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Lint Roller? I Barely Know Her
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One Nice Bug Per Day
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YOU ARE THE REASON
Sweet Seals For You, Always
Keni
祝日 / Permanent Vacation
Xuebing Du
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if i look back, i am lost
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Mike Driver
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@carnage-cathedral
carnage.
he / they / it + masc / neu terms collectively.
vent / personal blog.
adult. hc-DID sys. mentally unwell.
cw for discussion of ramcoa + adjacent topics.
endos dni. extremely taken.
about.
donate here to help our cat get vet treatment.
wanna take a nap but the fridge maintenance guy is supposed to come in a few hours so I don't have time
one thing I wish people understood about tumblr posts is that they are not confession booths. if you see a post calling attention to the fact some behaviour patterns may actually be racist or misogynistic or transphobic or anything else you don't actually have to go into op's replies or tags to tell them You Personally have this patterns for detailed unproblematic reasons. I can't speak for the op of every post obviously but the point is likely to make people look at themselves critically and think about why they do the things they do. and if you're capable of introspection and understand that a post does not apply to you, the correct thing is to move on. you are just not its target audience
what a fucking crazy thing to romanticize. "oh yeah I'm related to the guy who killed a whole bunch of innocent people including literal fucking infants teehee I'm so southern gothic americana" I'm gonna come strangle you with my bare fucking hands
don't fucking piss me off man
hey 😃 I'm gonna kill you, okay? 😃
OH MY GOD. OHH MY GOD. IM WATCHING A CONLANG VIDEO AND THIS GUY JUST PULLS UP WITH /THIS/
NONLINEAR GRAMMAR ?!?!? !!!!!!!!!! ?!?!?!! iii ii i i. i need. to make a poem with this.
really craving hash browns
Cameo with Medusa, mid-1800s. Attributed to Luigi Saulini, 1819-1883. Sardonyx, gold mount.
an experience we’ve had. could probably write an essay on it and maybe one day I will
(not vaguing anyone in particular, this happens to us like near daily)
starvinggg
Edith Small Seafoam Blue Rhinestone Lace Tulle One-Shoulder Dress
1950s
Timeless Vixen
Seagull slide, Tawas City, MI
need a coffee and some kinda breakfast
I feel like not enough people realize that people under enormous strain act really really fucking Weird
There was a parenting-kids-with-trauma book I remember running into around 2010 (I was not and am still not a parent, but I am an older sibling) that had a lovely little slogan I like to quote all the time:
“It’s not about the Cheerios.”
This was in reference to a story about a kid flipping the HELL out into a full-blown panic about running out of their favorite cereal. Not a tantrum, not a whine-fest, but an all-hands-on-deck, code-red, world-is-ending blowup.
The kid had originally come from a very unstable situation and experienced food deprivation. The new adoptive parents were stumped, because look at all the other food! You’re safe! We can get the Cheerios tomorrow!
But it wasn’t really about the Cheerios, it was about that first flicker of unease triggering all the old trauma. From the outside, it looked ridiculous. To the trauma-trained reaction of the kid’s brain, it made perfect sense.
Human brains are weird, and we’re all out here trying to survive. Sometimes our brains do this in socially acceptable, convenient ways. But not often.
(The book was titled “Beyond Logic, Consequences or Control” I think, I’ll look it up and edit this in a bit.)
How do I explain to you people that interracial relationships are okay
Not every white person dating a POC is fetishizing. White people can be respectful and responsible when it comes to culture and relationships and not everyone has bad intentions.
Asian people can date Black people without you saying shit like “your kids will be so pretty” they’re not dating for pretty kids. They’re dating bc they like each other.
Someone can dress their partner in clothing from their culture if they want. Someone can take their partner to cultural events if they want.
People in relationships can share cultures, experiences and love without it being toxic or skin deep.
Their partner isn’t culturally appropriating. Their partner is being shown the ultimate form of love, bc their partner trusts them and loves them enough to share their history and heritage.
Yeah, dating someone from your culture is nice bc you automatically have similar experiences. But you’re not limited to dating people with the same experiences. Loving someone is sharing and growing and being together.
Interracial relationships aren’t always toxic, and some of y’all need to stop projecting onto other people.
👆 THIS 👆 👏👏👏
Calling ineterracial relationships toxic or fetishizing just seem like anti race mixing or racism with extra steps
This reminded me of this
