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okay this is an insane poll but for context: as a lot of people know, in fashion and styling, different people have different complimentary palettes. some people look better in cool tones, some people look better in warm tones, some in bright colors, some in pastels, etc etc. however, this also applies to metals, specifically gold vs silver. so,

do you know whether you "should" be wearing either silver or gold

yes, i know which looks best, and i stick with this

yes, i know which looks best, and i don't care

no, i don't know

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Remaining time: 3 days 22 hours

#I don't #i match it to my outfit more than my skin tbh and switch between the two #polls

It's insane how obsessed Europeans are with Americans weight

#sorry it comes up often in all the vids about Europeans in the us for the world cup #that are otherwise nice vids

dilfdarthvader

sometimes i feel like some people forget that ilya is also canonically #thatbitch??? he’s also a very famous very attractive extremely talented hockey player?? his reputation is different than shane’s but he’s still respected??

#no it's so annoying lmao #like I've started dnfing fics at times that weight Shane too crazy heavily over Ilya #like are people missing the point of their relationship and rivalry #they're equals!!!!!!#heated rivalry #fandom wank

bisexualdinahlance

I think we should make the Shayden friendship weirder, but like not in the one sided romance way. Instead of sleeping with Jackie's friend when he and Hayden first meet her, Shane should've gotten invited to a threesome with Hayden and Jackie bc she thought they were both really hot.

And like, it's fine enough for having a woman centered threesome as someone who does not know he's gay yet but is still in his occasionally fucking puck bunnies to prove his straightness (or at least his attraction to women) era. He at least doesn't embarrass himself and that's all he can ask for at this point. Obviously, Hayden and Jackie end up actually getting together and stay together, and it's surprisingly chill, but sometimes Shane has to face the fact that he was there the first time his best friends slept together. It's fine really, just embarrassing for him looking back.

The only problem is when Ilya finds out because he will never let Shane live it down

#this didn't get the attention it deserved #i still think this is hilarious less virgin Mary unless it comes to Ilya Shane #put that man in situations

mona-ex-machina

If you were really my friend you’d do this highly unethical experimental surgery on me

#isn't this basically what happens with harrow and ianthe lmao #tlt

ticklefighthockey

my late-night heated rivalry take is that I don’t think anyone in ilya’s life has ever suspected him of being queer. I think the only people who actually know ilya sleeps with men—alexei and svetlana—found out by accident, probably around the same time (the sasha era…). I know I’ve said this before but I just do not think this guy is getting clocked as flamboyant! I think if you’re a hot young superstar jock who’s very publicly making out with hot models in the club everyone is going to look at you and see what they want and expect to see, ie an aggressively heterosexual man

#i actually don't think that Alexei knows either I think he's just using a common insult #targeting other men's masculinity is just a classic way to tear them down #if he DOES know however I agree it'd be bc he found out by accident not bc he like /knew/#Ilya reads as very straight in his actions and the environment he is in #and especially in how he performa masculinity as a Russian hockey player #we cannot keep assuming every culture has the same perimeters as us #heated rivalry

Genuine question. Did overly codependent hollanov come from something specific in canon or did fandom just make it up and everyone just kinda accepts it as essentially canon

#heated rivalry #hollanov #i have mixed feelings about codependent hollanov like I think they are emotionally codependent but like they've spent most of their r #relationship apart I don't think they need to be attached at the hip and I don't think they will be moving forward #past an initial clingy period bc they're finally on the same team #but maybe I'm wrong maybe there's something in canon I don't remember so I'm curious 🫶🏻#*meant to say I think that could be emotionally codependent lol

I've said this before but weird routines/superstitions and eating habits that Shane might have or even the insane hockey knowledge are not that weird or out of place in the NHL especially for a player as good as Shane. The thing that would isolate him the most amongst his teammates would actually most likely be the unwillingness to drink more than anything else, especially if he doesn't go out with them very often. Bonding at the bar (and low-key drinking in the plane ride home after a game when they leave right away which they often do lol) was like the way for teams to bond and when people started drinking less in the past fiveish years veteran players cite this as a problem for team cohesion.

#every time a fic is like everyone makes fun of Shane for his eating!!!#well no plenty of hockey players are on weird diets #we've been making fun of one of the caps for being a raw milk drinker for two years #a previous cap was a crazy healthy smoothie guy #that's normal #drinking/participating in team activities can be more difficult to navigate and sour relationships #i will always!!! bring up that crazy athletic article that talks about drinking habits of players in the 2000s and 2010s vs now!!#where most younger players prefer weed to beer #heated rivalry #shane hollander

It's kind of silly to me when hollanov treat the tuna melt as super sacred to them. I don't think Ilya is ever making a tuna melt again lmao. At least not for Shane. Literally caused them to break up before they even dated. The food is cursed forever now

#hollanov #heated rivalry #nonsense lmao

swarnpert

had little caesar pizza for the first time this guy was 100% correct

#i love little Caesars #like it's ass pizza but it's good for cheap ass CHAIN pizza #now I want little Caesars damn

Kissing this author on the mouth for having shitty reaction Hayden and good friend JJ for once purely bc it's a breath of fresh air

#i do think the hate against Hayden is exaggerated but the hate against JJ is even worse #and racist #Hayden tbqh is mostly just kind of ignorant sometimes #anyway <33 supportive JJ <3 yay #chatter

People think Shane is the only thing holding Ilya back from being a total menace but really when people ask him to "reign his man in" he just is like ??? "Now why would I want to do that?"

