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don't let being born a girl stop you from being the man your father never was

#no because i find myself wanting an armband tattoo (like he has) and i think OH FUCK IM BECOMING MY FATHER #but its in such a harmless way #i wont be a raging narcissist like him. i Might have similar style. oh noooo how awful its almost like i have his dna or something.#lmao.

onceuponawhine

Your maternal grandfather:

Fuck that dude

Meh (leaning negative)

Meh (leaning positive)

Love that dude

I don't know her

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onceuponawhine

Your paternal grandfather

Fuck that dude

Meh (leaning negative)

Meh (leaning positive)

Love that dude

I don't know her

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#both of my grandfathers are practically strangers to me.#my dad's dad was definitely racist and never left much of an impression on me.#my mom's dad is chill but i know lore that makes me wonder... anyways he's cool enough i just am not close to him.

what-even-is-thiss

I love all my main characters equally. *closes closet door to hide the shrine to one character in particular*

what-even-is-thiss

I love people in the tags talking about their oc blorbos from their brains that I have no context for. We all have favorite children.

byjove

And on yesterday’s topic of personal grooming, at the risk of sounding like a looksmaxxer, you really do feel better when you feel like you look better. Putting the slightest bit of effort into your appearance can do wonders for your mental health. There is a reason every single culture on earth has grooming and styling standards and cultural forms of personal adornment and (often) bodily modification. I’m autistic and chronically ill and depressed and it is something I’ve experienced first hand. Not having the strength or desire to put effort into my appearance is demoralizing and then I’ll get dressed and style my hair and put on jewelry and a little glam rock makeup and realize it does make me feel better. These are things in my control, my appearance, things that I can change and tweak to make me feel better about myself even when the changes run counter to societal expectations and trends. There are a lot of men who feel like they are ugly (or have a sense of toxic masculinity that makes them feel like they shouldn’t groom themselves because it is somehow only for women) who would feel better if they just got a haircut and a new shirt. Not only is practicing basic hygiene when going out in public and dressing appropriately for events common courtesy but it does make you feel better about yourself. Get that haircut, get that tattoo, get that piercing, wear something weird.

madeleineengland

They are even better 🌒

fairycosmos

cradling the em dash in my hands what the fuck have they done to you

quietwingsinthesky

it's wild how once you decide that actually someone being fat isn't the scariest, worst possible scenario thing in the world. how so much fearmongering just becomes so absurd and so obvious. from how every conservative comic artist draws their leftist caricatures as fat people to that one family member who won't stop whispering about how complete strangers must be terrible people when all they're using to justify that assumption is their weight to a billion weight loss ads on tv that show you a completely normal looking person and then insist that they're unacceptable to live in society without this miracle drug that'll completely fuck up their body to maybe lose a few pounds. this is crazytown. this is the bad place. what the fuck are you all talking about. it's just being fat.

laterkiss

i am like the breadloser of the family

f1nnasaurus0

i lubv my boyfriend

i wish i could make everything better for him:(

i-cant-be-trusted-alone

i think there's something beautiful in having the most depraved thoughts about someone but at the end of the day just being near them and hearing their laugh and seeing their smile is enough