Thats Not Very Cisgender Of You

I'm too old to be here. Hope you like yugioh.

[boredouji]

being demisexual is like sitting at a buffet full of food and watching everybody else gorge themselves, and they keep asking you why you’re not eating and insisting that the food is delicious, but it all looks entirely unappetizing to you and you can’t bring yourself to eat any of it.

and then you start really getting to know this one particular kind of food. you learn how it’s prepared, the history behind it, what ingredients are typically used, etc., and you start to think “yeah you know what I think I could eat this.”

but by that point someone else has taken the food because you didn’t eat it fast enough.

[shubbabang]

[crabussy]

every time a trans man who does not want to be called a twink gets called a twink I will personally go out into the world and rend 1 parked car to shreds with my teeth. cut it out

[crabussy]

walk with me for a moment. let's think for a sec. I'm not upset but I do want people to understand. do you think assigning a label associated with feminine features, hairlessness, skinniness/lack of muscle tone, and high pitched voices is something that most trans men would feel comfortable being associated with? why or why not?

[crabussy]

of COURSE there are trans men who don't mind it, or trans men who actively enjoy being called a twink. but I am not hairless by choice. I WANT fat and muscles and body hair and a deep voice. and a lot of trans men that get called twinks DO HAVE THESE THINGS, yet they get called "twink" anyway. why do you think that might be?

it's okay if you've done this in the past. maybe just check in before you call your friend or acquaintance something with so many specific, potentially disheartening associations!

[crabussy]

I wonder if the inverse occurs with trans women getting called "butch" too. because there are many wonderful butch trans women!!! but if you call trans women "butches" for traits like short hair or body hair despite otherwise feminine presentation, maybe think about why that is? is she really a butch? or is that just her body? just ask first!

nonbinary people too. are they really "masc presenting" or is that just their body? are they really "fem presenting" or is that just their body? let's all try to be a bit more cognisant of the language we use to describe the trans people in our lives, yeah? [: it's worth thinking about. don't worry yourself into a hole about it, of course! but it's something to check every now and then.

[byjove]

everybody: you’ve got to advocate for yourself in medical settings!

medical professionals when a patient advocates for themselves in a medical setting (x100 if that patient is a part of any minority): damn. you’re a hypochondriac crazy bitch who has every mental illness and is seeking every narcotic in existence. that’s the only reason you’d be disappointed in the care you’re receiving here. in retaliation, we will be even less helpful and less sympathetic. our jobs are hard. people are dying. we don’t have time to deal with anyone who is slightly inconvenient for us.

[ryebreadgf]

[fudamnshi]

for me to be known is to be humiliated Lowkey

[maxmorkson]

Happy Pride, bite a transphobe today 💙

[elierlick]

There is still time. It's never too late to transition

[vyrsm-txt]

I’m sure dozens of people have already made this post, but I haven’t seen one cross my dash yet, so—

Happy Pride to everyone on the AroAce spectrum who might feel deviant even amongst our peers cuz our relationship with romance, sex, and / or kink is not black and white :’)

Happy Pride to arospec people who have some interest in dating, having significant others, or enjoying rituals / activities society deems as “romantic”

Happy Pride to aspec people who have some interest in sex, in kink, in feeling sexually desired, in enjoying the physical sensation or emotional intimacy of sexual pleasure

Happy Pride to aspec people with high libidos who feel out of place in the discourse

Happy Pride to folks who are demi-, grey-, flux-, quoi- or anywhere else in between an AroAce and allo identity

Happy Pride to folks who are aego- or litho- or stone or who otherwise feel attraction / arousal, or want to be the focus of someone else’s attraction / arousal, only under certain circumstances

Happy Pride to people who may not even be AroAce, but whose relationships with romance, sex, and / or kink are complicated enough for you to identify with AroAce experiences

Happy Pride to everyone with hangups or trauma revolving around romance, sex, and /or kink, which makes engaging with such things feel like a complicated, Sisyphean mess

Happy Pride and I hope you all have a wonderful month!!

🧡💛🤍🩵💙

[millennium-sketchbook]

He’s warning you

Based on this

[rocketbirdie]

bonus scribbly

[tikysplickytok]

(via poonchmooncher)

[xenoskulls]

FEELING! LIKE A! PSYCHIC! WOUND!

[miyukiko]

[kyuxhtsyu]

[ennunanaiurov]

I am, once again, in my Yu-Gi-Oh phase. Then again, when am I not.

[curioscurio]

ads these days are so sensitive to being tapped like darling my fingers barely brushed you and youre already opening yourself for me... well close those damn legs. dont make me get the taser