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kamenotaku

crab crab crab hand hand hand frighten

birdhug

i like them..

#wonderfully simple creatures....#I adore their eyes! Little dots :~)

janmisali

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piksiew

bacteriography portrait of Five Pebbles I made from yeast , mold , acrylic paints and other stuff i found

catlips001

FUCK. honestly just FUCK. We missed a very important day yesterday.

battebitch-deactivated20200410

what was yesterday, cat?

catlips001

I’m not missing it this year.

anceh-atsiome

Honest question if I'm gonna play Rain World should I do it with a controller or keyboard? I've tried it on keyboard a couple of times now and bounced off of it, so I'm wondering if controller might help me get into it more

#if you want my honest opinion #I think controller is the best #While some tech is easier and some is harder #As a general I think Controller works best!#I generally use both keyboard or controller #It depends on the game I play; Controller works best for Rainworld imo!

grungekitty-77

Not that anybody asked, but I think it's important to understand how shame and guilt actually work before you try to use it for good.

It's a necessary emotion. There are reasons we have it. It makes everything so. much. worse. when you use it wrong.

Shame and guilt are DE-motivators. They are meant to stop behavior, not promote it. You cannot, ever, in any meaningful way, guilt someone into doing good. You can only shame them into not doing bad.

Let's say you're a parent and your kid is having issues.

Swearing in class? Shame could work. You want them to stop it. Keep it in proportion*, and it might help. *(KEEP IT IN PROPORTION!!!)

Not doing their homework? NO! STOP! NO NOT DO THAT! EVER! EVER! EVER! You want them to start to do their homework. Shaming them will have to opposite effect! You have demotivated them! They will double down on NOT doing it. Not because they are being oppositional, but because that's what shame does!

You can't guilt people into building better habits, being more successful, or getting more involved. That requires encouragement. You need to motivate for that stuff!

If you want it in a simple phrase:

You can shame someone out of being a bad person, but you can't shame them into being a good person.

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