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I'd rather be in outer space 🛸
Jules of Nature
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he wasn't even looking at me and he found me

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JBB: An Artblog!

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i’m over at @agirlfromuncle
Important note to all Dracula fans - Coca-Cola was invented in 1886, and the story is set in 1897. This means you can authentically hint at coca-cola in any and all fanworks set around the book’s time period.
(not that it’s very impressive, since Dracula himself wouldn’t drink it, but certainly the American suitor can!)
Headcanon that Dracula’s rising irritation with the protagonists stems from the fact that he can’t drink Coke and they can.
Spread some love! We need it now more than ever.
Had to reboot the cuteness
how adorable!
Robert Vaughn, whose Napoleon Solo on NBC’s spy yarn The Man From Uncle set TV’s 1960s standard for suavity and crimebusting cool, died today after a brief battle with acute leukemia. H…
I’m gutted.
I have no words.
Due a URL change- the old ‘self care after rape: a masterlist’ is no longer useable. If you reblogged that one- the links don’t work, try this one instead.
The Basics:
What is Rape?/Types of Rape
Common Responses to Rape/Sexual Assault(ppt)
Survivors and the Doctors Office
Traumaversaries
Why You Aren’t Bad for Loving Your Abuser.
Teaching Consent
How to Talk About Trauma:
Talking About Trauma (ppt)
Talking About Trauma (to others)
What if they don’t believe me?
Processing New Information on Old Hurts.
If Not Rape, Then (On what to call it when you’re not ready to use the word rape)
Need Help With:
But How Do I Get Over It?
Reifying Happiness
Sleep
Nightmares
Dreams and Trauma: Frequently Asked Questions
Surviving the Holidays (ppt)
Overstimulated Nerves
Self-Injury (ppt)
Flashbacks (ppt)
Panic Attacks
Making Peace With the Emotion Monster
On Holding Anger for Attackers
Processing Emotions: Anger
Disordered Eating, What it is and What you can do about it.
Admitting Weakness
Hygiene
Regression
Self Invalidation
The But Series! (About various strands of Self Invalidation.)
Finding Coping Mechanisms that Work
Effective Alternative Communication
How To Tell Your Therapist - About Almost Anything
Planning to See An Abuser
The Follower Collaborative Series:
Coping With Flashbacks
Triggers:
I’m triggered- Now What?
More On Triggers
On Purposely Triggering Yourself
Getting Over Triggers
De-triggering Abuser Names.
Reclaiming a Space
Boundaries:
Boundaries (ppt)
Boundaries 101
Boundaries: How to set them
Survivor+Survivor: Boundaries
Self-Care:
What is Self Care Anyway? (ppt)
BACE Method
BACE Method (now with venn diagrams.)
Self Care When You Lack a Sense of Self
Interpersonal Self-Care
Emotional Self Care
Physical Self Care
How to Do Self Care When You Only Have A Little Bit of Time
Self Care For Cold Weather
Self Care + Trauma Work
Consent/sex:
Intimacy After Rape
Lets Talk Consent
Lets Talk Sex
Sexuality After Rape
Using Sex as Self Harm?
Teaching Consent
Posts about Suicide:
Talking about Suicide (why we want to blame the suicidal and why we shouldn’t)
Don’t Call Suicide Selfish
Suicidal Ideation
For Friends/Family/Partners of Survivors:
How to Help a Friend Who Has Been Raped.(ppt)
How to Help a Friend Who Has Been Through Trauma
Avoiding Awkward- How to talk about rape when we talk to survivors.(ppt)
Sometimes the easiest thing to say is the worst.
How to Listen to Trauma Stories
Being Family/Friends isn’t an excuse.
A Friend is Self Harming (ppt)
Comfort In. Complain Out.
What Can I Do?
Reality Checks
Why ‘Just Leave’ Just Doesn’t Work
Misc:
Acute Inpatient: A brief overview
Studying Tips
one of us is gonna have to change.
ooooh my god oh my god ohh god (h/t)
Let me get this straight.
1. She wanted an abortion. He didn’t. 2. She had baby and gave him what he wanted. 3. She was clear about her intentions the entire time. 4. She pays OVER the court ordered amount in child support. 5. He regrets the child and wishes she would just do what he wants. (Aka. Be with him and take care of the kid she never wanted in the first place).
… and SHE’S the deadbeat?? Lol. Ok.
this girl is a fucking saint. i would’ve stolen his wallet and gotten an abortion because i’m not going through pregnancy and child support for some abusive fuckboy.
