prioritize their women's needs and actually do everything for her.
libra venus β flirtatious, sensual, and feminine women
very similar desires as a taurus venus man: feminine women with good taste in art, "aesthetics", and fashion. these men may be feminine themselves or just be very attuned to their feminine side, i.e. emotional, fashionable, etc. they appreciate the finer things in life and looks for a woman that is a chase but also someone with style. as this is a sign of scales, these men look for a woman they can be in synch with. this is a sign of togetherness, therefore whoever this man chooses, he will reflect. women who are "well-groomed" or just very elegant are his ideal feminine. he doesn't look for someone loud or gaudy or someone who doesn't take care of herself. he looks for cleanliness, charm, and peace without her having to do much. if you want a mental image of who these men want, think of someone with a libra rising or someone who has very heavy libra placements (especially those that are very prominent.) he looks for a woman who is respectable, polite, and confident in herself and her sexuality.
relationships promote his flirtiness and need for love and, therefore, if in a relationship, he will find himself spoiling his woman or just tending to her every need. therefore, he will look for someone who can reflect his flirtatious nature and sex drive. this is a hopeless romantic who loves love. he does not look for a woman who is vain or so focused on appearance, it becomes her whole personality. these men, as much as they want good looks, actually fall into the trap of dating women who are superficial and offer only... well... good looks. they often date women with no personality or women who cannot truly reflect the man's need to bounce off his woman and connect with her on a romantic level. sensuality and sexual grace are key qualities the woman should have because he is drawn to looks and energy.
these men don't look for someone who make relationships hard. they don't look for someone who mother them or smother them in love and demands. yes, this is a highly affectionate and loving sign but he tends to stay as superficial as he possibly can, emotionally wise. feelings aren't difficult for him but they can feel like a chore if he is in a relationship with someone who demands feelings to be felt. he prefers someone he can work and grow beside. he prefers being with someone and feeling as though he can still be independent and not tied down by chains in the relationship. he wants someone who speaks and moves smoothly, not someone who is aggressive or sudden in their approach. he actually encourages feminine behavior in his relationships and will actually help other women heal their wounded femininity. however, women who act masculine or tough are not desirable to him. to him, the ideal feminine is quite literally feminine all around.
mental stimulation is important in his relationships because he is an air venus. if he feels stagnation or boredom, his mind is easily piqued by others who offer something more worthwhile. this isn't to say libra venus men are disloyal; they can be very loyal, but to a fault, they have demands as does anybody else. air signs are constantly on the move whether it be physically or mentally. this person is always thinking, interacting, and fantasizing. if his woman does not share the same excitement as him or the same energy, he will quickly become underwhelmed. he is not impressed by women that are wanted by other men, but women who are modest, independent, and offer love only when they want it.
scorpio venus β sensual, mysterious, and βuntouchableβ women
these men, on the outside, are typically very emotionless and uncaring. on the inside, however, they are profoundly emotional with a strong capacity to love. these men tend to attract women who cause severe change within themselves, as scorpio venus can be a tremendously burdening placement to have, with scorpio = change/transformation, and venus = love/friendship. with these two combined, their friendships or relationships are constantly challenged. for a scorpio venus man, love is a heavy source of change and transformation. their insecurities are usually mirrored in their relationships. they have a strong responsibility to heal with this placement. for a man, his ideal feminine is someone loyal, possessive, and caring. this placement carries a heavy emotional aspect and these men must find someone who can reflect their depth of feeling. he does not find weak-willed women attractive. confidence and sensuality are this sign's turn-ons and he will not find someone who lacks depth or mystery. for him, loyalty is not easily given. he will choose "untouchable" women who have a short history with men. they are not picky, but are just very selective with whom they have intimacy with. they will only open up to those they see long-term potential with.
this is not a sign that dates for fun or for the short-term. if he does, he is an unevolved scorpio venus. evolved scorpio venus' dates with labels, with clear possession, with clear signs the woman is his and his only. unevolved scorpio venus' usually date but fear fully committing because they are scared of rejection or facing the fact that someone might not like them as much as he likes them. typically, these men attract women who are seductive, passionate, and mysterious. they tend to keep their relationships private. for him, his ideal feminine is someone affectionate, loving, and confident. he loves women confident in their sexuality. he typically goes for women who have similar energy as him, i.e. someone with scorpio placements, with whom he can relate to. for him, having someone to relate to is important because he wants to feel understood by his partner inasmuch he wants to understand others. his red flag, however, is his subconscious habit of self-sabotaging. he may cause drama or self-sabotage whilst in a relationship. being a heavily insecure sign, it's common to see many relationships fail because of him. pluto's influence over venus causes turmoil within him, making him question his self-worth and ability to provide for his woman. it's why, for him, relationships can be scarce. oftentimes, the women he attracts are the catalyst for his healing journey. the typical depiction of scorpio is someone who brings others down in an attempt to become equal to them. here, too, the scorpio venus man might become overly controlling or obsessive in the relationship to the point of bringing down the other instead of uplifting the other.
