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I’m so lucky
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Oh shit it's me...
Holy shit...
I just saw I have over 100 followers! Yea I am sure most of them are just bots lol, but beggars can't be choosers right?
Any of you who are real though, feel free to DM me! I am bored 95% of the time, and would love to chat about any random stuff. Or if you just wanna vent anonymously to a stranger who can't/won't judge you feel free!
In order to stop the culture of faking orgasms, we need to stop the culture of shaming others for their sexual experiences.
Can’t get your partner off on the first try? Cool. You can still be thoughtful and make them feel good.
Can get your partner off within 30 seconds? Awesome, good for you both, don’t let it get to your head.
Can make someone cum in less than 5, but for others, it’s a process that takes an hour? That’s alright, everyone’s different.
Does it take you 30 minutes to cum? That’s okay, you’re not broken, you’re not a failure.
Does it take you 10 seconds to cum? That’s great, you’re not a slut, you’re not overly sensitive or dirty.
Can’t cum without toys/vibrators? That’s awesome, that’s a valid part of sexual play!
Can only cum with loving, vanilla sex? That’s perfectly normal, and you will find lots of great partners to experience that with!
Can’t orgasm at all? THAT’S ALSO COOL. It’s not a bad thing, you can still enjoy sex TONNES just like others.
Orgasms are NOT the defining characteristic of your sexual prowess. They are great, they’re lovely when they happen, but for the love of science, stop bringing them up higher than they need to be.
This one’s a pretty big deal. “Did you come?”
No, but it still felt great
Yes, and it felt really great
Yes, but coming isn’t that big a deal for me
No, can you keep going?
Yes, can you keep going?
No, do you want to watch me get myself off?
Yes, but don’t get a big head about it – I come so easily it doesn’t matter what you do.
No, but I bet I can get you up again
Yes, but I’d rather keep edging because I always get a huge drop after coming and it really puts me off sex for a while
No, thank you, orgasm denial leaves me deliciously horny for days
No, and I’m really frustrated, let’s brainstorm how to change that
All of these are fucking awesome answers. Including the last one. They’re also 100% legitimate answers. Including the last one.
Only the last one is even a little bit “negative,” and, really, how bad, arrogant, or egocentric a lover do you have to be that you’d rather not know when your partner says “here are some great ways to help me come next time, lover?”
If on the other hand you’re going to panic or be unhappy about that last answer then you’re not a bad lover (no shame either way) but your sex life will be less workable. With the result that you’ll continue having, well, the same result.
To be honest, whether you or your partner comes isn’t the most important thing about sex. It’s whether you’re both satisfied afterwards. The only trick being that
You get to decide what “satisfied” means for you
You don’t get to decide what “satisfied” means for your partner(s.)
Asking “did you come” isn’t really the right question. “Does this work for you” is way healthier. That’s the culture we want to look for and encourage.
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P.S. Your partner isn’t a video game. His or her orgasms aren’t a boss fight. The question you want to ask isn’t “did I beat the previous high score” but “would you like to play again.”
As much as I love watching needy subs, I’m also a needy dom.
“I wanna fuck you so bad” “Spread your legs for me, baby, please” “God I need to kiss you” “Show me that pretty ass of yours, please, baby”
A list of terms and simple definitions for the CGl world
Acronyms-
DD- Daddy Dominant MD- Mommy Domme CG- Caregiver LG- Little girl LB- Little Boy LO- Little One CGL- Caregiver & Little DDlg- Daddy Dom & little girl DDlb- Daddy Dom & little boy MDlg- Mommy Domme & little girl MDlb- Mommy Domme & little boy ABDL- Adult Baby Diaper Lover AB- Adult Baby DL- Diaper Lover LDR- Long Distance Relationship SSC- Safe Sane consensual RACK- Risk Aware Consensual Kink BDSM- Bondage/Discipline Dominant/Submissive Sadism/Masochism D/s- Dominant/submissive NSFW- Not Safe For Work SFW- Safe for Work SO- Significant Other
Vocabulary-
Little- a little is a person who mentally (or physically) feels younger than they physically are. The term little is often a broad spectrum. It can cover all types of individuals who feel they are younger than their physical age. A little is roughly around the ages of 0-12. We don’t set these ages in stone because not every little has an age and not every little feels they represent the above listed age. Middle- a middle is a person who mentally (or physically) feels younger than they physically are. The term middle can fall under the little broad spectrum term. It is also known as Lolita & Nymphet. They tend to be mentally older than littles, more around the teen ages. So around 13-17. Once again ages are not set in stone because not every middle has a set age and not ever middle feels they represent the above listed age. Dominant- An individual who is the “top” in a BDSM relationship or BDSM spectrum relationship. They tend to be the person who makes the rules, and doles out the punishment. They are also the protector of their submissive. Submissive- A Submissive is an individual who is the “bottom” in a BDSM or BDSM spectrum relationship. They tend to be the person who receives the punishment and have to follow the enforced rules. They are the protected. Switch- An individual who enjoys being both a Dominant and a submissive. They are known as a switch because they “switch” roles sometimes within their relationship or with a different partner. Daddy Dom- a person who prefers a masculine identifying title, sometimes takes on the role of a Dominant but can be the submissive as well. Usually the caretaker for a little. Mommy Domme- a person who prefers a feminine identifying title, sometimes takes on the role of a Dominant but can be submissive as well. Usually the caretaker for a little. Caregiver- a non gender specific title that represents someone who sometimes takes on the role of a Dominant but can be a submissive. Usually a person who takes on a care taking/caregiving role to a little. Master- A term that is used for a person who tends to only strictly play a Dominant role. They can be the Dominant of a little, submissive, or