Legit Boring

Hey I'm fin [they/them], I'm pretty gross and this is my crib.

[basedgoddex]

Yoo we’re u from

lmfao you singlehandedly got me to log into the wasteland of a site to ask me where I'm from???

Ny

[basedgoddex]

I find it more difficult to update here, not only because I have to logout of another account to access this one but also because I have to logout of another mask to access this one. While I feel I am admired for and tout upon my honesty there is still some maintenence of the facade. There is still bandwidth and energy that has to be routed in order to project fin as an entity who can be perceived and to some degree understood. I don't much enjoy it but it is essential to my growth within the world I exist in. Nonetheless I am exhausted.

I don't think I'd so much be lying by omission about how I feel or what I'm experiencing but I'd spend considerably less time and energy on the things that consume massive parts of my time and energy. If I were being honest about how I felt I'd be constantly talking about ed, depression, and the doldrums of married life. It'd be far less pleasant that it already is. I'm quite consumed by the things that make my life unbearable though I try very hard to ignore them. And in coming here I'd like to insulate those who look to me for peace and encouragement from my utter lack of either. I have so little I dont even bother squirreling it away for myself but invariably I never come here. There is only so much I can do.

[basedgoddex]

Im turned on by the idea of your sexual prefrenxesgosh i watched all your videos all day

Really?? That’s fascinating... like the concept of asexuality? That’s fuckin wild. Glad you enjoyed my vids.

[tor-ta]

[yourfoodiedesires]

How Often To Clean Your House from someeecards:

Sprinkles And Crafts: A Food, DIY And Lifestyle Blog.

[thefibrodiaries]

can we stop pretending that doctors treat everyone equally and that they don’t have prejudices towards poc, lesbians/gays/bisexuals, trans people, fat people, people of a certain religion, poor people/people on benefits etc and that it actually stops people from getting a diagnosis and/or treatment. stop acting like people with chronic pain, mental illness or other medical issues can just “go see a doctor” and get all the help and diagnosis’s that they need. 

[usefactsnotfeelings-deactivated]

Doctors do not study for 8 years + the amount of years in interning for their field, to be “ablest”. You realize people become doctors so they can cure those with these diseases. It’s more beneficial, in fact, for unhealthy people to walk into their clinic. I’m not usually one to say this, but..if you aren’t a doctor, don’t speak like you understand them. Black people have to be treated differently becuase they are at a higher risk for hypertension/high blood pressure. People with phobias of knives and needles should be treated differently from people without phobias. Fat people have a higher rate of mortality at a younger age, and that needs to be debt with.

 There’s a difference between speaking your mind and being uneducated, you are the latter. 

[thefibrodiaries]

idk what kind of world you are living in if you genuinely believe that every doctor has good intentions and that none of them hold prejudices, make mistakes or abuse their position of power but I, and many others, have had bad and even downright traumatic experiences with medical staff. Like I’m glad you or your loved ones haven’t had these experiences but don’t disregard all of us who have.

[inquisitivespirit]

not to mention, I have friends that study medicine. they don’t just get taught science, they get taught prejudice. they get tested on “stereotypes” such as “the hysterical young female with anxiety” as the correct answers to people coming to them with problems. not to mention that the majority of research was done on white people, usually cis males. all this together with the stress of the job mean that a lot of doctors, even if they did originally mean well, can do harm instead, sometimes without even realising they did anything wrong

[chronicillnessproblems]

EXCELLENT points omg thank you. This was just removed from a nursing textbook. Thankfully it was dealt with, but the fact that it freaking managed to make it to publishing in the first place shows there’s DEFINITELY something wrong with the way we teach the people in charge of our medical treatment. And the research thing is a huge problem. We know lots about how things affect lab rats and white, usually middle-upper class men, but we are definitely slowing down treatment and research by just acting like that that applies to every demographic out there.

[fromchaostocosmos]

“doctors don’t discriminate”

[emptydragonseverywhere]

As someone actually in medicine, and about 7 months away from being an eye doctor after 4 years of undergrad and another 4 of optometry school, I promise you that doctors discriminate. My school worked its ass off to provide cultural competency training and ethics training and sensitivity training and there are still doctors and students that I come into contact with on the regular that are racist/sexist/classist/etc. Some doctors aren’t in it for the feel good stories and helping their fellow man; some doctors are in it for the golf vacations and pay checks. Usually the ones who are in it for the money come from money too, so the classism bit is really ingrained in that group of physicians. And the entitlement is aided by people like the comment above that assumes doctors are only ever perfectly moral and altruistic - by not questioning your doctor, you let them get away with this bullshit. They think because they went to school for 8+ years, they are entitled to the benefit of the doubt and that they always know best, and anyone who questions or contradicts them just “doesn’t understand doctors” or “needs to go to school for a decade to get on my level” etc. Doctors are human. Just like any other human, they can hold prejudices and biases that affect their work. And medicine, just like any other specialty, is influenced by the society in which it is practiced. And considering society is classist, racist, sexist, etc. obviously medicine can be and often is. Again, my school spent a LOT of time educating us on these biases - if they didn’t exist, we wouldn’t have to spend time on that. Like a lesson I had was “most doctors assume black patients feel less pain. Don’t make that assumption. If you’d offer your white patient pain meds, you should also offer your black patient pain meds.” You’d think that’s common sense, but I WAS ACTUALLY TAUGHT THAT IN SCHOOL BECAUSE OTHER DOCTORS ARE THAT SHITTY OKAY.

[christel-thoughts]

Im so annoyed by the willful ignorance of a user called usefactsnotfeelings. As if research isn’t already out there about literally all of this.

[howstrangethemusicsoundstome]

Gender stereotypes have made us horrible at recognizing autism in women and girls

The process of humanizing the autistic community is difficult and ongoing, but it must begin with a pivot away from our male-centric focus.

Also discusses racial stereotypes.

[chocolate-failure]

one (1) squishy boi 🧸

[godshideouscreation]

by  Tam Warner Minton

[cillianmurphy]

“Sometimes it was beautiful.” ANNIHILATION (2018) dir. Alex Garland

[chocolate-failure]

A quick fuckin thought ion really wanna address... my hair looked like absolute shit this time last year and it's not lost to me that it may look better because I was actually nourishing my body earlier this year. Granted I had to cut off a couple inches because I haven't had it trimmed in 2 years but it's not only thicker at the ends. You can tell my whole head has rebounded as far as thickness goes. Welp.

[modify-and-sever-deactivated201]

[haine13]

SAN at MAMA2020 I just imaged where he would taken nap while he had been waited for run the stage. So I assumed he might took a nap at backseat in luxury van LOL.

I think I’ll draw him in this costume more very soon <3

[slushyseals]

Unmute!

[basedgoddex]

I apologize for never being here. I'm not too good at keeping promises I'm afraid.

[markvomit]

[ritheone]