actually, there isn't anything to discuss about the argument in the car because the narrative has already told us that j*nathan was completely in the wrong. this scene is positioned directly after nancy's private breakdown in the bathroom and later admission of guilt in front of mike. the show itself is telling us that she's blaming herself. she needs reassurance, A DAMN HUG, anything. her way of coping is throwing herself right back in the action, which of course is necessary at the moment, but she still hasn't processed that trauma. that needs to happen for her to stop internalising everything. j*nathan's behaviour proves that he can't be the one to help her through that. he's given up.
a lot of you still aren't getting that these characters aren't real people, whatever is shown on screen has a PURPOSE. it reminds me again of that popular parallel of everlark and stancy. what nancy needs isn't the raging fire to fight monsters ("stick to the plan") she has plenty of that herself, but the dandelion in the spring ("the hospital is on the way, maybe we could bring nance flowers"). the remembrance of who they started this fight for: love.













