Good vs. Evil: Are you the Hero or the Villan?
Let me begin with a short PSA: I started this account because I love to write for my own peace of mind. I remember creating the account and clicking the link to write my very first post and what felt like only minutes I had filled the screen with my thoughts and feelings.Β It came easy for me to write and God Damn did it feel good. Whether I was venting about my thoughts and emotions, posting pictures about fashion or nature or sharing some of my favorite inspirational quotes from songs and movies. No matter what filled the screen it made me feel some sense of relief, relaxation, and a slight sense of purpose. I donβt care if I am the only person who ever reads and views my posts, they are not meant for anyone but me. But if someone does happen to come across my page and read one of my blogs orΒ βlikesβ one of my quotes or pictures I hope that it makes their day a little bit brighter or gives them some relief because they feel the same way. But anyways I am already rambling and this isnβt even what my blog is about right now. so lets begin..... When two people are in a relationship at some point in time an traumatic event will cause the partnership to go from equals and each person will fall into the role usually consisting of two major categories,Β βgoodβ or βevilβ. The teacher, best friend, guardian, kind heart, the nurturer, the confidant, these all fall into theΒ βHero or Goodβ category.Β Now for the opposing role, the liar, manipulator, the bully, this is better known to most people as βThe Villan or EvilβΒ
Now my question is, once labeled the Hero or the Villan is it destiny that the other person will ultimately believe that is who you are and who you have always been.Β Branding you for life as the Villan because you made a mistake which in return the other person becomes theΒ βGoodβ and you become theΒ βEvilβ Even when your intentions and morals are undoubtedly much more noble and genuine then your partner, which of course is completely swept under the rug in order for the other person to continue to ride on their high horse and remainΒ βin controlβ of the situation and keep the upper hand.Β
I donβt know if this post even makes any sense to anyone out there. But I have always contemplated if this theory and wondered if it is truly a real belief to people in a relationship. I just want to see the day where two people are treated as equals and even when mistakes are made partners stay on the same team and will continue to root for each other and treat one another with respect, curtesy, and love.Β