Sweet Secret

in NYC

[fuckyeahsexeducation]

List of Non-sexual forms of intimacy

Watching tv/movies together

going to events together like carnivals, festivals etc.

going on dates like to the movies or shopping

Sharing secrets

hugs

sharing drinks

phone calls

talking

touching noses

cuddling

philosophical discussions

Hand holding

Sharing jokes

sharing smiles

laying your head on someone’s shoulder

linking arms

massages

tickling

playing with hair

scratching backs

tracing designs on arms

talking about the future

a hand written note

moving your head to their chest and listening to their heartbeat.

singing together or playing instruments together

dancing

feeding each other

drawing/writing on one another

Brushing your partners hair

sharing food

sitting knee to knee across from each other

 Doing beauty treatments like facials or manicures, hair dying or face masks

reading books together

take care of your partner when sick

talking about the relationship (how I feel with you, How I feel w/ this relationship)

cooking together

Head-scratches

hugging

discussions about yourselves (like flaws, shortcomings, passions, stuff)

being physically/emotionally vulnerable

just sleeping together,

an actual open honest conversation

bathing and taking care of hygiene together

butterfly kisses

nuzzling

telling on-the-fly stories

meditating or sharing spirituality

grooming

sharing hobbies

studying

sharing personal stories

shaving

seeing each other without make-up or all dressed up

moral support for major events

crying, sharing emotions, comforting each other

listening to someones heartbeat or breathing

camping/hiking

sleepovers

being with animals together

going on trips together

sharing clothes/jewelry/personal items

Sharing online social media

cleaning someone else’s living space

going with them to a doctor/therapist

doing art together

kissing different body parts

making out

volunteer together

work together

talking about wants and desires

experience new things together

do an extracurricular together

play games together

play sports together

walking together

being respectful and kind to one another (helping them do things, open doors for them etc.)

Sharing responsibilities (chores, babysitting etc.)

giving each other presents, special things from the heart

talking about and respecting each others boundaries

public displays of affection

grooming in front of each other

wrestling or play fighting

texting/talking online

looking in each other’s eyes

complimenting each other

falling asleep over skype or chat

making faces at each other

sky watching

write poetry

inside jokes

respect each other

tell them how you feel about them

kiss and touch different parts of the body

get to know each other better (playing 20 questions)

go for a ride together

close your eyes and memorise each others faces with your fingers

walk arm in arm

make a playlist together

make up your own words or slang

go out to eat

list each other’s best features

bring your faces close without touching and feel each other breath

Go shopping together

throw a party or other event together

leave love notes

exercise together

exchange something meaningful

try to have a whole conversation with only eye contact and facial expressions

sit back to back and feel each other’s heart breat

learn their favorite food and make it

run errands together

look at photos together

take photos together

go people watch

have a staring contest

learn something new together

take turns leading each other on a nature walk blindfolded

get to know each others family and friends

draw or sculpt each other

paint each other’s bodies

play with kids together

practicing a skill together

sharing food

being in comfortable clothes together

waving goodbye

being comfortable with each other’s bodily functions

partner touching affectionately without asking

touching a partner affectionately without asking

partner touching affectionately in public

touching a partner affectionately in public

being partially undressed with parnter

being completely naked with a partner

direct eye contact

looking at genitals

talking about your or your partner’s body

any others you can think of?

[sugarcoach]

Get creative.

The most important skill you can learn is teasing.

[berrysugarsweet]

Back in the game?

Possibly.

[onlinempress]

I never post in this tag, so hello x

August paid off.

[bubblegum-pwussay]

Look at this porn. Congrats to ya

[itssugar-deactivated20170929]

How to stop PayPal from getting suspicious?

I no longer recommend PayPal. Use square cash, venmo, or google wallet.

[berrysugarsweet]

Venmo can get suspicious too, as they are a Paypal company as well. Large amounts tip them off.

[fhenty]

Ultimate Sugar Baby Playlist

I made a playlist dedicated to all the motivated money makers. Break hearts and swipe cards. Listen to it here.