the ideal feminine for these men is someone who can recognize the value between intertwining love and sex together. this sign is intensely passionate and will cling to whoever he loves dearly. if his woman doesn't reciprocate the same neediness or obsessiveness as he does for her, he will doubt his true feelings for her. what he wants is someone who can let him heal and grow. he is attracted to women who are quiet but fiery. he wants to know his woman inside out. he desires quiet elegance whereby the woman speaks with energy instead of words.
spirituality may become interwoven into the relationship as these men see love as an ecstatic experience more than a shallow connection. this means these men typically see relationships as something spiritual or destined. if his woman is not on the same wavelength as him on this fact, he will quickly become disinterested.
sagittarius venus β adventurous and free-spirited women
this can be a very fun placement for those who don't want to take love so seriously. these men are born to be unserious. they are born to be adventurous and to experiment with others, especially in love. this can be a highly polygamous person or a cheater. this sign is rarely loyal and, if loyal, is only loyal because the relationship has little to no rules. this man's ideal feminine is someone concerned with the spiritual life, as well as the material one. these men are highly spiritual people, with a very strong moral compass. they have very strong views on life and can actually be very opinionated, depending on how some people view them. they may be stubborn.
for him, his ideal feminine will involve someone who can offer spontaneity and excitement in the relationship. movement or adventure is crucial for these men to feel satisfied. they actually bond with their loved ones better when they have a mutual interest (such as traveling) or when they can explore new themes/places together. these men radiate light and optimism wherever they go and will look for a woman that uplifts them rather than one that tries dimming his light. he is actually very selective in who he loves because of his adventurous and independent standard. actually, his independence may become his ultimate downfall in relationships. because they are so individualistic and independent, they often fear losing their independence in relationships and will, therefore, avoid any sort of serious commitment. it often backfires when the women they're with lose interest because they can't seem to offer them honest loyalty. they start lying and manipulating their way into the sheets just to disappear the next day. this sign is the perfect example of someone who wants independence but also wants love. they feel love on a deep level, regardless of what anyone says. they're not superficial lovers but they make things superficial for the sake of light-heartedness. nonetheless, they can make great partners if this sign has evolved into someone with spiritual or religious values. an evolved sagittarius venus can become one of the most intoxicating signs because of their positive attitude toward life.
i may have mentioned his superficiality in relationships, but his ideal feminine involves someone who can think incredibly philosophically and someone who has a deep view of life. he meanders through life with a specific purpose in mind and needs someone who understands him and why he does the things he does. he needs to work with others to figure out how life works and how different cultures live. it's why adventure is so important to him and having a woman who can join him on his adventure. he wants someone to grow with, someone to evolve with, someone to learn with. these are highly philosophical men who will trigger others into rethinking life just from their opinions or beliefs on life.
these men may not have a particular goal in mind and therefore need a woman who is the same or at least is willing to explore with him. women who rely on predictability, consistency, and money will find themselves dissatisfied with a sagittarius venus because money rarely actually matters for these men. even if they become rich, their generous nature encourages them to spoil their family and friends rather than themselves. because this is a jupiter-ruled venus, luck and abundance may reign throughout these men's relationships, but they may become too broad and general, there's hardly ever a deeper click than with the mind or physical attraction. for these men, they can be highly lustful or passionate they use sex to satisfy themselves. this isn't for every sagittarius venus, however; this is only a general observation or interpretation. sagittarius can actually be a very loyal companion... only if evolved.
he may date women who are spontaneous, spiritual, religious, or philosophical. he may date women with little to no expectations or women who don't mind having short flings or short relationships. he may date women as part of an arrangement (think arranged marriage) or he may date ethnic/foreign women. he may date outside his race or culture. he may date women who are exotic or something he's not used to. not as a fetish, although this can be an extreme manifestation of an unevolved sagittarius venus. he may date someone from one of his travels or adventures. generally speaking, he may date women who are very optimistic, funny, honest, humble, and generous.
capricorn venus β hardworking, traditional, and successful women
these men are very traditional and hardworking. his ideal feminine will include the following traits: loyal, hardworking, traditional, independent but family-oriented, logical, and successful. social status may be important to these men but, in general, they value success and material wealth. they desire women who are family-oriented and motherly. because they are traditional, they will mostly be monogamous and will marry their spouse without a doubt. for them, hookup culture isn't a thing... if this placement is evolved. these men work for their money and are natural providers for their women, whether it be entirely or just partly.
