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[thedailyheadmate]

headmate who is 50 years old

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[444purity]

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[pocketmilo]

transition into spring 💉🍀✨

this months patreon rewards

[chipellini]

soft pink fawn plush png

[kosmogrl]

oooh I get it it’s always gonna be because of the environment I grew up in

[skulkofroses]

System roles are like a lot of labels, they're useful as self-descriptors to help both yourself and others better understand you but, when applied as rigid, prescriptive boxes that all must fit neatly into, they become unhelpful at best and often harmful and restrictive.

[voxthenpdicon]

Btw you DO put people at risk of suicide if you intentionally make people with NPD crash. You are not saving people from "abusers" you are putting vulnerable people at risk. Do not do this. "How to isolate a narcissist" "How to cut off a narcissists supply" "How to kill a narcissists ego" stuff like that is putting people who are already traumatized at a high risk.

[ugly-anarchist]

I think I've spoken about the term "Salmacian" in the past and even recommended it and I think I need to revoke those statements.

(Screenshots taken from Salmacian.org)

So apparently Salmacian was originally coined to literally mean "transitioning to intersex" and the term itself is taken directly from the myth of Hermaphroditus, the origin of the slur for intersex people. And though efforts have apparently been made to distance itself from the original definition it still takes from the same source that birthed the slur that's used against us in the modern age.

Not to mention the fact that the Salmacian flag (at least the one used here) is incredibly similar to the intersex flag and clearly takes inspiration from it.

Also included on their site is this:

The only people who wouldn't be assigned afab/amab are intersex people but all intersex people are forcibly assigned a sex at birth. I don't fully know what they're trying to say here but this seems like a misuse of agab terminology or an intentional spreading of the myth that intersex people aren't assigned male/female at birth.

Like I get that there needs to be a label to fill the niche of "person who wants a body that doesn't fit the typical idea of male/female" or "person who wants a mixed genital set" or whatever but this is steeped in intersexism and directly takes from the intersex community. Specifically it takes directly from the origin of the slur that's used against us.

This is literally just one step removed from saying "I want to transition to be intersex"

[ugly-anarchist]

Something not mentioned by this website is that Salmacis didn't just fall in love with Hermaphroditus and wish to be "one" with him but in the original myth she assaults Hermaphroditus after he rejects her and they are fused together against his will. Also in another/to my knowledge most renditions of the myth Hermaphroditus was born that way and it wasn't fusing with Salmacis that caused him to look like that.

Ironically, this is a very accurate allegory to the way perisex trans people treat intersex people. Trans people want to be intersex, we reject them, they fetishize us and claim we're being transphobic and then forcibly mush our communities together until our individual identity is erased.

You can't make this shit up

[this-is-varsexism-transphobia]

Friendly reminder to use the following terms instead:

-Duomorphic (if you're referring to transitioning into mixed sex traits). Salmacian and aphrodisian are both rooted in the h-slur mythology.

-Multisex (if you're referring to transitioning to multiple different sexes).

-Sexnull (if you're referring to transitioning to null sex traits)

-Xenosex (if you're referring to transitioning to a sex not naturally seen within humans.)

-Altersex (if you're referring to transitioning to mixed, null, or xenine sex traits.)

[saint-amongst-men]

"I think I might have NPD" "No you don't dw :) people with NPD never question if they have NPD because they never self-refle-"

[light-y-228]

Insecurity is. Literally one of the hallmark symptoms of NPD. (It’s a very badly-named disorder.)

Every NPD-haver is insecure. Some of us are less self-aware and/or better at hiding it.

[jellycatsdaily]

Jellycat of the Day | 28th March 2026

↳ Jackadee Pangolin | 2021 Retired Design

“Got any chocolate-covered ants?”

[smokinghorse]

Burnout is a jockey and he's riding me to death.

[kitschycritter]

rainbow snoopys red, orange, yellow, green, blue, purple

[rainsandrainsand]

[stonathantruther]

deactivated post archive #5

"I often talk about reality checking and going along with it when helping someone deal with delusions, but I felt as if I didn’t really make it clear to what I meant when I said it.

Recently I saw a post similar to “how to sneakily give your delusional friend a reality check when they told you not to” and honestly, that’ll just make us lose trust for you. Because we can tell when you do that."

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[meanbuddhist]

i have got to give up the desire to be understood. lol

[dakota-wuz-heer]

Every time

[kimthemangoguy]