Partition - Beyonce

Lookin Ass - Nicki Minaj

6 Inch - Beyonce

Hit Em’ Up Style (Oops!) - Blu Cantrell

Big Spender - Theophilus London Feat. Asap Rocky

Whatever You Like - T.I

Melanie Martinez - Toxic (cestladore remix)

Flawless - Beyonce

Gold Digger - Kanye

Independent Woman Part I - Destiny’s Child

Good For You (feat Asap Rocky) - Selena Gomez

Lemme Get That - Rihanna

Bills Bills Bills - Beyonce

Bitch Better Have My Money - Rihanna

Flex (Ooh, ooh, ooh) - Rich Homie Quan

Hard - RIhanna

Glamourous - Fergie

Maneater - Nelly Furtado

Pour Some Sugar On Me - Def Leppard

Needed Me - Rihanna

Make Me Proud - Drake feat. Nicki Minaj

Run Me My Money - Kash Doll

Mascara - Jazmine Sullivan

Pay Me - Miguel

Once Upon a Time I Was a Hoe - Mariahlynn

WashPoppin - Cardi B

What a Girl Likes - Cardi B

Your Money - RJ

Naughty Girl - Beyonce

National Anthem - Lana Del Rey

Get Ya Money - August Alsina

Earned It - The Weeknd

Suga Suga - Baby Bash

Worth It - Fifth Harmony

BO$$ - Fifth Harmony

Childs Play - SZA

Waiting Game - Banks

Ridin’ (Feat Lana Del Rey) - Asap Rocky

My Pony - Ginuwine

Hey Daddy - Usher

Bad Bitches - Cassie

The Fear - Lily Allen

Off To The Races - Lana Del Rey

You Can Be The Boss - Lana Del Rey

[dulcebabyx]

Financial Advice for my Sugar Sisters!

Financial advice for building your empire!

I am getting back into the bowl with an old SD after a 4 month hiatus. During this time, I’ve had a lot of time to think about my financials and how I was able to SURVIVE and do everything I’ve wanted to do (travel, shop, move, etc) all because I was financially responsible during the steady allowance flow.

I was able to move into a new apartment, with down payment and 4 months rent, all new furniture and everything because I SAVED and INVESTED my allowance for years.

My general rule was save 60% and spend 40% (on all my expenses and fun stuff!). But it goes even further than that. Within my savings, about 50% was sitting in a savings account that I wasn’t allowed to touch and 10% was in stocks that pay DIVIDENDS! 

What are dividends you ask? They are the life hack to money- stocks that pay you to invest. 

Dividends are usually paid out quarterly (four times a year) and they work like this. Let’s say you’ve invested $30,000 in stocks of a company that pays outs a 5% dividend. That means they will send you a paycheck of $1500 for the year (/4=$375) quarterly, on top of the growing 30k stock investment that you can SELL at any time or hold onto for a few years and then CASH OUT. $375 may not seem like a lot but that steady $ may come in right at the time that a car payment is due and its FREE MONEY. 

Another tip I have ladies, is so not get starry-eyed over the $$ and spend it all on shoes and bags until it your bank account hits zero. You MUST be saving and INVESTING in yourself and your future at all times. In my case, I have dreams to become a Youtube beauty vlogger and get into marketing/social media branding. My allowance has gone toward buying a high-end filming camera, studio lights, photography classes, and anything else that is propelling me toward my dreams and financial freedom. 

Any $$$ from an SD must have a RETURN potential for the future! ( I realize that reselling handbags might do that too, but why not keep your handbags and make MORE money?!)

