Its My Time

SB WANNA_BE

[theluxeblonde-deactivated201601]

Should I tell my married sugar daddy that I'm going to tell his wife about us? I'm in desperate need of money (which I know he has) and I'm also sick of the way he belittles me and flakes and accuses me of having other sugar daddies (when I don't cause I'm struggling and there's a lack of in my area). He doesn't know where I live and has no way of tracking me. Love your blog and thanks for your input!

Okay woah woah woah woah WOAH

slow down girl. please, for the love of god, do not be the mistress that puts herself in the middle of a marriage. i know youre angry and may be feeling emotions right now, but this is probably the worst way to go about it. just explain to your SD that you dont like the way he treats you and tell him why, and if he doesnt change that youre going to have to end the relationship. no offense, but that’s what an adult would do. if he still doesnt change or see where he’s wrong then just end it and move on. im not entirely sure if youre ready for this kind of relationship in the first place if this is even crossing your mind :\

[chargeupandjo-deactivated201602]

best events of SW tumblr in 2015

- the sugar baby that shat on escorts right before detailing how she blew a guy for free at the promise of a car

- @thotianaxoxo being accused of faking and giving the best clapback of the century

- trophywhore

[catastrophywife-deactivated2016]

- prostitution bucket

- givemesugarandchanel’s parents getting wired 2 mil

[iwannabeadored]

- “money isn’t real” - “ I know about sex work I’ve literally thought about it” both arguments being used against sw - “am I a sex worker if I post nudes on tumblr? I don’t get paid or anything for them but”

[kenyagoldengirl-deactivated2016]

The C4S booty shake contest and how I called out every contestant because they all sucked and were only in it because it was really a popularity contest. Then the top 5 (including me) got disqualified because Neil (owner of C4S) said we all had rigged votes.

[iamjalisaelite]

- that SB “upperechelonwhatever” kissing my ass for help starting camming and content producing.. then getting pissy and stalking my sites when i told her no

-that one whorephobic civilian (who later said she was an retired stripper) asking me where to find lingerie and getting mad when i said the info was for SWs only and then ignorant black tumblr trying to harass me off tumblr LOL

[existentialstripper-deactivated]

- when a few black sex workers and I all agreed that we have to hustle harder to make any money what so ever and white SW tumblr tried to come back with fake bull

-when I said I wasn’t helping new white strippers because they make money regardless and northernsomethin’ tried to call me petty and one of your faves tried to pop in with that positivity bullshit and how race apparently has nothing to do with sex work

[trilliansmut-deactivated2016102]

- dude harassing people (sw-ers and civilians) on tumblr while engaged to a sex worker and both of them victim blame and call it “drama”. same dude calls himself a “whore” and claims he’s done FSSW before, like the word “whore” would carry the same meaning for a cisman.

[kenyagoldengirl-deactivated2016]

Oh shit @fauxxhauxx remember the big blow up about white strippers who twerk?

[gothamswhore-deactivated2016031]

-Meganmvrie (or however you spell her url) being a racist twat. -Clipvia’s unfathomable bullshit and STILL not paying anyone

[kenyagoldengirl-deactivated2016]

That fuckboy who ran that janky ass camsite called “SellYoSelf”. He got dragged by SW tumblr and it was hilarious lol.

[queenofotogakure]

-The fact that SellYoSelf disappeared from the internet 

-The girl who thought it was cute to say she wants to throw pennies at strippers and then the entire community stood up against her and she never posted again.

[existentialstripper-deactivated]

I actually will be claiming rights to that penny drag. Twas’ my greatest achievements.

[comebacksznldn-blog]

how did y’all forget that crouchingtigerhiddendragon or something ass girl who went out with a goddamn stranger, went back to his house and walked on his back for 20 dollars and then got pissy when everyone was like…..ugh bitch you could have died or you could have made way more money for a fetish

[yanaxbabe]

I get baby fever any time I meet a man who has the means to take care of me for the rest of my life

[iv-fischer]

i haven’t seen any dragging in a while yall must’ve gotten some dick 

[fyp-philosophy]

Attention is the rarest and purest form of generosity.

Simone Weil (via fyp-philosophy)

[sweet-montage]

you know you’re fucked when their voice turns you on

[gecoh-deactivated20160823]

[noloveallowedsugar-deactivated2]

Here’s some tea for you this morning.

[dreamgrlarchive]

all I want is a fat ass, long voluminous hair, a flat stomach, amazing eyebrows, money, emotional stability, and a boyfriend. I'm not selfish

[mommashells]

The boyfriend ain’t needed I’m a pimp

[exoticxbitch]

The boyfriend can go, ain’t nobody need that tf

[venomous-sugar]

The answer to one of your asks about you buying a place of your own and helping your family, that's exactly what I hope to do! It's so refreshing to hear about you spending and saving your money wisely. I wish you success & happiness ✨💗

Thank you doll! 😊

[mylifelivingwithanxiety]

What to Expect When Dating Someone Who Has An Anxiety Disorder.

