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21 | Goth stem dyke | black woman/enby lover

[blonddykebar]

Identity is so complex and cool like yes I’m serving agender asexual alien realness while also being the head dyke stemcess, if you get it you get it 💋

[blkmogai]

✦ 　──　a flag for lesbians ( WLW, NBLW ) who are stems ( stud-fems ), or “soft butch.” this flag is, by definition, exclusive to black lesbians whose gender presentation or identity falls somewhere between stud and femme.

✧ 　──　studs are stereotypically masculine lesbians, whereas femmes are stereotypically feminine. stems are typically somewhere in-between, but being a stem is a wholly self-determined trait, for those who feel they don’t simply fall into one “category” or presentation, or the other.

tagging @abandonedknowledge !

[ Alt Text : READ MY PINNED MOTHERFUCKER ]

[blonddykebar]

Watching dragula bricked out of my mind, I looove weird freaky looking mfs who are also pretty

[freakedoutdyke]

"List" Posters (1991) by Artist Group Fierce Pussy. Posted by Curve Magazine

[blonddykebar]

Bottom left is soo me

[allthingswhumpyandangsty]

[utopians]

people aren't even exaggerating indeed is literally like that. walmart attendant $13 an hour, target attendant $13 an hour, AI dick sucker $40 an hour, home depot attendant $13 an hour, guy who designs bullets that can only kill children $160k a year plus benefits, gas station manager $18 an hour

[makingculturepop]

[biglibrat]

𝔩𝔦𝔟𝔯𝔞𝔱

[rars]

saying this as a lesbian who loves women's boobs--sexually, even! but i don't think that we as a society should consider breasts inherently female or inherently sexual. a flat chest should not be seen as the "default" for gender neutrality but instead just one way a person can present. boobs should be normal. anyone of any gender can have boobs

[local-null-nb]

hello! I've found out about nullification surgery due to your blog and I am very interested, happy theres a way to not have any genitals :) I've done my research but most of the post op feedback I see is from amab folks, and I am afab so I'm searching for fellow afabs experience

do you have any blog or link or ANYTHING related to ftn surgery! (ps, its totally okay if not!!)

have a nice day ^.^

I'm so glad to have been able to help you on your journey! It always makes me incredibly happy to hear that I have let someone know of its existence, who's interested in it.

I don't really have any particular sources, though I know "vaginectomy without phalloplasty" is a good search term.

If anyone has any good resources, please feel free to reblog with them!

If anyone has any other questions about nullification surgery, please feel free to ask!

[hexiflexi]

OMG IF YOU SEE THIS ANON DM ME!!

I'm FTN and have been looking for such resources myself, and also just want community with being neutral.

the r/nullectomy subreddit is run (I think) by someone who removed his vagina to be nullo, but here are some other posts I think might be nice to read through:

I have non reddit stuff as well, but didn't want to overwhelm this post with too many links

[withdreamsofhereafter]

Orchids

[petewentz-]

It's fun being queer and weird and unconventional until you remember you live in a society

[unalivejournal]

How it feels to remember Im unfuckable

[robotpussy]

"The Agressives" series by Jason Florio, 2000.

[pretty-head]

y’all never hype studs the way you do butches on here and it pisses me tf off

[blonddykebar]

College has been one of the most depressing and disappointing things I’ve ever experienced but I learned so much and the professors were great

[yaoiblackmold]

I don't have time for sex, I'm too busy running a blog that only 11 or 12 people care about

[touchmytylenol]

sheer panties + full bush