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call me daja | transmed/truscum |14 | he/they | i am a nepeta stan

[azdajadiscourse]

a few of my older discourse posts have 100+ notes and op (me) just wants you to know if you reblog/like those you’re personally really stupid considering i literally don’t even agree with them anymore

[azdajadiscourse]

no, no no, please. your discourse used to be so good. no neopronouns, please.

anon i hope you realize that this makes u seem rly pathetic and embarrassing like chances r you’re probably atleast a year older than me and groveling over a 14 year old that changed discourse opinions isn’t a good look lol

[azdajadiscourse]

lol okay so um ive talked it over with friends and my bf + kinda feeling influenced by an alter so.

i wanna just. apologize incase anyone has been hurt by my blog or anything ive posted. truthfully i felt rly in denial of things so i took it out on other ppl. recently my bf and friends have come out in wanting to use neopronouns and i don’t see any option in denying them that and im no hypocrite either so i know i shouldn’t say i support them but nobody else.

maybe ill change my mind about this but for now i just want to apologize to anyone in the event they felt hurt or invalidated by me. im just really sorry and over the months ive learned to sympathize with ppl who use neos and nounself pronouns. i don’t rly see myself running this blog like i use to because the selfhate and venting literally seeps through every post i made. i don’t resent or hate anyone whether they’re transmed or tucute or not i just don’t really want to return to something like this ive made again and spread hate

[azdajadiscourse]

Hi there! I’m just wondering what was the event that made you realize that you didn’t want to be a tucute anymore? And how was the process in finding how/what to identify yourself afterwards?

i don’t think i should be answering this anymore because recent stuff but

the event at the time was someone telling me about their friends dysphoria and how he felt awful and me realizing maybe it wasn’t entirely a light matter. the process of finding what to identify myself as was kinda just i decided to stop labeling myself specifically. now i go by just being a transmasc nonbinary which makes me feel most comfortable

[azdajadiscourse]

my experience as a former tucute

its funny when tucutes think transmeds haven’t been there and had experience so we know that they’re talking about. we’ve gone through this and experienced it and know you don’t take it seriously. when i was 11/12 years old i literally called myself manglegender (only because i liked fnaf at the time) and 2 years ago i called myself a tucute with pride. yes i LITERALLY had called myself a tucute and decorated my profiles on sites with cute “sakura trans” flags. i didn’t even know what it meant to be really trans and decided one day i wanted to be a trans boy out of nowhere essentially until someone had to tell me that i needed dysphoria and being trans was something that people injured themselves and killed themselves over their crippling dysphoria.

being a tucute also made me believe i was aro/ace without once again understanding what that meant. i called myself frayromantic just because i saw the term and liked it and thought it related to me without thinking or having much experience in life.

being a tucute made me take gender and being trans/nonbinary as a joke (and my sexuality) and not seriously as well as stopped me from understanding what my dysphoria was or how it affected me. being a tucute is absolutely harmful to the trans community and the people who call themselves one are hurt by it as well. the mogai is terrible and will only stop you from figuring yourself out

[azdajadiscourse]

not sure if its passive influence or attempts at co fronting  but rn having an internal debate and nearly crying because one of ur headmates wants to be in their words “kind to people” n “not a transmed”???? help i also think i know exactly who it is too

[azdajadiscourse]

there’s a cis girl i use to know (she literally still uses her birth pronouns, for fucks sake) and she uses catself now i think it’s the funniest shit ever but also makes me want to cry oh also she fetishises gay men + “femboys” as a bonus point and calls herself one + she’s like 13

 tucutes shut the fuck up challenge i can’t explain how much i hate the fucking mogai

[azdajadiscourse]

im 90% that i think one of my bastard headmates is attempting to change one of my opinions and today is the day i mentally bludgeon one of my own

[yaboitransmeds]

Oof ok-

So, after talking to my friends about this whole thing going on with my ex friends, I have decided to delete this blog. It makes me anxious knowing that the toxic people in my past life know about my Tumblr and I don't think I will be able to overcome this paranoia. I'm sorry to long time followers and people who like my blog, but please understand that this is for my mental health. This has been fun and I promise I will be a transmed till I die ;3

Goodbye, bitches ❤️

Now! I will recommend other transmed discourse accounts to fill that transmed discourse hole in your heart HBDJDH

@irrelevant13 @blurrymango @azdajadiscourse @satans-ashes @finn-course @tranny-transmed And that's all I really have at the top of my head. Feel free to self promote yourself in the notes.

❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

[azdajadiscourse]

What's your opinion on the xenopronouns vs. neopronoun debate? Xenopronouns being shit like nya or moon pronouns used for aesthetic purposes and neopronouns being things like xe or hir and serving as nonbinary pronouns as opposed to they which is just gender neutral

i genuinely actually can likely accept neopronouns because theres proof they’ve been used for actual decades for those who identify as nonbinary or trans; i’m warming up to it slowly considering even my own bf has been talking to me about him using them so something like xe, zim or vis i can actually very much understand because theres proof they’ve existed before tumblr so i can actually believe and understand them. xenopronouns can go to hell as well as xenopronoun users. those are absolute bullshit and i’m not calling you mew, nya or catself. fuck you for making your pronouns cutesy and aesthetic.

[azdajadiscourse]

send me asks i am curious what i’ve missed in the discourse community in my temporary absence 

[azdajadiscourse]

transmed positivity !!

you need dysphoria to be trans! transmeds are valid! i hope all transmeds have a good day today transfeminine transmeds are incredible transmasculine transmeds are amazing neurodivergent transmeds deserve the world bi and gay transmeds are valid as fuck this is a transmed safe space !!!!

[azdajadiscourse]

anyone who uses neopronouns/xenogenders are always american your stupid made up pronouns don’t fucking translate to other languages, but keep your head stuck up your ass dear

[mogai-cringe]

Mogais really think gender and sexuality are a costume they can change

[the-rice-cat-deactivated2021070]

tucutes: you can choose what gender you want to be

transphobes: yeah!

tucutes, just different transphobes: so choose trans

transphobes: so choose cis

tucutes: pronouns aren’t gendered

transphobes: yeah!

tucutes: so i can make up any pronouns

transphobes: so i can misgender tr@nnies

tucutes: you dont need dysphoria

transphobes: yeah!

tucutes: so i can be trans whilst being comfortable as my birth gender

transphobes: so theres no reason anyone has to actually be trans

tucutes: i can dress in dresses and be completely feminine and still be seen as a ftm

transphobes: yeah!

tucutes: so i can be a soft femme boii uwu

transphobes: so tr@nnies can look like their birth gender and admit its a delusion

transmeds, whether gnc trans people, gc trans people, gnc cis people, and cis transmeds: they’re like twins

[enbycourse]

The idea that neurodivergent people, specifically those with ADHD or ASD, need neopronouns because their neurodivergency affects their ability to “understand the concept of gender,” is so incredibly damaging.

Transgender neurodivergent people already struggle heavily with being taken seriously for being transgender. Having our own “allies” make these claims makes our lives so much harder as trans people. Because of this dumb ass performative activism bullshit, the idea that we’re just confused and aren’t transgender because we just don’t know what we’re talking about has been reinforced. It’s so hurtful and makes our transitions so much harder.

[azdajadiscourse]

its a beautiful day to be a truscum and hate catself pronouns + chairgender people :)