Ella

Lesbian. Trans. Started hrt 21/2 2017. She/her. Swedish.

[transfemininomenon]

hey everyone thanks for coming to the show we’re Arlene Titty Pills

[terramythos]

Betty Biopsy

[naamahdarling]

Beulah Don’t Like This Rash

[pixelatedtoys]

Marjory Can’t Fucking Breathe.

[knitmeapony]

Mary Jane Acid Reflux.

[tellingetienne]

Phyllis Fell Down

[finnglas]

Jewel Infection In My Jawbone

[thelaughingvulture]

Amanda Going Into Labor

[snakeybones]

Alma Appendectomy

[brigadierlethbridgestewart]

Betty monthly visit to the resident.

[what-even-is-thiss]

Ellen abnormal blood hormone levels

[where-my-stars-fell-gone]

Dolores Eye Surgery

[honey-sunny-bee]

Patricia Check-Up

[aninactivebloggfgfgf]

Marcy ovarian cyst

[not-so-innocent-bi-sander]

Diane Depression

[you-just-got-wormed]

Pat jumped off a trampoline and hurt my back

[link-the-feral-anon]

If we’re going for like an emergency kind of thing then

Janet Fractured Pinkie

[ironwoman359-writes]

Jerri Pinke Eye

[ironwoman359]

Keep reblogging things to the gosh darn writing sideblog, gdi, why is this so complicated

[basserdtwink-deactivated2019091]

Barbara ADHD

[crypticenbug]

Peggy no more anxious pills

[mostlyvoidpartlyplants]

Diane Dysphoria

[crimsonrush216]

Adele Suicide Attempt

[bonuslesbian]

Birgitta Gastritis

[bonuslesbian]

Thirsty

I just need to be ravished by a gorgeous butch to kick off 2019 in the best possible way

[radiqueer]

autogynephilia is a weird concept because like…quite a few nondysphoric cis women have it. some nonbinary people have it. it’s the clinical term for liking your own damn body. yet when trans women dare to like their own bodies, it’s an attack on cis womanhood and something to be demonized and medicalised. gotta love transmisogyny huh

[korrasera]

Just FYI, people have actually studied this professionally. By using the commonly accepted criteria for evaluating autogynephilia, one study found that 93% of cis women could be classified as autogynephiles. (source)

They created a survey scale called the Autogynephile Scale for Women, built from the questions used to study it in trans women. Using the common definition of autogynephilia, 93% of the respondents fit the diagnosis. Using a much more restrictive requirement of frequent arousal from multiple items on the scale, they still got back a 23% match rate.

So yeah.

It’s really important for us to talk about how autogynephilia isn’t actually a thing in its own right. It’s just someone inventing a word to talk about female sexuality in a way that shames and others trans women.

[daggers-drawn]

In particular the cishet man who wrote the book which put this theory forward (Ray Blanchard) is firstly a fucking sensationalist hack and secondly explicitly used it to attack trans lesbians while fetishizing (but still misgendering) straight trans women.

And like, wow a cishet man who makes money off antagonizing trans people and lesbians. What a surprise.

[uesp]

Today is the 23rd birthday of the UESP! Yes really, 23 years now. The UESP is three years older than Google, six years older than Wikipedia, and is eleven years older than Tumblr. To celebrate, we’re giving away one of our collectible TES coins. To enter for a chance to win, just reblog this post. A winner will be chosen in one day. Good luck!

[bonuslesbian]

Got a new a garter belt with thigh highs and a new dress (not pictured).

[das--gay]

I often forget some girls aren’t gay

[calamity-dyke]

me: what?

*long pause*

me: oh right. het…is..a thing. thanks op, i hate it.

[gaylyy]

pretty girl: makes eye contact with me

me:

[bonuslesbian]

Dreaming

I had a dream about someone I kinda admire here on Tumblr. It was a warm summer day in the dream. We were running from some asshole and I just acted nervously around her all the time and she eventually cornered me about it and I told her that I just never thought she would see me as a woman. She was nonchalant about it and kissed me and told me that I was a woman like no other. She, being a badass drop dead gorgeous cis lesbian, kind of gave me the best kind of validation in the dream. I don't need it but it was nice to receive it.