#people mistake Shane's token protests for being serious #Shane protests bc he feels like he needs to bc it's what a reasonable person would do #AND it's part of the script #not bc he actually wants to stimie ilyas menace behavior #Shane thinks Ilya is funny #and enjoys being bullied by him #heated rivalry #hollanov #Shane hollander

I try to be good about not calling people stupid (though I'm often not very good at it) because I think insulting people is a bad way to deprogram people but Instagram has dumped me into the "ancient maps are more accurate" "they're actively erasing history!!! [By updating their maps]" conspiracy side and I'm just... Be so fucking serious. "This map feature was removed once our science improved, SUSPICIOUS!!!!!" "Why is so much architecture similar across the world before the invention of cameras???" Like?? I know people love their conspiracies, they can be fun but come on now. Critical thinking is a virtue

#the second thing is about tartary/Tartaria or whatever and I was even more baffled by the architecture reasoning than the map #part of it all #the first idk if it's an actual known conspiracy or just some lady being really ignorant about maps and compasses #just....#tartary a particularly stupid lost civilization myth to me #like sunken islands sure that's shit that actually happens tho not to the like extent that some of the conspiracies posit #something something Atlantis (and the other flood myths) were inspired by real historical flooding that decimated europe/North Africa #but in the fucking middle of Eurasia 😭😭😭😭#also keep in mind half the architecture was just... what was popular during industrialization and a lot of it was just fucking #Roman inspired architecture 😭 fucking GRECO ROMAN PILLARS #chatter

It's so hard to explain but there are so many conversations that are just steeped in biphobia that have no bi people involved at all, but just purely based on the assumptions people make. Also the way a lot of "fujoshis" behave towards/about the actors in gay media 😭

#this is really dumb but watching the way people like cry when a queer guy actor from a big gay show #has on screen chemistry with a woman is bizarre #like does this man date women actually no there's a very good chance he doesn't (the only exes we know are men)#but like it's a photoshoot #these guys aren't officially out bc they don't want to limit their prospects be so for real and y'all making little comments like #oh it just doesn't work when it's with a women :((( it feels weird and yucky :((((#he's an actor and a model this is his jobbbb #also I think people think chemistry equals attraction????#like no it does not 😭 it can help but that's not the be all end all of on screen chemistry #the reason I mention biphobia is bc of the way people act like bc a guy is into men they can feel nothing for women #not chemistry not attraction not anything #even when we don't... actually know his sexuality lol #the way gay and straight are the only two options to most people!#chatter

glitchy-haha

INCREDIBLY CONCERNING SPIKE IN ANTI-BLACKNESS IS HAPPENING RN.

Some of yall may have heard some of the shit that has been going on right now. I'm gonna give a quick run down of some of the stuff that has been happening. Note, this is not all, and it may never be all as much as I will try to update this.

(I am going to try and compile and briefly explain these as much as I can. There may be misinformation. Please inform me if I got something wrong.)

(This will also be updated with additional information and new topics added.)

1) Racist Chinese Dolls.

There are these dolls in China that are being called "Natasha" baby dolls. These dolls are not only very obvious caricatures of black people, but they are being advertised as a "stress relief" in which the people who buy these abuse it in various ways.

This links to a video of a compilation of the various "uses" of the doll. There are more in the replies of the tweet. (Another link to the same tweet just incase)

2) The Mocking, Abuse, and Dehumanization of Black Children.

Apart from the aforementioned doll, there are apparently people going around mocking, abusing, and dehumanizing black children.

Some people have compared black children to the doll.

Others have been going into African countries and have found ways to mock, abuse, and dehumanize black children for clout.

(Source 1 + Full Video) (Source 2)

There are more videos surfacing.

3) Black people are going missing.

Black people, especially children and teens have recently been going missing at an alarming rate. Some of these same people are turning up dead, deaths being ruled as "suicides."

While it generally unknown why many of these people are going missing, many suspect that their disappearances, deaths, and even lack of coverage is rooted in anti-blackness.

The following is a list of black people that have been reported missing as of recently. Please note that this is not a complete list (it may never be completed due to the fact that many of these disappearances will still occur as time passes) this may contain inaccurate information. Please inform me if that is the case.

By the time you see this, some of these people may have already been found either alive or deceased. This post will be updated overtime.

It is also heavily encouraged that you reblog this with more links to recent cases of missing black people if you are aware of any that aren’t included on this list.

Alexis Shaver

Payton Diver

Nasir Tacuma

Ka’Laya Cooper

Makaila Monae Adam

Moriah Kerre Smith

Uchechi Chijindum Nkemdirim

Victeria Uriah Spear

Rilen Wade (Found. Is Safe)

Leara Sessoms

#antiblackness #God I just found out about the Natasha doll thing yesterday it's fucking crazy