bi culture at its finest

FOUR BIS, CHILLING IN A BLOG, SEVERAL MILES APART BUT THEY'RE STILL GAY

[bi-identities]

i’m leaving the blog

yall, i’m sorry this blog has been so inactive. im just not sure if i can keep posting when social media can be so overwhelming to me.

another thing i wanna address is that i dont id as transmasc anymore so the terms mage/knight/rogue are not mine anymore. you all can do whatever you want with them!

if you guys wanna know anything about me come hang out at @ravenslxnd!

it was fun, but i gotta bounce

- mod mage

[lunarbisexuals-deactivated20191]

you are loved

[dammetomme]

NEW TERMS FOR BI WOMEN AND WOMAN-ALIGNED NBS

Damme 💜

A bi woman (or nb who aligns as a nblw) who subverts societal expectations of womanhood for herself, women, men, or others.

This is not to be confused with a “feminine bi woman.”

What this means is a bi woman (or nblw) who subverts the expectations of femininty, by performing their version femininty for themself, women, and others.

Loving women as a woman or nblw is an inherently radical experience. It can be scary and alienating.

Damme is meant to provide community and support to likeminded bisexuals, who defy heteronormative expectations and live their femininity outside of what straight cis men want. This can extend to feminine presentation, and often times presentation is important in expression and flagging yourself as a damme, but it is not a necessary component. This is about you, who you are and who you want to be. It’s about living outside of the cage of straight cis womanhood.

Tomme 💙

A bi woman (or nb who aligns with being a wlw) who rejects societal expectations of womanhood for herself, women, men, or others.

This is not to be confused with a “Masculine bi woman.”

What this means is a bi woman (or nblw) who completely rejects the societal expectations of femininity and womanhood. This could be through masculinity, androgyny, neither, or anything in between.

Defying the expectation for femininty in women is hard and scary. Tomme is supposed to provide a sense of community and support for gnc bi women or nblw of all kinds, from every society and ethnicy and background. Gnc bi women are the most vulnerable members of the bi community and absolutely need terminology to reflect their experiences.

These terms are TRANS AND NB INCLUSIVE. TERFS FUCK OFF

These terms are not descriptions of appearance, and are not a spectrum. You’re either a damme or a tomme, not both. Not a “dammish tomme” or a “tommish damme.”

That said it’s totally okay to not fall under these terms at all, or to use different terms. But these terms are meant to be respectful, comfortable, and inclusive of all bi women/nbs regardless of race, gender, ethnicity, etc.

These terms can be used regardless of the gender of your partner!

[dammetomme]

I’m back to bring you more content! I made some flags for these terms and switched up the color palette a bit. I feel like the blue/purple bi palette is amazing and I wanted to run with that over pink/orange (although i do also love that color palette).

Damme Flag

Tomme Flag

[bi-identities]

I’ve heard that some women can be straight but can still want lesbian sex. Is it possible to be a straight woman and still want to have lesbian sex? Or is that just bisexuality with extra steps?

That's a chaser.

— mod mage 🔮

[bi-identities]

Is there a tomcat equivalency for bi men, like knight mage doe stag?

Rogue!

— mod mage 🔮

[bi-identities]

I fall between knight and rogue is it ok to be bi knight/rogue?

A knogue?

— mod mage 🔮

[bi-identities]

What if the old Code of Chivalry for medieval knights was reworked to apply to bisexual knights?

Ok so I have a new weekend activity.

— mod mage 🔮

[bi-identities]

this isn’t an identity but me and my fiancé (doe and rouge respectively) are so bi we Do Not Use our furniture. whole living room of chairs and we sit on the floor

this is bi culture y'all.

— mod mage 🔮

[breadbank-deactivated20240125]

i am bisexual. i want to kiss florence welch and i want to kiss hozier. it is who i am. i cannot change this

[whorevaseline]

is it bi culture to like girls with short hair and guys with long hair

[duetopersonalreasons-userboxes]

due to personal reasons this user is bisexual | requested by anon

[bi-identities]

okay lol i figured you read it wrong i was just confused, you good.

you're absolutely right. im just straight up tired.

— mod mage 🔮

[bi-and-happy]

Solidarity between bi people is one of the best and purest things in this world 💗💜💙 I love all my bi friends, and we’ll always have each other’s backs

[hashtag-moodboard]

Candy + bi moodboard for me :) 

[bi-identities]

okay im. literally where did the person mention their gender at all. they asked if they could use two terms for men, which i would assume implies they are a man or male aligned. they never said if they were a woman or non-male aligned nb.

I READ IT WRONG

IM DUMBASS AKDKALDLALLDLSLDLALDLALSL

yes it's ok to mix and match, y'all. I'm the original mage and rn I'm super duper androgynous, so i could be a rogue: but im mage!

just have fun!

— mod mage 🔮

[bi-identities]

"Is it possible to use two bi identities at once? I sort of feel a connection to both mage and rogue, but I don't know if that can be a real thing"

ok, so: why would you use two identities who have strong connections to gender?

and y'all might say, oh, this person is bigender, and that's my point here: any connection to womanhood kinda kills the whole purpose of being mage or knight.

mage, knight and rogue were created for men and masculine aligned peeps only. please, respect that. we have nothing else inside this community.

there's terms for nb people, y'all.

— mod mage 🔮

[bi-identities]

but why is it relevant to the anon

wait, which anon are you talking about? ya boy is tired.

— mod mage 🔮