basa: yuri era

- Die-hard romance enjoyer since 2018 - Top 0.1% token straight friend - In a #toughplace

[basa537]

It's my 3 year anniversary on Tumblr 🥳

fully a himedanshi now(?)

realised that it's very rare to be like this

also worrying cracks are starting to show...

[ytskai]

[basa537]

hope they live happy healthy lives

[basa537]

"It's not that we had no heart or eyes for pain. We were all afraid. We all had our miseries. But to despair was to wish back for something already lost. Or to prolong what was already unbearable. How much can you wish for a favorite warm coat that hangs in the closet of a house that burned down with your mother and father inside of it?"

[awesomesugr]

I've liked you for a thousand years, a thousand years

(I can't wait until I see you, I can't wait until I see you)

The Panel on its own

[tilthat]

TIL that a recent study out of the University of Kansas found that it takes about 50 hours of socializing to go from acquaintance to casual friend, an additional 40 hours to become a “real” friend, and a total of 200 hours to become a close friend.

via reddit.com

[azureleon]

Socializing speedrun (Any %)

[kiwianaroha]

This is why it was so much easier to make friends when you were in school; you were trapped with those people all day Monday to Friday. It’s OK that it’s harder to make really good friends now that you’re an adult

[ignescent]

Yes, this! It’s also why regular get together are so useful. If you want to make friends as an adult? Join a book club, go to a craft meet up, find an excuse to hang out w/ approximately the same people once a week for a couple of hours. As you get to know them, invite them out other places. Yes, it’s a pain to have to do the work to socialize, but if you want the friends, you have to trap yourself with the other people.

[spytap]

Reblogging for all my mutuals who have asked “Why is it so hard to make friends as an adult?”

[turnabout]

“if you want the friends, you have to trap yourself with the other people” sounds so sinister. 

[drogonea]

It’s also why so many people lose their entire social network when they retire or start working from home. Making friends outside of work is vital to your own survival when your main access to socialization is controlled by your employer.

[basa537]

that echo gumi song is destroying my Spotify rn...

[sky-ham]

caitvi + leather

Commission for the incredible CourierNinetyTwo who has been one of my fav authors since ME days 🥰

based on this and this

@theivorytowercrumbles

[preheville]

[icy-incubus]

Here, take these

[mystigaron]

bad post

[basa537]

goated art op

[nanalineni]

I love how varied and universally weird the circumstances for making lifelong friendships are. Here's this guy I accidentally messaged once and I could not imagine my life without them now. Here's this girl I was so scared of when I met her, I would kill for her and remind her to rest on the regular. Here's this other guy we have so much in common we used to joke we were the same person in different timelines. It took us years to meet in person and I attended his wedding. There are also people who entered my life in absolutely unremarkable ways but changed it forever for the better. It's wonderful how easy it is to find people to love.

[nanalineni]

This is the best post I have ever written, read the notes and be blessed by loving your friends magic

[finalgirlabigailhobbs]

reblog to bonk the person you reblogged it from with a hollow cardboard tube

[basa537]

@jetlaggingbehind #bonk

#imrunningcirclesaroundyou

[edeave]

Falin's resurrection just stuck with me, it was such an impactful scene in the story, I just had to draw my version of it. I hope you like it!

If you're interested in buying a print or supporting my me and my comics, you can do so here: https://edeave.etsy.com/listing/1737956022

Thank you 💓

[cybrthrillz]

i find myself resonating with this phrase a lot of the time

[staruie]

shes so cute

[ghost-honeyy-deactivated2024062]

[seaquestions]

🔪 so grab a plate, have a taste, 这口味让我陶醉! i'm still preying on a butcher's vein—

[ID: a piece of dungeon meshi fanart. on the left are five panels showing a closeup of a character's eye with the hourglass-shaped pupil of the demon: from top to bottom they are the winged lion, mithrun, thistle, marcille & laios. the background, extending to the right, is abstract veins, intestines, feathers & checkerboards. text above, lyrics from butcher vanity - flavor foley, reads:

"The slaughter's mine Oh, blood and viscera divine Preserved and primed Each muscle divvied up to dine And in the high, 我存在 Tasting 血淋淋的爱 I'll devour all of you in time" End ID.]