Sorry for the rant, but I’m just so grateful that sugaring has allowed me to live financially set and happy without a job for these last four months and as I get back into the bowl, my #1 goal is to take another man’s money to invest in MY EMPIRE. Consider your men your primary investors ;)

[sbwinning]

dont sell yourself short (Pt.1)

you know all those cheesy dating site adverts where they tell you that your biggest flaw could be what someone loves? take notes.

so this may be helpful to brown/black SBs when online, but I’ve only just done it so you can try it if you like.

so i made a second profile on SA - choose your desired site - https://itsnecolbitchtips.tumblr.com/post/143458061727/list-of-websites

I went all out, exploiting my most noticeable features; big eyes, black/caribbean slim, and i have so many wigs i could set up my own shop.  

stay with me, theres a logic to this.

racism is everywhere, and some profiles specifically exclude black women, but where some men dont like it, others love it! its not like you can hide it so why not exploit it, play on fetishes, get into the mind of an SD and what would come to mind when seeing your chocolate self. Even me being an SB i know what i like, i hit the follow button so fast if you have the keywords - brown, black or UK sb.  and after reading this http://mochadream-x.tumblr.com/post/144500217079/londonsbrownsugar-mochadream-x and http://sugarbrownbabydoll.tumblr.com/post/144574298782/sbabyontherise-sugarbrownbabydoll I’m exploiting being caribbean as well, why not lol.

this can be for other girls, ladies exploit your races, you can’t hide it so embrace it and make it a selling point

having big eyes has turned into a blessing with the connotations of innocence, naivety, bambi eyes or doe eyes. Pick your best or noticeable feature and highlight it even more like you do with makeup!

dont lie about your weight or use pictures from years ago. You’re fat, thick, skinny WORK IT there are some amazing ladies and posts on here that have clothing/ bodyshape advice (cant find it right now but tag/ link some(one)) with confidence and knowing yourself and your body comes a surreal beautiful aura that attracts those that deserve you. Again, you cant hide it for ever so exploit it!

back to my black babies; with wigs comes fantasy “I could be whoever you want ;)” with natural hair/protective styles comes standing out, i’ve seen alot of posts about men wanting a women who contrasts against white girls or any other races which is most obvious with our natural hair. Logic: for culture appropriation to occur they must love how “ethnic” we look, so again exploit it  and if you have weave pleeeease make sure no tracks are showing, leave out is blended, and hair is atleast not stiff on dates.

EXPLOIT YOU’RE BEST AND WORST FEATURES. TURN EVERYTHING INTO A SELLING POINT

[shuubass]

[daddy6x-deactivated20180305]

Reblog the money Rihanna to bring Benjamins your way 

[darkcocosb-blog]

Reblog. Reblog!!!!

[blackbabesupremacy]

Mood:

[lustington]

How many times

[mrcheyl]

[jehovahhthickness]

How I want my bank account to look like by 25.

[amemoryofkaye]

Claiming it.

[clatchetuniversity]

Waaaaay up 🙏🏾

[muvadiam]

11:11am on the receipt.

[amethystafrodite]

Reblog for prosperity, and success. May you always have what you need.

[honeychaigoddess]

That’s what I’m saying

[stellabrookz-deactivated2016072]

Being a sugar baby has taught me how to COMPLETELY roast someone in the classiest, maturest way possible.

I’ve gone from: “you’re a fucking loser ass bitch u fucking weird ass old man”

To: “From what I’ve seen, you’re a single 40 year old man who lives alone with not even a pet as companionship. You could clearly use a girl like me in your life. Maybe one day you’ll mature and stop using your money to get people’s attention. You should try to focus on your good qualities. Then you might find someone who likes you for you, and you’ll stop being so lonely. Also good luck finding someone to satisfy your belly button fetish. Have a goodnight.”

You manipulated him so well in a way his small brain will not understand. He will be crawling back to you in the next text message, apologizing. I promise. Works every time.

