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support ALL trans people :) ! 💓
Oh shit. No. Shit. Thank you
Just gonna reblog this out of gratitude because I actually did forget…
Fffffffff let me get right on that.
and then reblog for the next forgetful son of a bitch
I’m so great full for everyone that is reblogging this. I totally forgot to take mine
I think that there is some sort of unspoken fairy godparent thing where you see this, realize that you forgot your meds, and rebagel it because if you forgot someone else must have. And in our turn we all take care of each other, even if we don’t know it.
Please take care of yourself
I can’t stand for it anymore.
I see a decent amount of criticism of Giselle’s dress at the ball in ENCHANTED. How, viewers say, could Giselle go from this:
To this:
and think it an improvement?
This is not the ideal choice for a gown for Amy Adams, but I also think that’s the point.
The point is that Giselle spends the first part of the movie singlemindedly trying to leave the city and get back home to her fairy tale. Her growth is when she realized that’s not enough for her any more, and she wants to commit. To put down roots. To date, to adopt the customs of this new world.
This gown isn’t intended to be a “glow up” or a “rags to riches” or “she was beautiful all along”.
Similarly, Robert is introduced to us as a sterile lawyer:
Who ALSO has a dramatic costume change at the ball:
They are DOING THE SAME THING.
Robert is trying to show Giselle he understands that her needs and dreams are not only valid but correct - here he is dancing! In a period suit!
Giselle is trying to show Robert that she can adjust and compromise without losing herself! His world matters too! Here she is in a modern gown!
And neither of them are supposed to stay in those costumes - they’re both costumes. How does the movie end?
In outfits that are casual, maybe, but colorful and indicative of themselves. They’ve met in the middle, but become more themselves. She’s more dignified and he’s more lively.
To whine about Giselle’s ball gown is to miss that that is the critical moment, almost an O. Henry situation, where the two lovers reach so far to each other that they end up changing places.
the inherent shame of beginning… dont look at me while i learn
“the inherent shame of beginning”
i admit, “don’t look at me while i learn” hits hard… but why is that so? when i was 7 years old i sang along to songs i had yet to fully learn by bumbling through sounds that half-resembled what i thought i heard, at full volume.
at 6, i would practice ballet moves–in which i had no instruction–outside the theater after a professional performance, in full view of the public.
at 5, i asked my teacher so many questions that she affectionately called me Bug–because i was always bugging her with my endless inquiry. i loved the nickname.
at 14, i was afraid to practice a song in my own room with no one home because, “what if my voice cracks? what if i can’t hit that note?”
at 15 i was afraid to dance in the garage with no one around because–i mean how embarrassing would it be to get the move wrong?
at 16, i forgo asking questions in class because god forbid i not understand.
what is this? “the shame of beginning”, we say. but not inherent, never was it inherent. the child loves to begin! they love making the silly mistake. the world tells us the mistake is fatal, or worse, shameful. what a tragedy. the world strangles our joy of beginning and when we’re old enough we add our own hands to the neck.
but the truth is we begin everyday and we are wrong and we’re dumb and we make silly mistakes and at the end of it all we are still the brilliant learners we’ve always been. there is no shame. it’s alright. i don’t know how to properly express that i wish upon everyone who’s reblogged this post to realize the shame is in our hands wrapped around the neck. we can let go. allow the self-kindess of your heart to soothe the bruises.
learning is no secret burden. we do it together :)
This needs that story of the woman taking (ballet?) dance classes as an adult and the experienced dancers watching them learn, giggling in the doorway. The beginners think they’re being laughed at, but when they all meet and chat, the laughter was from the nostalgia of being a beginner back then, just like these guys, and that they loved watching them learn 🥰
Hey y'all!
It's quickly approaching the end of January, I have yet to receive my stimulus check, and rent is due Feb 1st.
I have an Etsy shop where I sell stickers I design and print myself, as well as jewelry, keychains, and phone charms. It would mean the world to me if y'all took a look, or reblogged so others who might be interested can see this ❤
u all ever lose the ability to socialize in the middle of a convo like.... ok i’m done now there’s no more words in here brain shutting off
The queer pride flag.
For the longest time I’ve struggled with defining and expressing my identity in the way many other LGBT people do. I couldn’t wear a pin with the colors or have a flag up in my room. So I decided to remedy this issue myself, and make my own queer prideflag.
It’s the colors of a sunrise, signifying the start of an era where the word queer means something different, something more positive. I hope you like it :)
Pass this along even if it doesn’t pertain to you because everyone deserves something that showcases who they are!!
it could be worse. you could be 5′1″.
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or u could be less than 5′ tall
Ok but like dont come at me
Are you feeling kind of down right now? It’s not your fault that you forgot what baby cheetahs look like. Really. One time I did too.
But now you recall!
Look! Look!
They loves to play!
Rawr!
Their head is just one giant ball of floof!
I can’t even
How do they live? Being so cuTE??
Ugh!!
