Cut My Life Into Pieces, This Is My Last Braincell

Uh Hi. I'm Ruby. They/Them I like Etrian Odyssey, IEYTD, Ace Attorney, Persona, and Sims. I now know what Mutuals are and they're awesome, and I've been on tumblr for years, but if you wanna interact I don't mind! I like talking about Hyperfixations.

[spoiky]

It's usually Yosuke that yearns pathetically, but I think Yu should too, as a treat

[teaboot]

I hate that thing some people do where it's like. "I left my wallet on the table to see if you'd say anything" or "I wanted to see if you'd wash the car if I stopped doing it"

Cause like

I dont know about anyone else

But I am perpetually hovering three inches above the strong subconscious belief that everyone knows what they're doing at all times except me, so if you change your normal patterns and I notice, then I will assume it is an intentional choice with a thought-out plan behind it and I will avoid interfering

And if I don't notice, because I won't, because why would I, because not much bothers me and if you don't say anything to indicate you are bothered then how would I KNOW

[teaboot]

Alternatives to experimenting on me like a lab rat when you suspect me of being inconsiderate:

"I feel like I'm the only one who does this chore. Can we start taking turns?"

"I'd like you to ask me how I'm doing more often."

"It bothers me when this area stays messy so long. Can you do X when Y happens?"

"I feel like the onus is on me to initiate X, and it's wearing me down. Could you try making the first move more? Like 3-4 times a week?"

"I'm feeling upset right now and I'd like to spend some time with you."

"When X happens, I feel like you're taking my work for granted."

"I'm feeling neglected. Could you do X?"

"I'm burnt out and need help."

"I feel like I'm the only one putting effort into X."

"Do you notice this?"

"Are you bothered by this?"

"I am bothered when this happens."

"X habit of yours bothers me."

"When X is like this, I feel bad. Can you [action] when you notice X?"

[hug-your-face]

[brain-is-a-toaster]

I dunno if it's just the people I know or not but man there are so many of my irl friends I need to send this to. Not because they do the examples listed above, but because if I had a dollar for every time I told them "have you tried communicating X to Y" I'd be a rich person.

Words are hard, I get that. But sometimes going up to your partner/family/friend/whoever and saying "Hey, I don't have the best words to describe this, but I'm going to try" and then ACTUALLY COMMUNICATING does wonders. Be upfront. Be Honest. Because people don't read minds and sometimes tact hurts more than it helps.

Ok I'm off my soapbox now thank you for reading if you did.

[platoriagf]

run in here and come get yall juice

[terfs dont interact, also: dehyrdate]

[pixification]

[sleepywillowo0o]

@stormstar0-blog @hh-pjofan101

[hydro-homies]

[waxworm-moved]

[sepulchretide]

[rethmyc]

[behindnightmaresanddreams]

[splodey-goat]

[scp-threats-is-back]

[usernameichoseonawhim]

I love how tumblr users play with Jorge I mean jpegs not Jorge who the fuck is Jorge

[scp-threats-is-back]

[slaughterednsfw-wav]

Spiders jpg

[fawkesheart12]

Woah dude

[bludraws094]

[unyieldingsilence]

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[malicious-screaming-sentinel]

[evilfuckignskeleton]

[theinternetarchive]

I just want to let you guys know Cornell's entire library is open access (no permissions required) and there are (shocker) many books...

[uhhhhmanda]

76,474 books at time of reblog!!!

[mawofthemagnetar]

Cold take but all languages are beautiful actually. Every single one. Every single human language on earth is a collection of stories interwoven into the very fabric of the words that are spoken.

“Oh but this language sounds scary-“ have you heard a child speak it while pointing at a butterfly?

“Oh but this language sounds silly-“ have you heard someone’s grandma recite a recipe with such practiced ease it comes off as poetry?

“Oh but this language is really weird-“ and yours isn’t? Everyone’s language is weird, dumbass, it came free with your fucking humanity.

Every tongue that is spoken is a work of art. Every language a unique window into the world.

Isn’t it wonderful?

