honestly so tired of trying to have any respect for TMEs on here, all they do is try and take over our spaces, insult and attack us, send death threats and hate campaigns, and then play the victim like being AFAB gives them a pass to say whatever they want about us and get away with it. because to them, nothing they can possibly say or do is worse than the sin of just existing as a trans woman.
I know I haven't been on here in a while, the hate really got to me, combined with being literally homeless right now and needing to stay with any friends I can, it was just really too much energy to keep checking in on this blog, especially with all the threats I've been getting on here.
but, these two asks in particular were really getting to me, not because I'm taking to heart anything these TMEs have to say, but because it was bothering me to leave them unaddressed and let this disgusting transmisogynist scum keep going around freely sending this shit to everyone who makes them 'uncomfortable' just by existing.
TW! transmisogyny misgendering, rape threats
I've gotten a lot of death threats on this blog before, and as I've talked about a lot I got literally doxxed and outed on a different platform and lost my job and housing over it, all because TMEs just can't handle a trans woman talking about her experiences and the things they put her through. genuinely, they would rather see us dead than speaking out about our oppression.
but these hit me harder than most of them. probably because of the mental state I was already in at the time, but I refuse to sit quietly about it and give whoever this person is the satisfaction.
so, if that anon is reading this:
fuck you. If you genuinely think writing this shit makes you morally superior, you're delusional beyond the point of no return. even beyond being just, blatantly transphobic and refusing to see trans women as women instead of evil male predators trying to invade your innocent AFAB TME communities, you take it to the next level by openly making it clear you want to attack ours back.
most of you TMEs tend to at least try to hide the level of transmisogyny behind everything you post here, but I guess having access to anon asks and an already struggling target just makes it impossible for you to resist.
despite whatever insane contrived rationalization is going on in your head, or however much you deny it, you're nothing but another man trying to hurt women in every way you can, you get the power advantage and immediately use it to attack the most heavily marginalized group you can reach.
I know it's pride month and all, and everyone's preaching intersectionality and trans unity, but genuinely, I have nothing in common with someone like you. you are a disgrace to this community, you are the reason there isn't a unified community, and no matter how much you play the victim, you'll never be anything but just another oppressor.
this whole “sorry about your blog, just log off” stuff is a very important reminder that the average tme person fundamentally believes that trans women are exaggerating or flat out lying about the difficulty of our daily lives
a lot of things these people say will make more sense when you remember that they largely believe that tma people are hysterical and our lives really aren’t so bad if we’d just pull ourselves up by the boot straps
hey so maybe you wouldnt get so much hate if you weren't so shitty towards trans men... just a thought.
maybe I wouldn't get so much hate if TMEs could mind their on business and handle a trans woman existing and talking about her experiences with transmisogny without attacking her.
"you should tone yourself down and keep quiet about the abuse you've experienced in this community so we won't attack you" is NOT the progressive take you think it is.
thank you <33 ૮꒰ྀི∩´ ᵕ `∩꒱ྀིა I've been keeping this one in my inbox for a while, because I kept needing to hear it, but it really is sweet of you <333
Things have been getting even worse lately, but it really does help to know there are still nice people out there
I haven't gotten any donations in weeks... I've lost my apartment over this, and I can't stay with my friend much longer. I have no idea where else I can even go.
Please, I really hate to beg for help on here, but I NEED this post to get attention. I'm still trying to find a job in my field that will let me in, but with getting doxxed and outed like I did, it's really hard to find anywhere safe.
Please, I need your help, every little bit counts, and if you have ANYTHING you're able to donate, it could genuinely help save me.
I don't know what else to do, or where else to go anymore.
Hi, if you're here you probably know me as @bunblogging2 (or just @bunbloggi… Leah Istvan needs your support for Help a Trans Girl and Her B
soooo they updated the rules and now it says you have to be niceies to trans girls. yeah. niceies forever. sorry its just the rules. being meanies is banned. the penalty for transmisogyny is on-sight killing now. what? no i dont think thats extreme . idk i think its justified