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★ϟFlorro 🌝 Effeminate Futurist, Poet, Student and Antifascist Queer Punk .. the Human League invented music x #Me

[brianenos]

I haven’t been active on here since like late 2017 but a couple of days ago I was inspired to remake! So I’m now over at @sportyshorts pls come and follow me there and we can continue our loving friendships!!

[brianenos]

I know you from uni xD

:o ! Who are u?? Which uni??? 😎

[brianenos]

*sings at you badly* Im surprised that you’ve never been told before, that you’re lovely, and you’re perfect, and somebody wants you. I’m surprised that you’ve never been told before, that you’re priceless and you’re precious, even when you are not new!

this is so cute 😭  thank u!!!! i googled the lyrics and am listening to the song now 👀

[brianenos]

Hey dude I heard you were feeling kinda shitty and I just wanted to say you're a really cool guy, you have such a good fashion sense and look super handsome 110% of the time. Also your poetry is brilliant, I love the words you write. You're just a really handsome and talented guy and I hope you feel better soon, cause you're awesome and deserve good stuff. Take care, mate ☇

This is so lovely thank you thank you <3 I really need some kind words at the moment, it’s so nice to be reminded of the things people appreciate about me. 💖💖💖

[brianenos]

Do you like doggos? I’ve got some cute doggos for you Hope you’ll feel better soon

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@stroyent I have no idea when u submitted this cos I didn’t get a notification but omg thank you <3 <3 <3 

[misangremellama]

Reminder for parents that though you may be struggling, it is never appropriate to use your child as your therapist/counselor. It’s unhealthy for the both of you. 

[emmxieee]

Can I ask why? I’m genuinely curious

[misangremellama]

There’s a few reasons as to why its wrong.

For one, a kid is not equipped to handle a parent’s problems. I’m not saying to never express your feelings or say that you’re having a problem to a child. That can be healthy. But to use them to just dump on is too much. Children just aren’t equipped to deal with the heaviness of adult problems, especially if they’re already going through things themselves.

Two, the inherent power imbalance makes it really uncomfortable. Your child isn’t your friend, they’re your child. Even if they can offer advice, this sort of thing can become like a role reversal. They also would have a hard time separating themselves from it when it becomes too much. A lot of parents feel entitled to their childrens’ time and space, so the children can become overburdened with no reprieve and no way to express that this isn’t their job. 

There’s probably more and better ways to explain this, but that’s my two cents on this.

[angstriddentrashhuman]

Because I was the oldest child when my parents marriage was collapsing both of them used me to vent about the other, forcing me to justify their negative feelings about a person that I loved by virtue of their place in my life. At 10 years old I was attempting to negotiate the workings of an adult relationship that had never worked and validate their emotions without being harmful to the other. All the while I was deteriorating into an even more depressed and anxious reclusive child, losing friends and and missing out on normal experiences. I felt like I was responsible for the survival of their relationship, above my own well-being I had to figure out how to save them from divorce, from splitting the family up. I never felt like I had the right to tell them I couldn’t handle it. So I shoved everything down and became weirdly mature, too aware of the fact that I was an adult even if I didn’t want to be. Now I have severe anxiety, depression, and PTSD and I can’t even keep a job. I’m 28. Don’t do this to your kids. Please.

[tinydramatist]

^^^^^^

[peachtearsb]

i understand why van gogh cut off his ear and shot himself in the middle of an open field like i get it now

[chuckdrawsthings]

🍌❌

[emilysidhe]

Baby It’s Cold Outside discourse is the same as Macbeth discourse. 

[dont-spoop-yourself]

Explain?

[emilysidhe]

OK, so one of the big debates in Macbeth involves the scene in which Lady Macbeth talks Macbeth into killing King Duncan.  People debate strenuously over whether it’s a scene of Lady M pressuring her reluctant husband into it, or whether it’s a scene of her sensing, due to their emotional intimacy, that this murder is something her husband secretly wants and has partially internally decided to do, and is arguing him into it in order to help him give himself permission to do it, in the same way that people see their loved ones wavering over the dessert menu and jump in with things like, “Go on, get the cheesecake, it’s your birthday!”  Readers and scholars disagree strenuously about this - we even studied an incident in college in which two 18th century illustrators attended the same performance and happened to draw the scene the day after, producing two images that advanced opposite interpretations even though they’d seen the exact same actors do the exact same performance.  It’s a big deal.

In the same way, the Baby, It’s Cold Outside discourse is about whether this is a song about sexual harassment, or whether it’s a woman singing about how she wishes she could spend the night with the guy she just had an excellent date with if only the neighbors wouldn’t talk, and him responding, “Stay, baby, it’s cold out!  No one could expect you to go home in this!”

[ms-demeanor]

I really don’t know (baby stab his side) King Duncan’s a bro (baby cut through his hide) I like him a lot (That decrepit old sot?) This plan ain’t so great (But what a king you’d make!)

The guards might worry (Darling, do it in a hurry!) His sons will rush the door (So knock them on the floor.)

I’m not such a knave (Bash his head with a stave) But I’d be a good king (Now you’re starting to think)

The dukes might all talk (But their chatter means naught) Say, love, what do you mean (You’d make such a king)

I simply must go (baby cut through his hide) There’s a war on you know (baby cut through his hide)

But what of his wife? (And what of his life?) It feels like bad luck (But that don’t mean much)

I’ve got a bad premonition (And I’ve got a mission) But that’s just superstition (My love, you’re a vision)

The witches said I’d rule (If they lied they were cruel) So baby let’s stab Stab his siiiiide!

[thottavius-rex]

[brianenos]

Marriage equality just got passed where I live 🙏🏳️‍🌈

[patrocles]

🎉WE POPPIN THE BIGGEST BOTTLES YALL 🎉

[susandotcom-deactivated20210224]

seeing peoples dead names is fucked up because its like. what the fuck. this is not you. this name is like a piece of garbage. if i had the power to i would dump this information into a sewage pipe

[innocentwaif-blog]

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[aurevoir-mes-amis-deactivated20]

there’s a certain magic to this post

[ursaminorjim]

[transstudent]

What can intersex look like? “My intersex variation is gonadal dysgenesis. I found out at age 15 when I still hadn’t gotten a period. I have XY chromosomes and I have to take estrogen to help my bone health because I was born without ovaries.” “My intersex variation is congenital adrenal hyperplasia (CAH). I found out at birth. CAH is one of few intersex variations with additional medical considerations, because it affects the body’s ability to produce stress hormones. I take testosterone and I identify as transgender.” “My intersex variation is complete androgen insensitivity syndrome (CAIS). That means my body developed in a way that is “tipically” female, but I was born with XY chromosomes and internal testes instead of ovaries. My body is insensitive to testosterone, so it converts it to estrogen instead.“ “My intersex variation is parcial androgen insensitivity syndrome (PAIS). That means I only partially responded to testosterone in the womb. (Because of this, people with PAIS may havve an ambiguous sex at birth.) My parents found out I have PAIS when I was born. I have XY chromosomes and I identify as transgender.” Doctors often encourage surgical removal for female-identified intersex people who have internal testes. However, this is NOT medically necessary and has more to do with society’s views on sex and gender. Removing hormone producing organs makes a person reliant on the medical industry for external hormones! Similar to other LGBT groups, intersex people struggle for bodily autonomy. We may have to fight against surgeries we don’t want.

Learn more from InterAct!

[targuzzler-deactivated20180224]

it is honestly the easiest thing in the fucking world to just go, “oh fuck i was really fucking dumb and insensitive for making that joke, im sorry to anyone i hurt with that and i wont do it again” if you care more about other people’s feelings than yourself