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If you get defensive over someone telling you that you are misusing labels (eg. saying two parents independently abusing their child = organized abuse, when those parents have zero involvement in any type of organized structure that would encourage the abuse) because you think your trauma is being "invalidated," you really need to take a step back and ask yourself why your immediate reaction to someone simply trying to correct your language is a threat.

Sure, it's entirely possible that person could be trying to invalidate you. But jumping to that conclusion is dangerous. Listen if your parents were independently abusive, and you go looking for resources for organized abuse survivors, you're not going to get very far in your recovery, because those resources are not going to be helpful for what YOU specifically went through.

You are ultimately hindering your own recovery by mislabelling your experiences, and for what? To feel more valid? Abuse is abuse. There are different types of abuse. You do not need to rank any type of abuse as "worse" or "better/less bad," but you DO need to understand that these experiences are categorically different, and there is a REASON resources for survivors are categorized like this. There is certainly something to be said about domestic abuse not being taken seriously, and at the same time, you do not need to impede the spaces of other survivors to prove your point. No one is trying to gatekeep. All you are doing is making it harder for you to get better.

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im on a spree, i edited more borders! pls credit when used/reposted, except for last three cause i only really recolored those :3

recolors & editing encouraged!! images used are from pinterest/web graphics found across resource sites

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　　misc colourful dividers ૮₍ ᴗ ̫ ᴗ ₎ა˖

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kaomoji / emoticon favicons!!

All drawn by me :P like/reblog if use!! Requests are open

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scrapped dividers

Ive gotten comments on how to use/download:

Instructions on how to use: (im on mobile) click and hold the divider you want to download and a menh should pop up to save image, then it’ll be in your photos gallery. For non mobile devices google “how to download image for (insert device)” and done!

these are f2u no credits needed at all. Especially since it says scrapped on the title..