Reasons Why I (And A Lot Of Other People) Ship Jeverus/Snames
(Note: If anyone who disapproves of this ship finds it, I put in all the appropriate tags, so please blacklist them if you donāt want to see Snames content. Also, be warned, there will be some James bashing in this, but not too much.)
Ok, so I was thinking about why exactly I (and most of us) ship Jeverus/Snames. Now, itās not surprising that a lot of Snames shippers are pro-Severus Snape, and a good number of us actually kinda hate James Potter for that very reason (I mean, we can all admit that James Potter was an entitled, cruel asshole throughout his life). And although I very rarely label ships as abusive, I can readily agree that, in canon, James and Severus have an abusive relationship, a bully/abuser and victim relationship. But we still ship them, for some reason? And a lot of people say itās for the enemies-to-lovers dynamic. I donāt really buy that, at least not for myself. I have very specific reasons for why I ship my ships, and theyāre not usually for tropes as simplified and cliche as enemies-to-lovers (no offence to anyone who likes that trope). Plus many of the Jeverus fics Iāve read explore character growth and dynamics in a way I rarely see in many other Marauders-era fics. A good number of them have the best characterisation of Severus Snape Iāve seen in a long time, with all his skills and quirks and flaws and soft spots and small joys, giving more to his character than just āabused child who pined hopelessly after Lilyā (of course his abuse did shape a lot of his personality, but there was more to Severus than that, he was more than his abuse and he was more than his love for Lily), and they donāt romanticise (or completely demonise, even if he deserves a lot of the demonising) James Potter either. This is why I believe most Snames shippers have more articulate and interesting reasons for shipping Jeverus than the enemies-to-lovers trope as well. So I was trying to understand my own thought process behind shipping Jeverus.
(This paragraph is mostly canon divergence and hcs. Read the next paragraph and so on for actual reasoning.)Ā Firstly, the way I ship them is that James somehow sees his actions clearly and realises what a huge dick he is to Severus. This leads to guilt and then a long process of trying to make it up to Severus, and of course, he starts to get to know him and find qualities about him that he likes. Severus still hates James of course, and it takes months and soon a year or two for him to realise that James is being sincere in his apologies and that he actually does want to befriend Severus. Then of course itās the natural friends to best friends to lovers progression, though James falls for Sev first, and spends ages mentally battling with himself (though at this point theyāre already friends). Severus takes much longer and spends even more time hating himself and James for ever falling for James Potter of all people (but James is actually being sincere and kind and a bit of a dork and the boy actually does have a sense of compassion and a brain, and Severus doesnāt want to notice all this but he canāt help it when James is practically drowning him in affection, no oneās ever gone to such lengths for Severus before). Then hijinks and yelled out confessions and Lily and the Marauders becoming matchmakers, leading to James and Sev finally getting together. I mean, letās not forget the whole āJames saved Severusā lifeā thing. Donāt get me wrong, I 100% know James just did it so that Remus and Sirius wouldnāt get put in Azkaban, and not out of the goodness of his heart or anything. But if I view it through this AU-ish narrative I have set up, then James is guilty af and maybe this is when he starts feeling like the Marauders (mainly Sirius) have gone much too far. Killing Severus was never in the plan. This jump-starts his sense of guilt, and he tries to fight his feelings of guilt and self-disgust by starting the SWM thing. Afterwards he realises heās gone too far again, and he kinda goes through a mental breakdown, re-evaluating all the shit he and the Marauders have done to Severus the last few years. He keeps trying to justify it, thinking to himself that Severus is a slimy git, a Slytherin, he hates Muggleborns, heās probably gonna become a Death Eaterā¦..but then he remembers how frantically Severus apologised to Lily after calling her a Mudblood. He remembers how absolutely broken Severus looked after SWM. He remembers the real fear in his eyes when Remus nearly killed him. He remembers how small he looked everytime the Marauders got away with hurting him, how broken he looked, how all the life in his eyes had faded. Heās suddenly wondering if he and the Marauders have been acting more like Death Eaters than Severus has ever acted. This jolts him, and thus brings about a series of revelations that boil down to (1) Severus Snape isnāt a bad person and doesnāt deserve all the shit heās had to endure from the Marauders and (2) James and Sirius have been absolute dicks to Severus Snape and James needs to make it up to him. It starts out as self-justice, so he can let go of his guilt, but quickly he finds actual, good qualities in Severus and it just escalates from there.
Now when I thought of it this way, I realised that I love watching James struggling with these new feelings and him pursuing Severus and grovelling for forgiveness, etc. Idk, for some reason having James falling for Severus is probably the best kind of punishment for him. Not because Severus is horrible or ugly or anything (I donāt believe any of that tbh), but because this is Jamesā heart going against everything he believed to be true, everything he ever expected. For once, things arenāt going James Potterās way. And heās sabotaged himself by bullying the object of his affections for years. And now he needs to suffer the consequences of his actions cuz theyāre affecting his own life, his own happiness, directly! It kinda balances out the power dynamics between the two, because even though James is rich and popular and physically stronger and conventionally attractive and a Gryffindor Pureblood, now heās at an emotional disadvantage. Severus is at an emotional advantage now because James is in love with him and will basically do anything for him. James will have to emotionally suffer in order to (a) get Severus to forgive him, (b) get Severus to be his friend, and Ā© get Severus to fall in love with him. On the way heāll have to stop his bullying behaviour, change his view on Slytherins, and maybe grow out of his sense of entitlement. So yeah, Jeverus is the best way for James to finally lose his bravado and some of the control he had on his life and feelings, suffer a lot in a very specific and personal way, and ultimately become a better person, while also having the added benefit of making Severus feel wanted and loved and happy. Itās a win-win! James suffers and becomes a better person, and Severus is finally happy and has emotional power over James Potter. So yeah, itās cathartic.
