brick by brick.

this blog will be archived soon. you can find the new blog at wylanvanextra. thank you and see you there.

[breakerkaz]

blog moved.

now can be found on @wylanvanextra. ♥

[breakerkaz]

blog moved.

now can be found on @wylanvanextra. ♥

[breakerkaz]

blog moved.

now can be found on @wylanvanextra. ♥

[breakerkaz]

blog moved.

now can be found on @wylanvanextra. ♥

[breakerkaz]

blog moved.

now can be found on @wylanvanextra. ♥

[breakerkaz]

that moment when you wanna archive and you still have 155 things on queue.

anyway, to those interested i’m moving to @wylanvanextra ♥♥♥

[sieunies]

skkamm did that and i’m not okay

[sincerelysansa]

Six levels to climb in the dark with her hands slippery from sweat and the fires of hell burning below, with rope weighing her down and no net to catch her. Climb, Inej.

[ithelpstodream]

[405blazeitt]

i hate the trope of kids giving their favorite stuffed animal to a younger child as a sign of compassion and coming of age, as if this is something that should be expected of kids as they grow up

im 22 and i dont care who you are you’ll have to pry my ikea shark out of my cold dead hands

[dotdollplushies]

I can’t remember the name of the study, but there was a theory, supported by pretty good evidence, that if you have your comforter, be it blanket, plush, pacifier, whatever, taken away when you’re not ready to give it up, even if you’re a dinky little kid, it can have really long lasting effects. People who kept their comforters into adulthood were less likely to smoke, drink or do drugs, tended to have better family relations and home lives etc, while those that saw their comforter removed or destroyed were more likely to be drawn to more serious “comforts” elsewhere. The more extreme the removal, the more extreme the result. Typically.

We learn at our own pace to make and break connections and emotional ties, and the situation is forced upon us, we seek comfort. But whoa wait, you can’t possibly have comfort anymore, you’re five. You’re a big kid now.

So when parents are forcing you to “grow up” by tearing the only comfort in the world from you, they could actually be messing you up big time.

[star-anise]

In psychology they’re called “transitional objects” and they help the neurobiological process of helping children learn to internalize the experience of being loved and cared for, which is an essential part of learning to regulate your emotions.  They are REALLY important.

[imnotevilimjustwrittenthatway]

I wonder what it means psychologically that I’ve started getting a few more for myself?

[star-anise]

Well, there’s a process we call “re-parenting yourself” where you give yourself the love you missed out on in childhood, and thereby start to heal the pain you’ve carried since then.  And using childhood comfort objects can be part of that.

[frankoceanvevo]

[alecblushed]

some of my fav cast tweets from 2.15    [all episodes]

bonus:

[bilesandthesourwolf-deactivated]

‘Mom, are you here?’ Ronan’s voice was different when he spoke to either his mother or Matthew. It was Ronan, unperformed. No. Ronan, unprotected. This tone reminded Adam of that unshielded smile from before. Don’t play, he told himself. This is not a game. But it didn’t feel like a game, if he was being honest. Adrenaline whispered in his heart.

i absolutely cannot right now (via bilesandthesourwolf)

#i think about this a lot #this imo is like. the only thing that reads even remotely as ‘adam acknowledging his sexuality’ to me #adam potentially being unsure of where is attraction is and knowing ronan is not someone to Experiment (‘play’) with #but also in general adam was dealing with a lot of ‘learning to love’ stuff so #yeah? #idk. (via @gaybluesargent)

[ttoya]

[6ofcrowsoncrack]

The Crows as shitty tumblr wordart gifs

Kaz :

Inej:

Wylan:

Nina:

Jesper:

Matthias:

Bonus:

Kuwei:

[kazheartbrekker]

me, talking about myself:

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me, talking about how amazing six of crows is:

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[yossiacar]

me