And women get the stereotype of trying to “trap” men with pregnancy but I feel like dudes do this shit way more
He ain’t shit because he got the baby he wanted, just not how he wanted it. Good for her
This proves my idea that most men don’t even want kids, they just want a trophy to show off or prove they a “real man” cause they created a baby like “real men” supposed to. They want women to have the kid and take care of it, so all they have to do is show the baby off.
And women go through the same shit. They get pregnant and have kids, but then the father leaves cause they didn’t want kids. But when they go to get custody/child support they “gold diggers” and get hate for trying to tie a man down before he ready.
[A caption saying “This cat thinks you’re nice and you deserve kindness too.” in orange text pointing at a drawing of a blue cat.]
When I heard he passed, I immediately thought of his familiy. Then thought that someone was going to have to call David and tell him. Broke my heart twice in as many minutes. :(
Love Eternal
We are mortal, but Napoleon and Illya are forever.
I’m worried about losing you some day, Illya.
You idiot! We are for always, Napoleon.
From the beginning.
Through the middle.
But there is no end. We are forever.
Dorky dork <3333
just incase you all needed some cheering up, here’s our bobby being goofy :D
This website is like a suicide hotline but with text chat instead. I would appreciate it if you guys helped spread the word.
I’ve used this before and the person I was chatting with was very kind and helpful. I really could have hurt myself seriously if I hadn’t seen a tumblr post about the site… Phone calls and I don’t do so well together
friendly reminder that since a lot of people have decided xmas now starts right after halloween: not everyone celebrates xmas or wants to participate. don’t shame people for not participating in xmas traditions or blacklisting xmas. if people ask to not be wished a merry xmas, don’t wish them a merry xmas. don’t get upset if people express their frustrations with how christian normativity makes it impossible to escape this non-secular holiday for almost two months. if people want nothing to do with xmas, please just let them be.
“If autism isn’t caused by environmental factors and is natural why didn’t we ever see it in the past?”
We did, except it wasn’t called autism it was called “Little Jonathan is a r*tarded halfwit who bangs his head on things and can’t speak so we’re taking him into the middle of the cold dark forest and leaving him there to die.”
Or “little Jonathan doesn’t talk but does a good job herding the sheep, contributes to the community in his own way, and is, all around, a decent guy.” That happened a lot, too, especially before the 19th century.
Or, backing up FURTHER
and lots of people think this very likely,
“Oh little Sionnat has obviously been taken by the fairies and they’ve left us a Changeling Child who knows too much, and asks strange questions, and uses words she shouldn’t know, and watches everything with her big dark eyes, clearly a Fairy Child and not a Human Like Us.”
The Myth of the Changeling child, a human baby apparently replaced at a young age by a toddler who “suddenly” acts “strange and fey” is an almost textbook depiction of autistic children.
To this day, “autism warrior mommies” talk about autism “stealing” their “sweet normal child” and have this idea of “getting their real baby back” which (in the face of modern science) indicates how the human psyche actually does deal with finding out their kid acts unlike what they expected.
Given this evidence, and how common we now know autism actually is, the Changeling myth is almost definitely the result of people’s confusion at the development of autistic children.
Weirdly enough, that legend is now comforting to me.
Yeah. The autism epidemic is a myth.
The only geographical pattern for autism is that it clusters in wealthy areas with highly educated parents - who are more likely to hire a good pediatrician, so they’re not clusters of autism, they’re clusters of autism diagnosis.
The term “autism” was not actually coined until 1911, and then it was used in Switzerland to talk about a subset of schizophrenics. It wasn’t used in its current sense until the 1940s, and until the 1960s it was still thought autism and schizophrenia were connected.
So, obviously, there’s no chance of people who lived before that being diagnosed. Analysis of people’s lives has sometimes indicated the possibility - it’s pretty commonly believed that Einstein was on the spectrum from the way he dealt with/didn’t deal with other people.
Now, here’s a big part of it.
The two major researchers who established autism were Hans Asperger in Germany and Leo Kanner in the United States.
Asperger’s view of autism was much like how we see it now - a spectrum, with some people only showing a few traits and some showing more of them.
Kanner thought it was a rare condition AND he thought it was caused by bad parenting. And THAT is the view of autism and autistics and parents of autistics that dominated in the US for a long term. He framed it as psychosis, favored institutionalization (because they needed to be rescued from the bad parents who caused it). And because he said it was a rare and severe psychosis only the most severe cases were counted.
What’s actually happening now is that people are acknowledging that Asperger was right and Kanner was wrong and counting the people Asperger would have counted all along.
Hence, sudden autism epidemic.
That doesn’t exist.
On whether the kids would want to get a tattoo in the future [x]
WHERE ARE HIS PARENTS 😂