Another thing is their āloveā for Lily. I always thought Jamesā love for Lily was mostly superficial, just for her looks and how āfiestyā and āhard-to-getā she was. He never respected her rejections and just kept pursuing her without her consent. Maybe having Sev being the object of his affections will teach him about boundaries. And Sevās love for Lily seemed a lot more platonic than people believe. Maybe he and Harry and Dumbledore and all thought it was romantic love, but to me it seemed more like a lonely boy who couldnāt tell the difference between romantic love and strong platonic love, and just wanted to keep his only friend. Severus seemed a bit too dependant on Lily, so I think moving on from her and finding James Potter, where James is the one whoās more dependent on Severus than the other way around, would be good for Severus. He gets to feel wanted for once, like somebodyās willing to fight for him. Of course, I still want Sev and Lily to stay best friends, just with less dependance and more camaraderie and open affection for each other, like they were pre-Hogwarts.
Now this next reason is more observational, and may venture into hc territory. Letās face it, James Potter is canonically a bit obsessed with Severus Snape. Negative or positive, itās still obsession. He literally pursues Severus to bully him more than he pursues Lily to ask her out! And his bullying behaviour and constant insistence that he bullies Severus ābecause he existsā kinda makes me think of alternative reasons. āPigtail-pullingā comes to mind (AKA bullying someone cuz you have a crush on them). James seems like the type of guy whoād torment their crush to simultaneously get their attention and prove to themselves and the world that he doesnāt like them. And it seems like a perfect showcasing of toxic masculinity tbh, James being all proud and boisterous and tormenting and bullying people weaker than him. We all know that sometimes boys who are attracted to other boys showcase toxic masculinity so they can reassure themselves that they donāt like guys. This seems like a very James thing to do tbh, internalised homophobia causing him to exhibit toxic masculinity to cover up his huge-ass crush on Severus. I can honestly see this being a huge reason he bullied Severus so much. He was ashamed of his feelings for a boy, much less a poor, conventionally unattractive Slytherin boy. I feel like thatās why he pursued Lily so fervently; he was trying to prove to himself and the world that heās straight as a ruler. Plus liking Lily could be used as an excuse. He can simply act like heās jealous of Severus, when in actuality heās jealous of Lily. Idk, all this seems so real to me once I think about it, as if it actually happened in canon. Either way, James Potter is probably a closet gay/bi with internalised homophobia who constantly bullies Severus Snape to prove to himself that he hates him, when in actuality heās in love with him. The ācrushā on Lily is a cover-up to mask his feelings for Severus and to convince himself and others that heās jealous of Severus, not Lily, and that he only likes girls. At least, thatās how I see itš
Another, more symbolic thing is their Patronuses. James is a stag. Severus is a doe. And of course we know that the books say that Severus is a doe cuz he loves Lily, but I hc that his Patronus was always a doe. It just suits him better tbh, does are alert, skittish, sensitive, theyāre always on the lookout for danger, theyāre the easiest prey (for bullies, in Sevās case). Lily is fierce, protective, and quick-tempered, so I think a lioness shouldāve been her Patronus, but I digress. Anyway, I just believe that Sevās Patronus has always been a doe. And a stag (James) and a doe (Severus)? Compatible af. Soulmates. Itās just one of my favourite Jeverus hcs.
If you look at their personalities, theyāre highly compatible. They differ but theyāre also similar (much like Gryffindors and Slytherins in general). Iāve read countless Gryffindor/Slytherin posts, and they really do mirror Snames. Slytherins reign in Gryffindorsā impulsive, reckless instincts, while Gryffindors bring out Slytherinsā sense of competitiveness so they can shine instead of hiding their abilities. Gryffindors and their grand schemes would mix perfectly with Slytherins and their ability to execute these grand schemes with subtlety and cunning and finesse. Slytherdor ftwā¤ļøššš¼šš¼ James is bold and loud and impulsive and showy, while Severus is quiet and particular and careful and intelligent and a perfectionist. James can bring out Severusā passion and skill, while Severus can reign in some of Jamesā more destructive qualities. Not to mention the fact that James is rich and has a loving family, and if he and Sev start dating then James can buy Severus new quills, books, and robes, and bring him over to his comfortable, warm house, where Severus would finally be doted over by a loving family. Theyāre a perfect fit tbh. James has everything, except a good personality. In falling in love with and dating Severus, James will become a better person. Severus has nothing in terms of material items or status or love, so being with James Potter would give him all of that, plus the feeling of someone, especially someone who claimed to hate him, actually wanting him and loving him and showering him with love and affection and gifts (cuz we all know how extra James Potter is :3). So both Severus and James are happy, and everyoneās happy!
So yeah, basically, these are the reasons I ship Jeverus/Snames! With a bit of canon divergence, it could work perfectly imho. It requires a whole lot of character growth and forgiveness and a slow, positive progression of their relationship, all the factors I adore in my ships :3