express your feelings or die

Iron, 31. Ve/ver/vis. Butch dyke, transfem, intersex, genderfluid. White. Writer/game designer. BLM/ACAB/Free Palestine/Solidarity Forever

[seniorinternaut]

A Botticelli in Brooklyn. “Hari in Profile” (2022) by Will St John portrait of actress and model Hari Nef

[butch-king-frankenstein]

there is a fascinating sexual dynamic at play between freight and passenger trains

[butch-king-frankenstein]

Amtrak is the sub in a 24/7 d/s relationship with North American freight rail

[trangoldin]

One of the biggest lies I see paraded around by queer filmmakers and authors is that we are inundated with saccharine, It Gets Better trans narratives in media. And like, I get it, we all want to make "My Barely Concealed Memoir About Sexual Abuse And Transition But With Sci Fi Body Horror" and "A Harmony Korine Film But with Trannies," and the way you pitch those kinds of film is by loudly announcing that we are awash in mindless positivity and hopeful pablum and need you, our brave creative auteur, to come in and show the grime, grit, and tears of our lives. But it becomes kinda silly when like

In context this isnt about racial diversity, its about not depicting the messy and sometimes awful reality of trans lives. Like ok Louise Weard is a fucking sweetheart and I have no ill will toward her at all but like, whomst??? Who are the tranny directors out rn who are making feel good stories?? Hell, name me one tgirl creative like that?

Idk can we all admit to ourselves that the reason we wanna make weird stuff isn't some like, principled effort to fight back against the whitewashing of trans narratives and is instead bc all of us are kinda fucked up and weird and we like making stuff that is about abuse and death and trauma?

[trangoldin]

We are all Trent Reznor from this meme

[kristina100000]

How do i top my boyfriend?? I dont know how ill see him that way, i haven't done it with him before

ill do it. since you are so fucking complicated

[butch-king-frankenstein]

there is a fascinating sexual dynamic at play between freight and passenger trains

[7777777awawawa7777777]

someone dropped a bitcoin on my head from on top of the empire state building in an act of guerrilla trepanation but since there weren’t any evil spirits in my skull the hole just sprouted a flower and now everybody says i look like a damn pikmin smh

[eroscestlavie]

lesbian texting their straight guy friends: it genuinely worries me that people are going to start with Vineland and get turned off to Pynchon forever. it’s not even that challenging but it’s like…others from him are so superior in basically every way?? this happened with Inherent Vice too like ok let’s all KILL OURSELVES

lesbian texting their bisexual guy friends: Omg hiii I actually do not know anyone who would be a good fit to run in bar marketing for the doritos infused tequila but thank you for thinking of me!! Are you still doing the MFA???

lesbian texting their gay guy friends: Of COURSE you can have my french onion soup recipe. Don’t worry.

lesbian texting their straight girl friends: that hang was sooo needed. genuinely think this is going to be your year 🫶 seriously I mean it.

lesbian texting their bisexual girl friends: I know. I feel the same way—that this is the year my father’s corpse, which I drag with me on my back every winter, finally stops keeping me warm.

lesbian texting their lesbian girl friends: do you think Tim Roth from Reservoir Dogs is a woman

[shadow-generations]

If you think misogyny doesnt exist within the queer community, you are probably benefiting from misogyny

[shadow-generations]

If you think racism doesnt exist within the queer community, you are probably benefiting from racism

[butch-king-frankenstein]

(ABBA voice) gimme gimme gimme a man hating bull dyke

[butch-king-frankenstein]

sometimes a woman or nonbinary person will get into a relationship with a bare-minimum man after a string of experiences with actively malicious men, and the comparative upgrade is so shocking that she instantly becomes obsessed with her loser caveman boyfriend and starts centering the entirety of her life around him and his wants. I feel like this phenomenon is common enough that we need a term for it. I nominate "jakeyfication"

[skarchomp]

the hetero jessica post is hands down the funniest thing ive ever seen multiple people get angry over. it's not even that mean. i promise you dont need to leap to the defense of hetero jessica.

[daughter-of-sapph0]

at some point, you have to recognize that the detrans grifters who cry about how t made them bald and spend their sad pathetic adult lives pretending like they were completely unaware of the effects of masculinizing hormones and treat trans people like they're all diseased or mentally ill children who cant think for themselves, and the roided out cismen with full beards who have no intention of actually transitioning but say shit like "im gonna play wnba now haha" to make a mockery of trans women even though you know for a fact that if you ever used she/her for them they'd punch your face for emasculinizing them, are the exact same type of person.

[rowles6]

"Being trans is SO easy its harmful" <- person who isnt trying to be trans

[lightlyteal]

[graciousfemme]

"dolled up femme" this. "dolled up femme" that. what about no make up femme in a giant tshirt with bedhead because she trusts you

[butch-king-frankenstein]

(ABBA voice) gimme gimme gimme a man hating bull dyke

[tlirsgender]

The popular idea that women are *allowed* to express more emotion than men because they're stereotyped as overly emotional is so fucking stupid when you actually think about it for 2 seconds. It's like saying poc are allowed to be angry. Dude

[tlirsgender]

Toxic masculinity's emotional repression has a slightly different flavor to it but can we be so fucking honest. Every man I've known will throw a hissy fit at a moment's notice they just don't like having emotionally vulnerable friendships with each other because they're scared of looking gay. Which is their own fault for being homophobic. Damn I wish men weren't allowed to talk about their feelings stfu

[phillip-bankss]

grug dont have to change!