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the debate about alterhumanity being about what's divergent from the "normal" feels like it's inherently going to be othering to some. if you see "you're not normal" as a bad thing and see your identity as normal and others force a label on you that says "you fall outside the norm" then thats just fueling everything bad.

oopsallsyscourse

Or consider someone has trauma from being seen as not normal or inhuman. Maybe they wouldn't appreciate having their experiences labeled as strange or falling outside of "human experience."

blogger-from-mars-3

my statement was more intended to be "alterhumanity is normal, actually" and less "we should continue to call people abnormal for experiences that can fall under alterhumanity", because the latter was what i was critiquing here

blogger-from-mars-3

this whole conversation is a bit tedious though because what's "normal" varies between person to person and if you think "i'm normal im not alterhuman because im normal and alterhumans are not normal" that's fine but consider: your definition of normal may differ from others, and "normalcy" shouldn't be a value judgement

#adding this on. idk if the other user will see. i do not care #another alter of mine is saying this is a pointless argument so i will be logging off again

blogger-from-mars-3

the debate about alterhumanity being about what's divergent from the "normal" feels like it's inherently going to be othering to some. if you see "you're not normal" as a bad thing and see your identity as normal and others force a label on you that says "you fall outside the norm" then thats just fueling everything bad.

oopsallsyscourse

Or consider someone has trauma from being seen as not normal or inhuman. Maybe they wouldn't appreciate having their experiences labeled as strange or falling outside of "human experience."

blogger-from-mars-3

my statement was more intended to be "alterhumanity is normal, actually" and less "we should continue to call people abnormal for experiences that can fall under alterhumanity", because the latter was what i was critiquing here

#i feel like maybe i worded my post wrong #but alterhumanity *is* normal.#and many alterhuman experiences can be seen as completely separate from “humanity” and “human experience” by some #but also experienced as very normal “human” experiences as well by others #equating “can be defined as 'not human' by some” to “not normal and therefore bad” is the problem. because being alterhuman is normal.#i hope this clears things up?#this response is not intended to make you feel like you have to be comfortable with the label #but i was talking about how people seem to be treating alterhumans as “not normal” and that's going to cause harm. that was my point.#not that your experiences have to fall under alterhuman inherently.

the debate about alterhumanity being about what's divergent from the "normal" feels like it's inherently going to be othering to some. if you see "you're not normal" as a bad thing and see your identity as normal and others force a label on you that says "you fall outside the norm" then thats just fueling everything bad.

#syscourse #there's a way to word this post better but im not bothering with that #but there feels like there's a distinct sense of “alterhumans are not normal” going on in this conversation.#broadcasts from mars

there was always something about simply plural that made it feel too big to fail.

alas, it has fallen.

#scheduled for the day of the shutdown #there was something more about this concept i wanted to add here to this post but i am not one that's very good with words #my native language is martian so obviously i suck at english #simply plural shutdown #hopefully the replacement apps are still good and didn't fall just like octocon did #also if the final shutdown date changes between when i've queued this and when it posts then. pretend like it's accurate still

if u think that sysmed is transphobic because it copies from transmed then i hope you also have a problem with radnormal copying from radqueer.

#syscourse #i dont actually care about “radnormal” whatever but you can see how fucked up that comparison is right #“i hate radqueers so im going to copy their language!” to me you just sound like a radqueer who doesnt wanna be called a radqueer

some of you just love fakeclaiming yet don't want to be called a fakeclaimer so you have to make up reasons as to why you're not an ableist fakeclaimer

#syscourse #so many bots in the tag is crazy

daydreamers-choir

Hey, I just wanted to warn everyone to block @/stealthyproxysurvivor they are harassing pro and anti-endos. They also are harassing therians. They tell their harassment victims to kill themselves and that alone is just disgusting. Please block this person, report if possible, and stay safe! Your mental health is more important than anything.

This is the only time I will be crossing into anti endo tags because I feel like everyone should know about this person as they have sent sexually harassing material and sui bait two multiple people.

Here is this person's blog, report and move on. Don't stoop to their level of harassment

Follow @stealthyproxysurvivor and get more of the good stuff by joining Tumblr today. Dive in!

pluralskeepliving

it's self-care sunday!! today, the focus is on identifying what we need and doing something to meet that need.

here are some ideas to get started:

to release pent-up energy or emotions

exercise in some way

go on a walk/stroll/run

take a dance break

have a good cry

rip up paper

try neurographic art

write in a journal

jump rope

go swimming

to feel calmer and more uplifted

color a picture

listen to grounding music

take a nap

make a gratitude jar

meditate

take a stretch break

try a breathing exercise

engage with your spiritual beliefs

look at the clouds/stars

pet an animal

to feel less isolated

volunteer

play a board game

play a co-op video game

chat in a server/group chat

check out your library

write a letter and mail it

join a twitch stream

to feel more stimulated

take a quick cold shower

have some coffee

have some matcha

cook with strong smells

listen to energizing music

have bubble tea

challenge/race yourself

gamify your tasks

you can do a mix of these or just one, or something else entirely! feel free to also share what you're doing.

so we armchair diagnosing people in syscourse now?