Validation through dreams is basically your subconscious giving you a big hug so I guess I should be thanking myself. Though I am sure that dream girl would validate me irl as well. Hopefully not with a kiss since I am very not single.

[comsic-hero]

I love her so much❤️

[bonuslesbian]

You: *post selfies every day*

Me, an intellectual: I don't post selfies because maybe I want my face to not matter, maybe my dysphoria makes it impossible to separate good from bad selfies. Maybe I want to rob my face of the power it holds over me.

Also me: *finally takes a cute selfie and posts it immediately*

[princesstigerbelle]

Me waking up around 2 in the afternoon: “Ok I really should get up for the day”

*10 minutes later*

[hayley566]

Sleepy bitch disease

[princesstigerbelle]

Me everyday honestly

[bonuslesbian]

it me

[ladygoldenhair-deactivated20210]

“How do you go back to being strangers with someone who has seen your soul?”

— A Question That Bleeds | Nikita Gill   (via seulray)

[bonuslesbian]

At first, she was everything I could think of. A stabbing pain followed every thought. I was wrecked with guilt and anxiety. Regret was mixed with self doubt. For a while I believed I'd never get over her. I felt like a part of me was gone. Maybe it was.

When you're sleepless at night, trying forget her touch, her face, and everything else, the memories of her might choke you.

But time passes and even though everything moves slower to you, time is moving forward. And every second moves you in a direction away from her. Eventually you forget her laugh, the way her hair looked after a shower, if she was left handed or right. All these things that seemed important, like fundamental truths to the universe becomes forgotten trivia irrelevant from a different time. And you change with time becoming a new universe, for someone else to explore. Time will not heal you so much as replace you bit by bit. Until you are a different person. And the same is true for her. And then you're strangers again.

[radiantsapphics]

Me, ignoring all my responsibilities and thinking about girls: it’s what Sappho would want

[caterpie]

[bonuslesbian]

Me when a pretty girl smiles at me

[aspidities]

I find it funny that a few of my friends like to kinkshame ABO and then they have relationships with men. That's like the only thing worthy of kinkshaming tbh..

Wooooowww wooowww wowww

That’s….illuminating. I’m not about to kinkshame a bisexual person for being bisexual, however. It’s just interesting because you’d think that would be a place of more openness to gender and sexual playfulness in fic. Huh.

PSA, kiddos: don’t be a dick when you are transparently an asshole

[bonuslesbian]

Was it unclear that I was sarcastic? I was. To me however I have been kinkshamed by these people because it makes me a bad feminist because I like to be spanked by other women and stuff like that “because it reproduces patriarchy” but having sex with men is fine. I was sarcastic because I am sick and tired of being called a bad feminist because of my kinks. So being sarcastic and bitter is my only reaction.

[aspidities]

Oh you’re all good! I got you. I was just adding that in there to be clear, but your point is totally agreed on. I gotchuuu

I am so so damn sick of this gatekeeping feminism shit. Whether it’s TERFs trying to pretend they speak for me, or socially aggressive commenters refusing to take a hint, I am so done. I have kinks. I write about them. It does not make me a bad person, nor does it make me, a rape survivor, a bad feminist when I write fantasy scenarios of dubious consent. Conversely, I think division over what people consider ‘problematic’ and this whole ‘call out’ culture is bullshit and it causes more issues than it solves, by refusing to give people any benefit of the doubt.

I think sarcasm and bitterness is the only way some of us can react at this point. Ya know? Ugh.

[aspidities]

I find it funny that a few of my friends like to kinkshame ABO and then they have relationships with men. That's like the only thing worthy of kinkshaming tbh..

Wooooowww wooowww wowww

That’s….illuminating. I’m not about to kinkshame a bisexual person for being bisexual, however. It’s just interesting because you’d think that would be a place of more openness to gender and sexual playfulness in fic. Huh.

PSA, kiddos: don’t be a dick when you are transparently an asshole

[bonuslesbian]

Was it unclear that I was sarcastic? I was. To me however I have been kinkshamed by these people because it makes me a bad feminist because I like to be spanked by other women and stuff like that "because it reproduces patriarchy" but having sex with men is fine. I was sarcastic because I am sick and tired of being called a bad feminist because of my kinks. So being sarcastic and bitter is my only reaction.

[esperlesbian]

[bonuslesbian]

my new favourite game