Yeah No Fuck You

Problematic ships that people aren't using to cope are shitty and so r u Icon by @monkeykm and background by @akkiaai dm me if not ok Hey I'm frisk im 16 and I never learned how to fucking read

[yourfaveshatefujoshis]

a minor on this site: i don’t like it when people ship minors with adults it makes me uncomfortable

a 37-year-old “fandom mom”: Honey. Sweetie. I have been writing Ereri since you were in DIAPERS. I raised my KIDS (who are probably older than you), Shiro and Keith, on fanfiction. Shipping gave gay people their RIGHTS. I am an ADULT who pays TAXES and you will not tell me what to do. I am a PROUD SHIPPER. If Otabek and Yurio were real they would be disappointiled in you hun :)

[bad-ship-op]

Ok I feel like I need to talk about this bc like

Admitably, ota//yuri isn't the worse ship out there. The age gap can be an issue, since yuri is 15, and oblek is 18. There's a whole lot of posts on why that age gap at that age is bad, but to sum it up, basically there's a bigger gap between a 15 year old and 18 year old vs someone who's 20 being with someone who's 23. Another thing is that waiting for yuri to get older is creepy. It is. I think people need to realize there's a difference between waiting for someone to get older and growing older with someone. Developing feelings after the fact, after they're old enough and grew up is TOTALLY different than being attracted to someone when they are still a kid and waiting for them to grow up. I think from a purely in anime thing that yeah, maybe that could happen. The thing is that it isn't just a purely in anime thing, like. Anime isn't real life. You don't get to have people grow old and grow into their feelings because it's an anime. And it's not continuously going. It's stuck. And by taking a character and aging them up you're not really aging them up, if that makes sense. They haven't grown at all, as a person, because they aren't really real? And you're also just putting a big time skip there. I don't know how to articulate, but it's sort of like the whole waiting for someone to grow up vs growing into your feelings. Like you see this 15 year old and you want him to be in a relationship with an adult so you age them up. The so is very important. It just doesn't work shipping wise. Real life and fiction are different, as so many shippers will stuff in your face, which is why it doesn't work. It's not, "growing into your feelings", it's "taking this 15 year old and aging them up because you want to ship them", which is of the same line of thinking as "waiting for them to be old enough". It's gross, and creepy. I don't know if this makes sense, but this is my take on it. As someone who IS yurios age I sure as hell wouldn't feel safe or comfortable in a relationship with a 18 year old.

A year can make a lot of difference to a kid. And I do want to emphasize yurio is a kid, a minor, just like I am. I've seen people say that he's "mature" for his age so it makes it ok (which... is a incredibly gross thing to say on many levels) and I think it is very obvious he was forced into a more mature role as a child due to his family situation. He definitely thinks he's grown up; but that just makes him more kid like. He never really got those kid years on the first place and also?? Who here has hear like three year olds insist they're grown up. It's a child-like thing to do. He is a very capable person but that doesn't equal grown up, because adult =/= better or smarter or whatever. Kids can be competent and a lot of times they have to be, to survive. He's still a kid, period.

That all being said I think the main reason I don't like it is because like, not only is there a healthy relationship that isn't a kid with an adult already in the show, it also.. feels like it's under minding not only friendships but yurios character? Maybe this is just me being bias because I was aroace in my yurio canon, but I think yurios character is very much routed in familiar themes. His "agape", his "pure love", wasn't romantic in anyway but about his grandpa. His family is what's important to him, and that includes yuuri and viktor, and yes, oblek. Obleks his friend, his family. And you don't have to be romantically involved to be family, to mean a lot to each other. Just let them be friends.

[doctorstarky]

It’s really important to note that, no matter how over-the-top ridiculous and illogical a bigot seems, they’re always dangerous. Is dosen’t matter if they are incels, Alex Jones, or even the fucking human pet guy; they’re rhetoric is all toxic and shouldn’t just be laughed off like it can’t hurt any. We should all be vigilant against how humor can be used saturate their views.

[moonsilk-deactivated20200420]

when you just wanna skate to win gold for your country but people keep shipping you with a 15 year old you just met

[soma-and-agni-against-sebaciel]

listen i’m 18 and i can tell you with 100% certainty that i would absolutely not date a 16yo much less a 15yo oh my god.

there is literally SO MUCH difference between someone who’s 15 and someone who’s 18. there is no debate, a relationship between two people who are 15 and 18 is. not. acceptable.

[ecto-is-an-anti]

quiet otayuris: crawling out of the cracks on my dashboard

me: 

[moonsilk-deactivated20200420]

it’s 2018 stop asking me why minor x adult ships are wrong and why romanticizing abuse isn’t okay. you have a phone or computer fucking learn why on your own you hooligans

[realnikolaiplisetsky]

I’ve only met this Otabek fellow once briefly but if you kids think he would be in a relationship with a child, you’re wrong! You claim to love him but then make him do something as hideous as that. I see you, devils. He would cry.

[prosheith]

me, strumming a guitar: hES 15 YOU FUCKS

[romansilver-deactivated20200514]

also I haven’t officially spoken out about YOI yet but here’s something to know: otayuri is bad. sexualization of yuri is bad. and just because the canon media might be pushing those bad things doesn’t excuse you to do them.

shipping otayuri makes you garbage, and if you’re an adult especially who supports how sexualized yuri, a 15 year old, is, you need to confront why you think sexualizing children is okay.

[96percentdone]

“You’re excluding like half the fandom if you block otayuri shippers!!”

Good! Fucking bye.

[cephalophor]

The kid gets his first actual friend and you all want to make them fuck. How gross.

[lesbiananti]

why do y’all wanna see minors being taken advantage of so badly???

[pink-coloured-love]

Important Notice!

If you ship Yurio with Otabek, or with any adult then kindly unfollow me and block me, because I’m not having any of those disgusting ships on my blog

[heterophobicloki]

me: hey i have a legit criticism of your ship and your excuses that you use to justify it its kinda creepy and bad

someone: well :) im going to keep shipping them :) because i dont care about your feelings and only care about ME and MY SHIP

[moonsilk-deactivated20200420]

hey yeah the yoi tag is under quarantine we need all fujoshi and pedo sympathizers out stat

[pink-coloured-love]

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