#syscourse

syscourse-lurker

welcome back to your favorite time loop

#we nearly have the same icon btw

bit annoyed that the same person talking about something interesting (internal age and littles in systems and mental age) also is being intentionally triggering and messed up and is trying to use this conversation to justify sharing their weird fantasy about beating someone up

#hi i bet you see this #ma im on tv!#i don't have the brainpower anyway to explain my thoughts on littlecourse but it's interesting #unfortunately it's being brought back up like this #broadcasts from mars #i can't say much else because i know it's intentional. that post was intentionally upsetting.#she definitely knows how her post could be misconstrued and that's why she wrote it like that.#this is a good example of how- [static. transmission ended]

'endos are invasive species'?

what a way to dehumanize others!

#syscourse #i'm not surprised honestly. you guys love treating people like garbage.

eldritchharlequin

"Im An EnDoGeNic SyStEm"

Just say youre a kinnie and move on

blogger-from-mars-3

anti-fictionkin alert!

#can all antikin shut up forever?

i ask my tumblr for a "syscourse post". it gives me syscourser drama instead

#it's much more important than anti endos hating on endos existence but now syscourse is just boring #especially because im not involved in that at all

polistescarnifex

DID is not a feeling: Alters are separate individuals within one brain, not feeling like a different person. Nor is it simply "being multiple people", which often gets the disorder confused with masking and/or personas.

blogger-from-mars-3

"masking and/or personas" is not the same as "being multiple people". alters (or headmates, parts, members, whatever you wish to call them) are separate individuals within one brain. which is "being multiple people".

DID also includes things like amnesia and struggle with memory recall and other trauma-related symptoms, which means it's not just "alter disorder", it's a trauma disorder with the aspect of "you're multiple people", aka having alters. otherwise, if you weren't a system but you had PTSD, you'd be considered someone with PTSD. and if you're a system without PTSD, you're just endogenic.

polistescarnifex

I cannot tell if you're trying to disagree with me because none of these points contradict what i said. i also did not say masking/personas are being multiple people, quite the opposite, or that DID is only being a system, quite the opposite yet again.

blogger-from-mars-3

your post said this: DID is not a feeling: Alters are separate individuals within one brain, not feeling like a different person. Nor is it simply "being multiple people", which often gets the disorder confused with masking and/or personas..

"nor" usually means not, neither this nor that. you did claim that alters are separate individuals but that's not always identical to saying they're separate people, as you could be describing parts language with the first part.

you were saying that the idea that DID includes someone who is separate people is incorrect (that's what I read with the "nor" but), and I was saying that's literally what alters are.

if you meant it's not JUST or EXCLUSIVELY being plural, that is true. but your wording implied you saw the idea of "did is multiple people in one brain" as a mistake that leads people to think "oh so did is someone pretending to be multiple people and masking". which is an assumption some make but that's them not understanding the core concept of being plural and having a system

#soon i will unplug my martian router #no more earth drama for this martian!

thegalvanizedstaff

I know "non-traumagenic" is typically used for emphasis, but like. I see it in general use too. you do know "non-traumagenic" is... endogenic... lmaoo. im the syster, why so med-ious

blogger-from-mars-3

endogenic and non-traumagenic are both umbrella labels, but they're not identical even if they're very similar. they're used by different people for different reasons. but also getting mad about this is like getting mad someone said beautiful instead of pretty or something.

#we love xeno-origins here they're not making fun of xenogenders at all?#i can't tell if this is satire sorry for taking it seriously if this is

alpha-miku

I consider myself endo nuanced because "endo" is such a huge fucking umbrella terms these days. For example, here are some examples of what people might mean when they say endos:

- Tulpas

- Born systems

- Spiritual systems

- willos

- Polyminds

- Pluralplex's

- Median systems

- Schizogenic systems

All of these are very different experiences, some of them (polyminds) aren't even systems, and all of them should be treated differently and addressed separately.

One person could say they're pro-endo but be anti tulpa and anti willo. Another could be anti-endo, but be pro spiritual system and nuanced on born systems. It's almost as if... these labels are to vague to be helpful :0

blogger-from-mars-3

people claim median systems are endogenic when in reality it's describing the system's current experience, not what they originated from. many traumagenic systems would fit under the median label, especially many OSDD1 systems

#i think its good to say ur endo critical when ur not pro willo thats logically sound #i also feel the idea of being born a system is a bit silly but no one is born a “person” or a “self” you develop that when you're learning #but that's a philosophical perspective not a scientific one #nor does it mean you should treat kids as not people lol

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