[klarymalia]

Hoe Tips Masterpost

Hygiene

Wipe front to back… lol

If you want soft feet: soak feet in hot water for 10 min, use a pumice stone to get rid of the dead skin then lotion your feet and put them in socks til the morning

Use men’s razors if you want to shave! (they’re cheaper and better quality than women’s razors)

Shaving Guide: http://klarymalia.tumblr.com/post/144880628132/major-key-alert-the-perfect-shave?is_related_post=1

Makeup (fuck-proof)

Nivea Men Post-Shave Balm (for primer… legit)

Hourglass Mineral Veil Primer

Becca Ultimate Coverage Complex Cream (foundation)

Anastasia Beverly Hills Dipbrow Pomade

Kat Von D Ink Liner

Bobbi Brown Smokey Eye Mascara

Urban Decay All Nighter Setting Spray

General Tips for Hair and Skin…

Moisturize every day

Exfoliate at least once a week

Exfoliating your lips improves your life 100% trust me

Don’t use shampoos/conditioners with sulfates or silicones

Trim hair every 6 to 8 weeks to have healthy soft ends

Washing your pillowcase every week helps prevent acne

Skincare + Haircare Products

Lush products: http://klarymalia.tumblr.com/post/144760685062/pro-tip

DIY Ultimate Brow/Lash Growth Mixture: Mix coconut oil, vitamin E oil, castor oil and Vaseline and mix this all up. Put into an empty (and clean) mascara tube and put this on your brows and eyelashes nightly. If you don’t have a mascara tube to spare, a small container and q-tips will do just fine.

DIY Sugar Scrub: http://klarymalia.tumblr.com/post/144880744527/talk-about-tripping-okay-fellow-friends-and

Burt’s Bees Coconut Foot Cream???

Natural products to use:

Unrefined virgin coconut oil (on your nail beds, eyebrows, eyelashes, hair mask…)

Tea tree oil (helps with breakouts)

Apple cider vinegar (adding ½ cup to a bath resets your PH and you’ll smell + feel great)

Castor oil (for hair growth)

Shea butter… the best moisturizer

Lifestyle Tips

Put your undies in three categories:

1. I’m getting fucked today

2. I could be spontaneously fucked

3. Getting none today

On the days leading up to your period use a pad or pantiliner in your underwear to prevent staining b/c staining sucks

Shimmer body lotion makes anyone look radiant and sexier tbh

Be a confident hoe

Try to always wear sunscreen

Put perfume behind your ears, decolletage, inside of elbows + knees, wrists & inner thighs

Sleep naked or in a loose shirt when u can

Always Keep These With U

Sweats

Chill hoodie or tee

Comfy shoes

Spare undies

Makeup wipes

Condoms

Pads

Gum

Phone charger

Hairbrush

Hair-ties

Money for transportation

Deodorant

Waterbottle

Lotion

Diet

As ya’ll already know… water. Just drink it whenever you can throughout the day

Green tea

Reduce sugar intake

Cranberry juice (a cup every day)

Vitamin E pills (for healthy hair)

Fruits

Veggies

Sex

Sex tips: http://hotips.tumblr.com/post/141784574773/compilation-of-sex-tips

NEVER…

Go to bed with wet hair unless you wanna wake up to a world of frizz

Put oil on your lady after-shave if you plan on having sex later. Oil deteriorates condoms. Apply coco butter instead

Put lemon on your face!

Put sugar on your vag (yeast infection) or face (causes micro-tears, your facial skin is too sensitive for the large grains of sugar)

[thegolddig]

Vintage Fred Hayman Beverly Hills Dress

(more information, more gold)

[diethoroscopes]

Core Strength

Tone It Up Tighten & Tone Your Abs video

Pop Pilates Flat Abs Challenge video

Pop Pilates 3 Minute Ab Challenge video

Thighs and Butts

Pop Pilates Slimming Inner Thighs & Calves video

Pop Pilates Inner Thigh Insanity video

Pop Pilates Saddlebag Shaver video

Pop Pilates Standing Pilates for Legs, Butt & Obliques video

Pop Pilates Butt Blaster video

BodyRock 300 Squats Challenge

Skinny Yoga Girl Legs & Butt Workout

Your Whole Body

Tone It Up Arms, Abs, and Legs Pyramid video

Pop Pilates Till The World Ends video

Pop Pilates Summer Slimdown Part 1 and Part 2

Bodyrock I’m Into You Workout video

Skinny Yoga Girl 1000 Rep Workout

Skinny Yoga Girl Full Body Cardio & Strength Workout

Skinny Yoga Girl Burning Body Workout

Strictly Yoga

Beginner Yoga 20 minute video

Hurts So Good Power Yoga 95 minute video

Blissed Flow Yoga 90 minute

Sun Salutations video

Sun Salutations 2 video

Hip Stretches

Tara Stiles Bend It Like Tara

40m Yoga weight loss  Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4

Yoga Fitness Plus 45 minute video 

Yoga Sculpt30 minute video

Yoga Fitness Fusion 45 minute video

Try Some Zumba:

