BEHIND HER EYES.

A STYLE COLLECTIVE & MOTIVATOR

[scorpionlafemme]

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[kushxblunts]

[aidashakur]

yall find everything weird besides the shit you do.

[wetheurban]

May you have the courage to disappoint people who benefit from your self-abandonment.

[wetheurban]

[aidashakur]

[aidashakur]

Disgust has moved me in such ways motivation never could

[thevirgodoll]

[wetheurban]

What a privilege it is to be able to rely on someone and not brace for disappointment.

[heavenpureheart]

[scorpionlafemme]

[aidashakur]

[silkyswan]

[hermajestyimher]

I've yet to come across a "feminine energy" influencer that effortlessly embodies femininity and doesn't behave in try-hard and awkward ways about it.

All the goddesses I've come across in my life aren't sitting in their cars yapping endlessly at a camera or writing essays policing how other women choose to express themselves and trying to dictate what constitute as "real femininity" and what doesn't. They simply embody their feminine essence because that is what comes naturally to them. It's an expression of their inner being rather than a conscious performance. They are their own muses before they are anybody else's and their self-concept is entirely rooted in self-assurance and confidence. They don't need to be taught how to express something that is at the core of their being. They can appreciate the beauty in other women without feeling threatened by it or by putting those other women on a pedestal, because they view other beautiful women as their peers, not as above them. They aren't forming weird parasocial relationships with celebrities or well-known online personas because they find enough fulfillment in their own lives and are fully satisfied and content with the body they inhabit. They don't fall easily into far-right and hateful pipelines because at their core they aren't bitter or angry at the outside world since they are not at constant war with themselves.

Insecurity is loud, confidence whispers. You can obsesses over "feminine energy" all you want, but if your approach to it is not something that you've cultivated through real self-love and self-discovery without trying to outsource your sense of self to others, people around you will still pick up on the insecurities, forcefulness, and performative act. Essence and aura are not something you can rationalize your way into. You must grow into them through experience.

[miseducatedmelanicmuse]

[sahlesummerhill]