- Them asking you the same question at least 10 times. 

- Them saying “I’m sorry” at least 5 times a day.

- You promising them everything is okay.

- Ordering food for them.

- Making phone calls for them.

- Repeating the same directions 3 times.

- Texts as soon as you leave.

- Sweaty palms.

- Constant reassuring.

- Them constantly changing their mind.

- ALWAYS BEING EARLY.

- NEVER BEING LATE. 

- Directions never being clear enough.

- Answering the same question MULTIPLE times.

- Them being nervous for seemingly simple tasks.

-Friday nights in.

-Weird triggers you will never understand.

-Tears. Lots of tears.

-Sudden silence when they feel an attack coming on.

-Trouble going out to eat in a restaurant.

-Stomach aches.

-Late night phone calls.

-Giving them cuddles when they need it.

-Finding out signs they are nervous.

-Taking care of them when they are having an anxious day.

[ccatty]

THIS THIS THIS

[letstorchup-deactivated20170520]

I really just want this

[fitandhealthyhero]

[anomaly1]

I’m biting my lip from making a smart comment

[ngenius-01]

^^^^^

[b-o-m-b-s]

Every things better when it’s Brown BOOM I said.

[shesacoldpiece]

LOL

[chawklitgoddess-deactivated2015]

WAYULP

[theeeprotagonist]

😂😂

[karayray1-deactivated20230129]

There are so other comments that could be made. But I’m gonna sip this tea.

[ravishingbrown]

@karayray1 Im sippin with you. table for two please. 

[karayray1-deactivated20230129]

Yas girl.

[lookatthatship-deactivated20160]

Wow. Fuck all of you. If a white person joked like this they would be racist but it’s okay because it’s saying that colored people are better than whites. Okay, nice to know that y'all are completely fine with #doublestandards.

[karayray1-deactivated20230129]

😹😹😹. This bitch! Y'all do make jokes like this. Except the jokes we make don’t oppress y'all in any shape or form. Y'all jokes makes it so we don’t get scholarships, jobs and even gets us killed. Our jokes are about bread and not being about to season food. Y'all jokes be about slavery and not having father figures. So shut the fuck up with your unnecessarily angry ass. 🙄😒

[lookatthatship-deactivated20160]

I don’t make these jokes personally. And you don’t get the scholarships? I don’t get a scholarships because all of them are so graciously handed out to THE ATHLETES AND THE BLACKS. So get your ‘oppression’ and ‘underprivileged’ bullshit out of my face, please.

[amethystafrodite]

Likkle girl. There are more scholarships available to your lily white ass than there are for people that look like me.

Without affirmative action policies campuses and offices would be filled with a whole lot of you and not many of me. That’s what you and other diet-racists seem to forget.

Maybe you don’t get a scholarship because you aren’t broke enough, not disabled enough, not athletic enough, not smart enough, and a little too white to need or deserve it.

[hauteonlife-deactivated20161017]

Prepare yourself...

Babies, this isn’t a time for most financially motivated men to take risks. 

It is (more than likely) going to get slow. 

This is the season where psychologically, some people return to old patterns and security. Financially, men who are fathers are often trying to organize holiday gifting, give last minute contributions for tax write offs, pay private school tuition to secure the spring for their kids and offer their annual gifts to charity, etc. 

So don’t be expecting to rake in new dough until after the new year. That holiday bonus might be for you, but please don’t count on it, especially if a man is just a POT.

The exception I’ve experienced that motivates a man to act (and that has been proven by research) is when a man gets bored. Even then, he might just need to fuck someone new. Don’t get comfy, and guard your time.

Last year, I met Golfer during a threesome around January 1. His three year side chick hit on me at a country club holiday event and straight up invited me to go for wine. At that wine date she told me straight up that she’d been looking for a girl to fuck both of them.

She was hot, and she was steady and was trusted by Golfer, who is a TypeA father with a lot to lose. He was only taking a risk because she was present. 

I was bored. We set a date. Done and done.

Neither of them knew I was at said event with an SD. Ironic.

The point being, if a man is bored, he may play around during the holidays with making you a full out SB, but if he doesn’t last through the new year, or you never get to arrangement stage, consider - this is not a time for men to start new financial obligations typically.

Golfer only got consistent after the holiday chaos was over.

Hang in with those you know until the New Year.

[graceless-goddess-deactivated20]

[comebacksznldn-blog]

LITERSLLY SHUT THE FUCK UP ENTIRELY SHUT IT UP

[diamondspourmoi]

Like wtf

[imnotmugglee-deactivated2018022]

Eye contact is way more intimate than words will ever be.

(via kulturbanausen)

[loggednightmares]

Phrases that make me feel safe

• ‘I’m here’ • ‘it’s alright’ • ‘I’ve got you’ • ‘you’re okay’ • ‘nothing bad is going to happen’ • ‘you’ve got me now’ • ‘you’re safe’ • ‘I won’t let anything hurt you’ • ‘I’ll look after you’ • ‘this is real, you are real’