pet. Big- Another non gender specific title that represents someone who sometimes take on the role of a Dominant but can be a submissive. Little space- The head space a little finds themselves in during their transition, regression or when they become their little persona. Some littles are always littles and always in little space. For others it’s something to regress into. Middle space- The head space a Middle finds themselves in during their transition, regression or when they become their Middle persona. Some Middles are always Middles and are always in middle space. For others it’s something they regress into. Agender- Someone who has no gender. They are genderless. Gender Fluid- A person who flows between gender. They tend to not have a set gender preference. One day they feel one way, another day they feel another way. Gender Neutral- A term that does not specify gender. It does not favor male nor female. Genderqueer- An umbrella term for all genders other than man and woman, or someone who simply identifies as another gender, a queer gender. Sister- A term commonly used in Poly families, for a person who Identifies as female and is an addition to the CGL group. They can also be a little, middle or ABDL but not always. Brother- A term commonly used in Poly families, for a person who identifies as a male and is an addition to the CGL group. They can also be a little, middle or ABDL, but not always. ABDL- As stated above ABDL means Adult Baby Diaper Lover, people who identify themselves as an ABDL will commonly wear diapers and prefer to be treated as more infantile/baby/toddler ages. If a person wants to be treated like a baby but does not want to wear diapers they will call themselves an AB if an individual enjoys wearing diapers but not being treated like a baby they will often refer to themselves as a DL Androgynous- A style of clothing or appearance, androgyny is also a type of genderqueer, the state of being in between man and woman, or both man and woman. Demiboy-Someone partly a boy, and partly something else, without defining that other part. Demigirl- Someone partly a girl, and partly something else, without defining that other part.
Sexuality Terms & Defintions-
Poly- An individual who is capable of loving more than one person at once. They prefer the company of multiple people but not necessarily all at once. They also are not always sexually involved with their poly family members. It can be a non sexual relationship. Heterosexual- A person who is sexually attracted to an individual of the opposite sex. Gay/Lesbian- (better term other than homosexual???) An individual who is attracted to the same sex. Bisexual- A person who is sexually attracted to individuals in the same sex as well as the opposite sex. Asexual- A person who has no sexual feelings or desires towards another person. Pansexual- An individual who has the ability to be sexually attracted to a person no matter their gender. Aromantic- A person who lacks the desire or interest in romantic feelings towards another person. Panromantic- An individual who has the ability to be romantically attracted to a person no matter their gender. Demisexual- An individual who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone. Demiromantic- An individual who only experiences romantic attraction after developing an emotional connection beforehand.
Kinks and their definitions-
Pet Play- a form of role playing that involves a person taking on the role of a pet and another taking on the role of the Master. Common examples are kitten, puppy and pony. Teacher/student- A form of role play that involves a person taking on the role of a student and the other the role of a teacher and acting out a sometimes sexual scenario. Rope Play- A kink that is not always sexual in nature but involves a person being bound, suspended, or tied in some fashion with ropes. Impact Play- A kink that involves spanking, flogging, cropping, paddling, or anything that involves “impact” on the body. (most commonly used in the CGL realm as spanking) This kink is not always a sexual kink. Wax Play- A kink that involves playing with heated and melted wax in safe conditions. Where an individual willingly pours hot wax (specialty bought for this purpose) on their partner or themselves. Certain waxes need to be used to prevent harm. This kink is not always sexual in nature. Age Play- a type of role play where an individual acts out an age younger than they physically are. They are playing out a role. Because of this they are not considered littles.
This list of terms and definitions has been CAREFULLY created by our blog and team. PLEASE do not use this as your own work. You are welcome to re-blog and share but do not steal our hard work! Please and thank you!
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Text from friend: "Hey you busy?"
Me looking at my dick in my hand while porn plays from another tab on my phone: "Yea one sec."
okay but collars :( and handcuffs :( and intimidation :( and vibrators :( and being called out on how easily flustered and desperate you are :( and biting :( and edging :( and being told to look into their eyes :( and hickeys and bite marks :( and being praised :( and petnames :(
Can we just like...normalize your partner being in a sex repulsed episode without making them feel bad about it? I don’t care if “they normally have a high sex drive” it happens; communicate and don’t guilt them into something just because you refuse to understand
Fucking respect each other.
This is me seriously I have my moments and it sucks people don’t make someone feel bad for not being 100%
100% if your partner is suddenly not into sex and its very offputting for them give them their space because it could be ptsd as well and not giving them space could make it worse and people shouldn't need to communicate exactly what caused that to have their boundaries respected.
Can you please reblog if your blog is a safe place for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, asexual, aromantic, pansexual, non binary, demisexual or any other kind of queer or questioning people? Because mine is.
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Looking For Peope to chat with:
Title has it all. I would like to to talk to people with all levels of BDSM experience about various topics.
If there is anyone in the 217 area code(US), it would be cool to talk to peope relatively near me as there is not a lot of people/groups/resources around here for such things (most of the zone if fairly rural)