kinda faggy

- Gay Bear - Scientist - White - nb-bearbabe's husband - Under 18 Don't Follow -

[bearlyholdingittogether]

Being a bear is camp. Some like to pretend to be hypermasc but even that, ultimately, is a camp mockery of heterosexual masculinity. Also the flag is earth tones with a bear paw on it. It's camp.

Being a bear is literally the height of not-serious business. But despite this taken very seriously for what is just light-hearted slang to mean bigger and hairier than some arbitrary standard of euroamerican gay beauty.

As an identity, it is very difficult to corporatise on purposes as that would make corporations deal with niche gay sexuality head on. But on the flip side, there is a cultural requirement to take anything bear-themed that isn't nailed down.

Simultaneously camp and homosexually hypermasculine, unserious but explicitly countercultural, unmarketable and yet easy to market to

[catilinas]

showing my onion the roman baths

[good-4-her]

[good-4-her]

simply dont monday

[phorusrhacidae-lesbian]

little miss auditory processing disorder would like you to repeat what you just said then immediately respond to you before you finish

[foxes-in-love]

[pokemon]

Here's a dancing Totodile to brighten your day ☀️

[koko2unite]

[prokopetz]

Level 1: Asylums are scary because there's crazy people there.

Level 2: We shouldn't treat mental health facilities as objects of horror because it stigmatises mental illness.

Level 3: Asylums are scary because there's psychiatrists there.

[sergle]

u good?

girl obviously not

[thememedaddy]

[teathattast]

[kruistocht]

[iiumz]

[saintd0nna]

happy pride to him

[trollrider1111]

Gay broke sober king 🤴

[anticurses]

literally what is up with this

[maemaybe]

I don't know who my intended audience is here, so whoever needs to hear this, I am begging you to learn to participate in conversations that are about things you aren't interested in.

Part of socializing and having friends is being a good listener even when you don't actually give a shit about the subject.

Your are hurting other people's feelings when you bluntly respond with "Anyway..." and then change the topic.

It can not always be about your preferred topic.

You are being rude. Yes, even if you are neurodivergent. You can be both autistic and rude.

[caspercryptid]

I feel like not enough people realize that people under enormous strain act really really fucking Weird

[caspercryptid]

If someone is doing things that don't make Sense, try to understand that it is entirely possible that their brain is probably under an enormous weight and fracturing under the pressure. People who have been stabbed will sometimes talk a circle around the fact that they've been stabbed because stress and shock prevent you from recognizing the distress you are in and what you need to do to seek help for it. PTSD will do this also. You will find yourself repeatedly jamming a bag of frozen fruit into the same spot in the freezer where it doesn't fit and keeps falling, over and over and over, focused on nothing but that bag. You will decide that a beanbag chair is 10000% necessary to your life. You will lose your entire shit because you stubbed your toe on a table and that means the whole setup of your furniture is wrong. These are largely harmless examples. People under strain will also hurt themselves and others. Cornered animals bite. And it doesn't heal the bite to go "Hey, are you okay?" But it might get you to an animal that stops biting, so you can start to heal. And before you had an animal that bit, you probably had an animal that kept doing shit you didn't understand as stress signals

[dee-the-red-witch]

Christ, this times 10,000.