these men value class, elegance, honesty, and ambition. these men are very stubborn people in the sense that they will persevere, regardless of circumstances. they are workaholics who appreciate when a woman is independent and can take care of herself. he looks for ambition in women, also. he does not find laziness or reliance on him attractive. he does not find gaudy or loud women attractive. modest and quiet women seem to catch his attention. in relationships, he is not quick to open up but, being a stubborn sign, will always persevere in his relationships. he is not quick to tire when it comes to working for a successful relationship. he is devoutly loyal and will always communicate openly. however, his only downfall is his emotional unawareness or lack of emotional reciprocation. he wants a woman that is motherly and intelligent. he wants a woman that is in control of her emotions instead of someone who is overly sensitive or complains a lot. being an earth sign, he is slow to fall in love and slow to propose. he is not looking for someone aggressive, but someone who is predictable, sure of what they want, and certain of their future. this sign works for its future. these men are probably one of the most hardworking signs in the entire zodiac and, while it may come with its disadvantages, it comes with a lot of advantages, too. for example, they will always be predictable in their approach. their woman will never be unsure of how this man feels for them. she will always know, for certain, where in life he wants to go. she will always feel comfortable knowing he will provide for her when necessary. she, on the other hand, must promise him loyalty, responsibility, commitment, and patience. these men work for their future slowly and steadily. if he values social status or social success, he will most likely look for women in the public field, or older women who have a lot of success.
these men look for someone mature. they're not feminine freaks but they will desire a woman who is connected to her feminine side as her maternal instincts (i.e. care, love, sensitivity, empathy, loyalty) match his masculine instincts (hardworking, providing, guiding, honesty.) these men may instinctively date women similar to their mothers. they may date women who are serious and detached.
aquarius venus β unconventional and authentic women
these men are naturally self-expressive and authentic. they are very different from others and know this in their minds. therefore, they will look for similarities in women. women who are self-expressive and unconventional are their ideal feminine. they don't want a woman with a copy-and-paste personality or an appearance that is similar to everyone else's. really, this person looks for someone who stands out from the crowd because, they too, stand out from the crowd. they are very genuine in their approach to love because they appreciate the differences in people, rather than what's conventional. they don't like following traditions or submission to dogma but instead will create their own "traditions" or beliefs that involve their own personality. they may oppose marriage, for example, or they may oppose monogamous relationships. they may not believe in labels such as boyfriend/girlfriend, even. nonetheless, they can make great lovers because they inspire their women to take charge and to go after what they truly desire. they push the boundaries of those they love and will happily stay loyal to the long-term vision they have with their partners. they're not particular about their fashion style but they, as an aquarius venus, stand out with their uniqueness. they feel if they were to "settle" with someone who is just like everybody else, they may lose their individuality. it's why, too, they tend to refuse or dislike labels. if they feel as though they have to fit some standard instead of being themselves, they tend to run away. this sign can have some serious commitment issues but, if evolved, can see relationships as an excellent tool and method to grow as a person and learn about others.
similarly to other air and fire signs, they tend to fear stagnation or boredom in a relationship. therefore, women who are "eccentric" or women who bring a lot of temptation, chasing, and change are very desirable. these men value women who can keep their own independence and women who can let them be independent also. women who recognize the value of excitement in relationships are ultimately most desirable as these women are the ones that cause growth in relationships. if he's in a relationship with a woman that is too laid-back or predictable, he will feel like there's nothing to chase and nothing to gain from the relationship. mental stimulation is a necessity for them as they must always feel like they are on the move.
because both aquarius and venus = friendships/relationships, these people ultimately look for a best friend they can relate with. they don't date simply for sex or for love but for the bond that comes with being friends and lovers. for these people, they can be very loyal to their partner if they think their partner is both a lover and a best friend. there must be a strong connection before he feels like he can commit to them. these men don't commit easily in the sense that they must have a mental rapport with them stronger than physical attraction. remember, this sign looks for quirks and things others don't see.
these men may date women who give themselves to society or those who are good with the public or have a lot of friends. they choose to date women who have a unique style and women who enjoy being self-expressive. loyalty and authenticity are key qualities these men look for because these men look for something unique, rather than something copied. they may date women who, on some level, "don't want anything serious", or women who have very loose beliefs on traditions and the like. these men may date women who are very independent and look for companionship more than a serious relationship.
