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at some point you have to realize that you actually have to read to understand the nuance of anything. we as a society are obsessed with summarization, likely as a result of the speed demanded by capital. from headlines to social media (twitter being especially egregious with the character limit), people take in fragments of knowledge and run with them, twisting their meaning into a kaleidoscope that dilutes the message into nothing. yes, brevity is good, but sometimes the message, even when communicated with utmost brevity, requires a 300 page book. sorry.

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- A Psalm for the Wild-Built, Becky Chambers // kagonekoshiro

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Allow people to like you, to enjoy your company, to want to be your friend. Allow them to compliment you, allow others to think you’re cool and funny even if you think you’re not. It is not up to you to tell others how to feel, and remember that people might see the positive things in you and qualities that you have been failing to see while being too self-critical. Allow yourself to be liked by other people, even when you don’t see why they should. Don’t self-isolate because you think you are not good enough for other people.

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Lori Gottlieb, Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: A Therapist, Her Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed

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Amidst Silence on Instagram

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“One of my professors told me that forgiveness and trust are different. Forgiveness, she said, takes one person, but trust takes two. It requires one to be trustworthy for the other to trust. We talked about infidelity, and she told me that it takes an average of two full years for a relationship to recover to a place of trust. She told me that forgiveness doesn’t lead to trust. Only trustworthiness leads to trust–and not one act or one day of trustworthiness, but many many acts and days of that loyalty. It takes lots of little t’s to yield the big T….lots of little trustworthy demonstrations for Trust to be reborn. Forgive as you have been forgiven, but only trust the trustworthy–that’s how you live in healthy relationships.”

— L.B.A.

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MICHELE CORTEGIANI (detail)

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qaradise

i’m not ignoring you. i’m just waiting to see if you’ll make an effort

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bisexuanal

I hate men so much they literally are like this. Purposeful incompetence to avoid responsibilities they don’t want ............... the comments on this post on fb were So bad

patrickat

Save the leftovers. Throw the whole man out.

runcibility

Imagine being this fucking petty over a reasonable request to do even a fraction of the share of housework, and thinking you're a good partner. Makes you understand how so many dudes can be clueless and full of shit on so many other topics, too.