[joy-and-whimsy-official]

Joy and whimsy detected! This post is joyful and whimsical!

[beardedmrbean]

[theman]

I GOT A FUCKING RAISE THE POTATO WORKED WTF

[tattooedzombigirl]

This potato works. Every. Fucking. Time.

[secondlina]

Reblogging because it’s a damn potato and I want to encourage people to assume potatoes are magical.

[flygutzz]

imma do anything atp why not

[brain-is-a-toaster]

(for the shipping post)

You're not gonna know who this is at ALL I don't even know if I've told you about him, but in my groups DND campaign our guild is run by this guy Terrance Puckett. And despite being the head of one of richest families in Wraithmore, he's a total sweetheart and the biggest softie. He spends a lot of time trying to return artifacts that were stolen by his ancestors, make things right, being.... Not the sharpest tool in the shed...

*flashback to the fish incident*

But he's trying.

Anyway I just think you guys would really get along.

YOU HAVE TOLD ME LEGENDS OF THIS MANS

We would be absolute besties

[null-the-void-monarch-offical]

I have, like, 10 followers so i don’t expect this to do anything but i *am* bored so…

[orangeocelotmartyn]

Gem: I did see my favorite hate comment ever today though? I-I think it might be my fav-my favorite hate comment. And--it-it was that I'm turning Hermitcraft gay. (she laughs) It-it gave me a-a very good laugh. It--they, they meant it as hate, so genuinely, but I did not take it that way.

Gem: Like--(giggling) I. Find myself in situations so frequently, where the men are roleplaying kissing each other, and if I could stop them, I would, okay. I would be more homophobic, I would stop them! I can't! They keep going, I (through laughter) I don't know what it is.

Gem: But it's not me, it's-it's th--nobody's holding a knife to them right now and making them do that. (laughs)

Gem: They're just like it. I don't-it's not me. (laughs) God, it was one of my favorite comments I've gotten. I-I immediately sent it to Grian. (laughs)

Gem: (eight seconds of silence) I'll take credit, if I-if somebody has to take credit, I can. (laughs) But I don't think, I don't think it's me. (five seconds of silence, then, laughter) Entry (? she says a Twitch chatter's name here) thank you for the twenty-three months, I haven't, but I'll look into it. I have heard--well, I've heard of Project Hail Mary, actually--

Gem: I should read that, I have heard a lot about it. (six seconds of silence, then reading a comment) "It's not you." Yeah, I don't think it's me, unfor-the men are just like that. They-they're-they-they're like it. Already. I don't know. They-they came like it. I didn't--it wasn't season eight that that started.

[venus-star13]

Reblog if you’re polyamorous, support polyamorous people, or think polyamorous people and relationships are valid

[lilythelitten]

Lunar’s post alerted me to the fact that Murdle Heist now has a cover!

This is stylish as hell, I love it. Also, is it just me, or does the border kinda look like the lesbian flag? :P

But, like. Upside down.

Incidentally…checking Barnes & Noble also revealed a new thing.

It

I

It

DEFICTIONALIZED

MAROT DECK

REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE—

[aquato-blog]

getting a note on a super old post

[estel-and-agape]

[possibly-emu]

reblog to slap op with some paper in the wind

[appystruda]

Gem said that giggs dnd is currently going to be a one-shot!

(And that she hopes it can eventually turn into something more)

[appystruda]

Character creation stream is on Jan 30th, The one shot is Feb 1st, and Pix is the dm!!

The players are gem, scar, grian, and impulse

[brain-is-a-toaster]

MY MOM N I ARE FUCKIN SCREAMING AJDNDOFNEODNEK WE'RE SO BACK WE'RE SO HECKIN BACK LESSGO

[catchymemes]

[not100bees]

People on Tumblr love sharing information about themselves no matter how asinine it is. And I'm the same way. Everybody tell me what the last thing you drank was.

[fence-time]

Wels is going through it on twitter dot com,,,

[asksloyxp]

Reblog to make Welsknight look up Yuri on the internet. (this could fix him) ((Happy New Years to Welsknight))