pisces venus β loving, dreamy, and mysterious women
this placement can be very similar to scorpio venus in the sense that these men crave sensuality and emotional intensity. this is not a sign that dates for fun or for the short term. to thes men, love is more ecstatic than practical. this doesn't mean they are unreliable as lovers but they focus on the emotional aspect of relationships to the point of becoming engulfed in the idea of escaping through love with another person. he has an incredible capacity to love and will give whatever he can to the woman he loves. his ideal feminine is someone loyal, sensitive, and emotional. he needs someone he can feel back and forth with and needs someone emotionally readily available for them. they can be a hunch to date as they have a tendency to smother or be insecure in relationships. most of the time, these men attract women who are hard to reach or emotionally unavailable. this is a common link between all water signs because they crave a connection so deep and profound, they tend to force emotions or self-sabotage for the sake of feeling. he is ready to worship his female, but only if she is willing to do the same. they may be hopeless romantics and spend their entire lives looking for "the one" with unrealistic standards and expectations of love. despite the fairytale love he looks for, he often fails to live up to the dream he envisions. nonetheless, these people are devoutly loyal and, if positively aspected, can make some of the most unforgettable lovers out there. their level of kindness is unmatched and the things they are willing to do for others goes beyond just personal sacrifice.
he does not find cold women attractive. he needs someone to emotionally attune to. this is his demand. if he feels as though the connection has run out of synch he will either run away or try his hardest to revive the connection. he looks for someone understanding and committed because he offers a level of understanding and empathy others cannot offer. he is turned on by kindness, sweetness, and motherly traits because this person looks for someone quite the opposite of independent, aggressive, or just very emotionless. if any girl was to win his heart, it would be through affection, attention, and being nice.
a highly negative side to this placement is that, while he may desire love so much, he may actually attract women who need to be loved. he may act as the healer or attract very broken and insecure women who need to be shown love. this can prove to be toxic when the man begins over-giving and the woman begins abusing his attention and efforts by demeaning his efforts as she will never feel good enough for him. to him, the ideal feminine involves being mysterious and hard to reach. he doesn't like easily accessible women or women who have a lot of options. they need to feel like the only one.
this placement can be very ambitious, but he is ambitious through emotions rather than logic. if he feels something, it's felt passionately and thoroughly. he doesn't follow his instincts as much and actually prefers taking the flow with things but it doesn't mean he's idle or passive. instead, he takes his time and makes time for things he is genuinely passionate about or interested in. if he doesn't have someone who (emotionally) supports him or shares his interests, he will feel undermined or unvalued in the relationship. femininity is important to him. he likes someone gentle, delicate, etc.
love and sex are intertwined as one and only unevolved pisces venus would abuse sex. to a pisces venus, sex is the sacrifice of the body almost; it's the connection between body and mind and it is where love is truly expressed through physical connection + climax. there is a certain idealization of sex however, where it is made up to be some sort of great escape of pleasure when in reality it's a soul tie with a deeper bond.
π he is extremely nurturing & protective. he can be smothering & clingy.
π old wounds & past traumas can heavily influence his present rxships & cause him to react from a place of fear rather than love.
π initially he may keep a guard up bc hes protecting themselves & their comfort. unless heβs known you for quite some time & has good reason to believe his feelings are reciprocated, heβs unlikely to make the first move bc heβs sensitive, reserved & fears rejection too much to risk being let down.
π he can be moody, shy & emotionally manipulative (blaming his partner for his own low mood).
π you will know someone w cancer placements is taking you srsly & trusts you if they invite you to their home as their home is a v important place to them. itβs where their personality shines, itβs their walls full of pictures of family & friends, books their mother read to them when they were little, blankets their grandmother made for them. they canβt let go of these things so when they let you inside their little shell, you can tell they put a huge amount of trust in you, they donβt do that w just anyone.
Turn Onβs:
π he seeks a partner who is soft & emotionally understanding. a partner who provides lots of physical affection, comfort, security & vulnerability. a partner who feels like home, taking care of him & catering to him. show off your sweet, delicate & nurturing side. act like a mom & treat him like a priority. be gentle & caring as heβs v sensitive & requires emotional security.
π his ideal partner has a water sign moon or asc.
π he wants someone w a strong connection to family or someone who wants a family.
π ask him abt his rxship w his mum as he may have a mommy kink or mommy issues.
π heβs turned on by someone who is family oriented, sensitive, persistent, compassionate, patient w feminine energy.
π he def likes a dominant women who reminds him of his mum.
π to impress him, dress a tad more modest & traditional. he likes the colours of the moon (white, grey, light blue). donβt dress with too many colours or patterns. show da titties off, cancer placements love titties.
π he finds shy people super cute & charming.
π all water venusβs want emotional security. they want to be able to have a safe space & build a deep bond (they lacked this this security growing up). they want to feel spiritually bonded w their partner.
Turn Offβs:
π someone who is unemotional, arrogant, aloof, flashy & inconsiderate.
π when you make him feel left out, unwanted & refuse to take his feelings into account. (same for all water venus).
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