Basics

Cardio Party

Bikini Bod Time

Bikini Abs & Thighs

Sandcastle Workout

Bikini Blast Circuit Workout

Tone It Up Itty Bitty Bikini video

Tone It Up Bikini Beach Bum video

Tone It Up Bikini Abs & Thighs video

Tone It Up Sandcastle Workout video

Tone It Up Bikini Body Workout with Self Magazine!

Tone It Up Bikini Blast Circuit Workout video

Tone It Up Bikini Body Workout with Self Magazine!

Pilates

Flat Abs Challenge

3 Minute Ab Challenge

Slimming Inner Thighs & Calves

Inner Thigh Insanity

Saddlebag Shaver

Standing Pilates for Legs, Butt & Obliques

Butt Blaster

Sexy Workouts: 

Aerobic Striptease

In the Bedroom (don’t even need to get out of bed)

“Body Rock”

Cardio Part 1

Cardio Part 2

Cardio Part 3

Cardio Part 4

BodyRock.tv Hot Body Workout 

BodyRock.tv 4 Minute Workout

BodyRock.tv Hardest Workout

BodyRock.tv Hard Bodies Getting Harder Workout

BodyRock.tv 6 Minute Workout video

BodyRock.tv Run The World Workout video

BodyRock.tv Hot Attack video

“P90X”

Chest and Back/Ab Ripper X

Plyometrics

Legs and Back

Cardio X

Kenpo X

Shoulders and Arms

Core Synergetics

Stretch X

Chest, Shoulder, and Triceps

Back and Biceps

“Insanity”

Fit Test

Plyometric Cardio Circuit

Cardio Power & Resistance

Cardio Recovery

Pure Cardio

Cardio Abs

Core Cardio & Balance

Max Interval Circuit

Max Interval Plyo

Max Cardio Conditioning

Max Recovery

Insane Abs

Max Interval Sports Training

Upper Body Weight Training

[champagneharlot]

I need to start working out again

[br0wnsugarandspice]

Um yes 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[octopusghostcouncil]

Shout out to all the sex workers paying their rent Shout out to the sex workers who bought a full trolley of food this week Shout out to the sex workers that made enough to pay their phone bill Shout out to the sex workers going to work cause they’re broke To the sex workers who don’t have savings To the sex workers who still buy shit on sale To the sex workers who just making it day to day

You are valid and successful and beautiful and worth the world. The figure in your bank account doesn’t define you. You are not alone and you are loved.

[samanthalena]

Hey Sam! I have just started sugaring and i have a POT who will provide me 1200$ a month with $200 each meet as long as there is intimacy. I feel as if i am worth more than just $200. Should i decline this offer? or any thoughts on this matter?

I would suggest you either counteroffer with a suitable compensation amount, or curve him… Men who suggest numbers as low as that know that no escort would deal with them for such price and instead search in the SB community for girls who don’t know better and may be willing to settle for less than desired.

[samanthalena]

A quick mention of how sore my back was from sleeping on a bed without frame (a lie… I loved it. it was chic) lead to my SD offering to purchase a headboard, mattress, AND frame. Closed mouths do not get fed, gyals.

[omgwtfmia-deactivated20170313]

love your room, babe!! where is the suitcase from? I’m in love with the color and buying a new set soon 

@spoiledspice

[samanthalena]

@omgwtfmia it’s Rimowa, angel! 😌💓

[berrysugarsweet]

😍

[brian4rmthe6]