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Watch The Bullying Experiment video here.
I almost cried when I saw this part. This is what you do. You don’t continue on your way because it doesn’t involve you.
Look at the way she shields the stranger WITH HER OWN BODY. This is what needs to happen when you see someone being bullied or harassed.
Fat politics are near and dear to my heart, not only because I’m quite the fatty myself, but also because all body inequality has a lasting effect on every single person involved.
When we hate one type of body, we start to hate them all. We compare and critique, hating our failures and then hating others who appear to be more successful. Then we start to hate those who are failing more than us so that we don’t feel so bad about those guys that we hate because they’re succeeding! Hate. Hate. Hate. It’s a lot of hate, and it’s vicious. VICIOUS I tell you!
And it goes oh so much deeper than that. Body hate is internalized at a very young age; killing our sense of self-esteem and teaching us that we must change in order to be okay.
Guess what?81% of 10 year olds are afraid of being fat. And they’re more afraid of fat than they are of cancer, war, or losing both of their parents.
Because of this, a survey of girls 9-10 years old showed that 40% of them have already tried to lose weight. Body image is closely linked to self-esteem and low self-esteem in adolescents can lead to eating disorders, early unsafe sexual activity, substance use, and suicidal thoughts.
95% of people with eating disorders are between the ages of 12 and 25. Certain eating disorders have a 6x higher mortality rate. Low self-esteem is closely linked to depression and over 60 Americans commit suicide everyday due to this diagnosis. Approximately 91% of women are unhappy with their bodies, and only 4% would openly call themselves beautiful.
And it’s all for naught.
It’s all for nothing, y’all. There is no truth in the lie that certain bodies are good and certain bodies are bad. All bodies just are and whatever that looks like is okay. Not only okay, but perfect, I would say!
The reality is that everything we believe about body worth is wrong. We’ve learned to hate certain shapes and sizes because of American history and the economic story hidden within. In “Why We’ve Learned to Hate Ourselves”, I talk about the organization of class systems, the creation of Patriarchy, Tuberculosis, WWII, and newly independent housewives. ALL of these things have been building blocks for the best business scheme in history. We have been given an idyllic body that is presented as gospel; one that 95% of women in this country are not born with, and then we are told that we must somehow achieve this impossible physique. Preferably by attempting to purchase perfection through creams, diet pills, surgeries, laser treatments, special cereals, and expensive meal replacements.
We buy all of these things so that we can somehow, mayyyyyybe someway become something that, yeah… we will never be. I will never become the worlds definition of perfection. Most of my friends around me won’t either. In fact, the large majority of women will never achieve the ideal female figure that we’re taught to worship. Ever. And so, with failure hanging heavily around our necks, we stunt our opportunities, relationships and quality of life.
Though this is need not be, it currently it is and affects us all.
While body hate leaves no person unscathed, there is a group that it sure does like to hang out with an awful lot… The Fatties.
Those Fatties, I’ll tell you what. They exist solely to flaunt themselves as a repulsive and diabolic mockery of what bodies are supposed to be. HOW DARE THEY TAKE UP SPACE ON THIS PLANET. Are ya still with me?
I say this facetiously of course, but know that those few sentences above resonate for more people than you care to count. And this is why we’re here today.
I loved the Feminist autocompletion series, and I am well versed in what the internet has to offer when you type in things like feminism, sluts, gender equality and other supposedly controversial words. I personally spend a lot of time researching body image related subjects and so I’m also aware of what gems pop up when you type in something like, say, “fat people”.
I may be used to reading this kinda junk by now, but that doesn’t make it any less alarming when the top searches for fat people include things like: fat people are disgusting, don’t have feelings, deserve to be bullied, and should die. This immense hatred baffles me; a persons body shape is so benign that it only affects those who inhabit it. Yet, it is socially acceptable to hate, loathe, harass, antagonize, persecute and bully a person based on a clothing size.
If you’re needing a reminder of what bullying is, here’s a quick gist:
So, real talk.
The reality is that fat shame, hate, and oppression is THE most encouraged form of bullying that we face today. It is not only highly prevalent, but it is cheered on by the majority that believes that larger bodies are inherently wrong. This is aided and abetted by all media; both in entertainment material and advertising. In fact, it’s quite UN-popular to stand in favor of fat acceptance, and god forbid you preach of fat love.
We have a long way to go.
There are shelves of books dedicated to why this is (and we don’t have the space to explore that entire concept in one post) but lets be sure to remember this: we have been conditioned to loathe and fear a fat body. We are not born a body bigot, we learn it. We absorb lucrative lies and judge others (and ourselves) based on this made-up law of superficial worth.
