Could i have a matchup? Im a 20 year old nb who is infp/infj and my zodiac is cancer. Im kind of hotheaded so i run my mouth a lot and i also like to do things MY way or not at all. I also like to write and play video games. Being a mushy romantic means that im a sucker for affection and i love both giving and receiving it. Im also a DRAMA QUEEN! My humor is unintentionally snarky and a lil bit mean every now and again but it doesn't deter people from befriending me.
Hmmm.. I think I’d match you with…
(credit to @blacklimes for the cute Ichi :))
Originally I was caught between Osomatsu and Ichimatsu, but I think after some deep thought that You and Ichimatsu would be a surprisingly good match. Here’s a few reasons why:
Ichimatsu is very laid back, and accepting if you think about it. Being NB wouldn’t phase him in the slightest because to him, what’s the point of makinga big deal about how a person is? After all, he spends most of his time with cats. To him- it’s just who you are, and he’d take it as such.
My fellow INFP/INFJ friend, (I’m an INFJ Myself :)) Ichimatsu is about as introverted as a person gets. However, by studying the INFP and INFJ personality types, one thing about you that may suit you better for this cat lover is that- believe it or not, most likely you have a good sense of reading people. Ichimatsu needs someone who can read him, and understand his feelings even when he doesn’t want people to. It’s been seen in many instances that Ichimatsu doesn’t actually like being alone and dismissed as much as he lets on, but rather he wants someone to be able to see and understand him without him trying. This is a good thing for you two, as he would initially be surprised and confused, yet probably secretly content knowing that there was someone who understands him regardless of his lack of motivation to put himself or how he feels out there.
Another interesting thing would be your Zodiac. Gemini and Cancer are actually not highly compatible by default, as the natural affinity is low. However, this goes well when talking about a relationship with this Matsuno brother: Low probability, yet not impossible. A strength of the Cancer Zodiac is adaptability, which is once again,a trait someone like Ichimatsu could use in a partner. When he does show them, his emotions can change quickly, especially because a lot of the time he can be shown as unsure how to deal with or cope with his emotions.
I think he’d be interested in a person that has a strong will and someone who likes to have things their way like you. In the very least, it would be your persistence with him that he’d greatly appreciate, even if he doesn’t show it much. He’s used to people just attempting to befriend him, then quitting when unsuccessful. Maybe this is why he’s so close with Jyushimatsu, because Jyushimatsu is quite relentless and does things his own way!
“Why do you waste your time trying to scrape up trash like me..? Tch.. If you want to wallow with such garbage.. I guess I won’t stop you.”
Indoor activities are good, since at the moment really the only time we see him comfortable being outside is when he’s alone with his cats, with the brothers, or with Jyushimatsu specifically. Most of the time, he’s indoors. I think maybe although he wouldn’t quite be ready to play video games alongside you, he’d be content with sitting beside you, knees pulled up to his chest and head resting atop them, casually telling you when you’ve missed something or when you should be doing something.
“You missed a collectible back there.. did you not want it?”
Or maybe talk to him about what you’re writing, ask him for ideas.
“Do you know anything that rhymes with fries?”
Well.. he’d be a great help if you were writing an Edgar Allen Poe piece!
Your romantic side may put him off at first, (or in some cases, make him burst into flames..) But don’t worry! Honestly, he’s not used to affection and I think after some well put in time of showing him you genuinely enjoy giving him affection, he’ll start warming up to it. Even maybe giving some in return in the form of some tentative head rubs or scratches, or some nuzzling once he’s comfortable.
“Your hair… it’s really soft.. maybe as soft as cat fur.. I like it.”
When it comes to your humor, this is kinda what pushed me to the side of Ichimatsu when thinking about pairing you. Ichimatsu’s humor is dark and sarcastic, snarky at times even. I think he’d appreciate your sense of humor, and at the right moment it may even get a chuckle or two out of him- most likely if it’s about Karamatsu.
Overall, it may take a bit of effort, but it’s well worth the payoff. Sooner or later you’ll find that if you’re persistent (and if you have a way with cats)- you’ll paw your way eventually to this purple hooded brother’s center- considering he doesn’t believe he has a heart. Maybe you could prove him otherwise? :)
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