This has been a PSA. Baby cheetahs are everything good and pure in this world. Please imagine petting the floof head. Please feel better.
For anyone who needs this.
Also, when they are a little older, they have full-body mohawks!
I honestly needed this.
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Is Pennywise's makeup in the Clown Egg Registry?
even if he did, one rule of being a clown is to not scare or harm children, so he's an illegal clown
How could I have forgotten the clown code of conduct...
Honestly, I want to see an alternate reality version of the story where the World Clown Association finds out about Pennywise, and dedicate themselves to destroying him.
Make it a parody of those edgy vampire hunter movies. Get Wesley Snipes and Kate Beckinsale to wear giant shoes and foam noses as they hunt down demonic clown entities.
Janelle Monáe really is just that fine
I don’t want to detract from that post, but like- people not learning queer history is genuinely the source of so many of our problems in the queer community today.
It’s why people don’t understand the roots of the word “queer” in the first place, or why it’s important to so many people
It’s why people think “gay” is some apolitical neutral term with zero negative connotations, ever, for anyone
It’s why people actively feed into lesbian separatism, political lesbianism, and TERF movements without even knowing it
It’s why people think “LGBT” is some True Name that has never been changed, challenged, nor shaped over the years to better represent the community
It’s why people feed “who can reclaim which slurs” discourse without giving living human beings older than 25 any real consideration
It’s why people straight-up don’t know what the “drop the T” campaign was/is, or understand the troubled history between the trans community and the rest of the queer community
It’s why people don’t understand what “trans” used to mean, or how that meaning has changed over the years, or why
It’s why people don’t understand the differences between queer communities and identities by country, or often how they’re complicated by race
It’s why people don’t understand what “butch” and “femme” actually mean, the many definitions they can have, or how those labels have intersected across communities for decades now
It’s why people don’t understand the differences between the transfemme and transmascs communitys’ histories, or the differences in struggles they have- and then feed into those struggles without even realizing it
It’s why people straight-up recycle old homophobic and transphobic rhetoric, uncritically and unironically, as if they’ve discovered cool some new bigbrain hot take for the “super smart” gay kids
It’s why people treat these complicated, contradictory-sounding, or lesser-known identities like “trendy new ways to claim you’re oppressed”- without understanding the history behind those labels, and those communities, and that they’ve been here longer than any of these people have been alive.
Like… yes, we’re moving forward now. Things are changing, and in many ways, it’s for the better! But we seem to forget that most of our community was lost in the 80′s and 90′s, and those folks left a massive, gaping chasm behind.
We don’t have the same easy, communal roots to our history that we used to. And in order to rebuild that, we- the entire community- is going to have to do some work to learn it and teach it and move forward with it in mind.
Yeah. How do we start doing that.
Because I really want to learn this.
Thoughts?
Yes! I’m by no means an expert, but I’ve been working on learning this stuff for years now, and some of the things I’ve done or tried to do are:
Seek out older queer folks on social media, and follow them! There aren’t many around, but you can start with activists and look for others. Here’s a few:
Miss Major Griffin-Gracey
Kate Bornstein
Julia Serano
Read! There are a ton of books on, or touching on, queer history by queer people who lived it. Some nice starting points are:
Stone Butch Blues by Leslie Feinburg
Transgender Warriors by Leslie Feinburg
Whipping Girl by Julia Serano
Redefining Realness by Janet Mock
Gender Outlaw by Kate Bornstein
Becoming a Visible Man by Jamison Green
If you have the opportunity to take gender studies or queer literature classes, or anything similar- take them! Try to talk to some fellow queer students folks before you choose which classes/professor you take them with, too.
Join local queer organizations! Not just clubs at your school, if you’re in school- though those are also great!- but clubs, in-person meetup groups, online groups, and other organizations where you might meet folks who are older than you.
Seek out material on topics that interest you; be it Stonewall, the AIDS crisis, specific queer artists and musicians (like Frida Kahlo, Keith Harring, or Freddie Mercury), or your country or specific region’s history. There are a ton of documentaries out there, and a ton of articles, books, essays, etc. that can all be great resources.
Also, @makingqueerhistory is a great resource. They have a podcast and do a ton of writing on queer history, and that can be an amazing place to start as well.
Good luck!
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Swag was a term used by gay men in the 60s, it meant, secretly we are gay. This is my favourite thing ever
Never date anyone who can’t sit through a marathon of the LOTR extended editions u don’t need that kind of weakness in ur life
how dare you keep this gem in the tags?
Me, at fictional characters: THIS WOULDN’T BE A PROBLEM IF YOU JUST TALKED ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS
Me, in real life: if i give even the vaguest notion of my feelings to anybody i would die
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me at fictional characters: This miscommunication is RIDICULOUS, those two clearly had like, 10 different moments where they could have talked about it but they didn’t, now this situation is unrealistically overwhelming
me in real life, with anyone: I shouldn’t mention that, right? No need to be precise about that, right? Yeah that should be fine