Okay, but lets say that I’m wrong (I’m not) and that bigger bodies are bad (definitely not) because by having them you’ve somehow failed (you haven’t). Okay, say all those things have a grain of truth, and fat is indeed some sort of social failure. This is still not reason enough to hate, hurt, and bully another human being. Especially when the subject of contention is something that has nothing to do with you or anyone else. No excuse.
One of my favorite quotes is from Ragen Chastain who write at Dances with Fat and she says:
"Fat people have the right to exist in fat bodies regardless of how we got fat, what being fat means, or if we could be thin through some means – however easy or difficult.
There are no other valid opinions on this.
We have the right to exist without shaming, bullying or stigmatization, period.”
Can I get an AMEN?
All this fat hate has gotta stop.
As long as we continue to demonize and degrade one body type, we will never reach true body acceptance as a society. And until we reach true body acceptance as a society, we will continue to see low self-esteem, depression, eating disorders, sabotaged relationships, employment inequality, sky high suicide rates, and all sorts of other social infirmities. No more please. No more.
Every body is a perfect body. There ain’t no wrong or “more right” way to be, and that’s a fact.
SO, YOU’RE INVITED TO MAKE YOUR OWN POSTER AND SHARE IT WITH THE WORLD!
No need to include the Google autocomplete (unless you want to of course), but feel free to make a poster with your OWN slogan that challenges weight hate and size discrimination! Whatever speaks true to you, make it a poster and share it on The Militant Baker’s Facebook! I’ll be making a photo album to showcase them all and share with the entire world! Hop to it!
Social revolution awaits! xo, Jes More at The Militant Baker Blog
Bullying and fat shaming is unacceptable.
The right path is almost always the hardest…take it from someone who has been there and done that. If you are the only one standing up chances are others will follow, they just need the extra push. Just like if you have a question chances are many others have the same question but are afraid to ask. If more people stand up the world will be that much better for it. Lets share this as much as possible, maybe just by seeing this more people will get the courage to stand up.
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Remember that we love you. You are not alone. <3
I need to talk, I'm tired of bullying....
That's totally fine. Just tell me what's going on. Send us an ask if you'd like. Bullying is absolutely terrible, we know it is. Let it all out.
Inbox us if you ever need anyone. Anytime at all.
Tell us your bullying experiences if you'd like. We're here for you and only you guys. We mean it from the bottom of our hearts.
Anon or not, following or not. We're here to listen.
Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see.
Mark Twain (via creativedorkisms)
Bullies are mother fuckers.
We can change this. The number can become smaller. We can change our actions in order to avoid hurting the people we've bullied into making them feel like they can't live another day..
and if a kid breaks in a school and no-one around chooses to hear do they make a sound?
To This Day (by Shane Koyczan)
For real | via Facebook on We Heart It. http://weheartit.com/entry/65532507/via/PinkMagicUnicorns
Hate is a strong word. I think it's better to say that we dislike what they do..
I just finished watching the documentary “Bully” with my neice and talking about what we can do to help students in her school. It pissed me off when the Sheriff or police officer from Yazoo county, MS said he dont care how much bullying she suffered nothing can justify what she did. Now of course she was wrong but who the heck are you to say how much someone else can bear.
You are not the labels others give you.
You get nothing from making people feel worthless.
There's no point to it, it does nothing.
Bring people up instead.
“Who are you, really? You are not a name, or a height, or a weight, or a gender. You are not an age, and you are not where you are from. You are your favorite books, and the songs stuck in your head. You are your thoughts, and what you eat for breakfast on Saturday mornings. You are a thousand things, but everyone chooses to see the million things you are not. You are not where you are from. You are where you’re going. and I’d like to go there too…” -Unknown
You deserve it, no matter what anyone says or how anyone makes you feel.
Stand for those without a voice! www.thebullyproject.com I recently watched the documentary “Bully” it follows children in America who are bullied. Kids who are beaten,and tormented mentally and physically day after day. The Bully Project is a movement that aims to bring this bullying to light, it’s goal is to end the suicides end the mistreatment, and to speak for those who no longer have a voice. I made this gif as Kankri because I want the Homestuck community to see this. Please reblog this or make a post about The Bully Project. Make it seen. We’re a huge community and I know we can do big things. Please don’t give up, if you are a victim of any kind of abuse, please don’t give up, there is always someone to talk to. Even if there is no one close to you to help there are organizations there to help you. 1-877-968-8454 the number above is the number to The American Youth Hotline, a resource for youths in crisis. Please stay strong, please stand up against this epidemic. Take The Pledge, Against Bullying.
