my best friend ditched me because i was too much to handle. they said i was stressing them out. i asked them daily if they were okay, if they had anything they wanted to talk about, if it was my fault they were being so distant- they always refused and just said theyd been sleeping a lot. i still dont know what i did wrong. i lost the best friend ive ever had and i dont even know why, but i cant stop wondering if maybe id just been insensitive and overlooked something. its killing me tbh
I think this kind of things depends on maturity. you can’t rely on people to treat you fairly, and that sucks. it might have been that you did nothing truly wrong but they’re just not patient or gracious or forgiving enough to extend kindness to you. maybe they felt like you cared about them too much? all my best friends/fps have felt uneasy because I just adore them and want to be with them all the time and ask them the questions you were... some people don’t know how good it is to have someone adore them.
regardless, I’m sorry they did that to you! if they’re not willing to give you an explanation then they’re not worth the tears. you can find someone better.
