I wish I was a Xander hater, and don’t get me wrong I see the vision, but I physically cannot hate this man. His friendship with Buffy and Willow means so much to me. Truly hand in unloveable hand. Him and Buffy being so terrible at conflict resolution so they end up yelling at half the time but loving each other anyway. And then Willow turns into someone neither he nor Buffy can recognise, and Buffy comes back from the dead wrong, but he’s still Xander and he still loves them :(((. I love Xander destroying everything he touches, his implied family abuse, the way he feels like a failure at everything, his insane amount of Hawaiian shirts, how he and Buffy bonded over sucking at high school, how much he loves his girls. I love Xander Harris guys I’m sorry I do.
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