so when all my friends forget my name,

no, I won't come back and be the same.

[carnage-cathedral]

carnage.

he / they / it + masc / neu terms collectively.

vent / personal blog.

adult. hc-DID sys. mentally unwell.

cw for discussion of ramcoa + adjacent topics.

endos dni. extremely taken.

about.

donate here to help our cat get vet treatment.

sideblogs we interact from:

@dsmvotion (host's sideblog. sometimes more active than main)

@mindbranded

@innerward

@chokehound

@handsoffthefuckinshield

@martyrdoll

@carnage-cubs

@carnage-hoard

@sproingusblogging

wing header is our art, please do not steal or reupload

How do I explain to you people that interracial relationships are okay

Not every white person dating a POC is fetishizing. White people can be respectful and responsible when it comes to culture and relationships and not everyone has bad intentions.

Asian people can date Black people without you saying shit like “your kids will be so pretty” they’re not dating for pretty kids. They’re dating bc they like each other.

Someone can dress their partner in clothing from their culture if they want. Someone can take their partner to cultural events if they want.

People in relationships can share cultures, experiences and love without it being toxic or skin deep.

Their partner isn’t culturally appropriating. Their partner is being shown the ultimate form of love, bc their partner trusts them and loves them enough to share their history and heritage.

Yeah, dating someone from your culture is nice bc you automatically have similar experiences. But you’re not limited to dating people with the same experiences. Loving someone is sharing and growing and being together.

Interracial relationships aren’t always toxic, and some of y’all need to stop projecting onto other people.

[spoonoftar]

👆 THIS 👆 👏👏👏

[the-real-gingakid]

Calling ineterracial relationships toxic or fetishizing just seem like anti race mixing or racism with extra steps

[skyhon]

This reminded me of this

[carnage-cathedral]

okay I made @playcadavers for complicated reasons but it's there so. yeah

[hospicial]

[strangerconnection]

...........oh so google ai actually does this for real

[carnage-cathedral]

um????

[touchmytylenol]

i <3 blocking people on tumblr. com

[greeniery]

everything’s gonna be okay allegedly

[touchmytylenol]

i <3 blocking people on tumblr. com

[blubberblast]

I was so enamored with this photo of Mashiro that I had to draw him getting squished

[vipserver000888]

[placeholddog]

they created the technology to make a 1:1 recreation of grace's cardigan

[jimmyhoffathecat]

Dandelion boy

[gay--dog]

was looking for something earlier and i didnt find it but i did find this thing so thats good

[joy-and-whimsy-official]

Joy and whimsy detected! This post is joyful and whimsical!

[i-drew-this-post]

I drew this joyful and whimsical thing

[carnage-cathedral]

fuck it. more sideblogs

[ilonano]

best thing in tbe world having people that like your ocs

[ilonano]

or alternatively people that say things like this about your ocs

[vacantgodling]

hello again, your resident poor rat on the internet.

after paying rent, part of my phone bill, and my car insurance, i only have $47 bucks to my name.

the government cut off our food benefits (calling them about that tomorrow 😔) and we don’t have money for food and upcoming bills, let alone rent for next month.

things are still in the shitter tbh. i don’t want to put how much we need on this post because i feel like begging the internet for thousands of dollars is absurd and just. sad. i guess. a rough estimate is like 2k give or take.

as per usual if you have anything to spare this pride to keep a black queer couple housed and safe it’d mean the world to us. i’m still working on commissions so if you’d like art of an oc or character you like i gotchu!

thanks again and as always sorry about this 🫩

- vacant (fish)

[vacantgodling]

update:

so they basically fucked up our food aid and they don't know if they'll get it reinstated. 2 work orders have been placed at this point and i'm just not really confident in anything atm. my partner and i have barely eaten in like 2 weeks so if nothing else, anything that can help with food costs would be appreciated.

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[vacantgodling]

even less $ now because i had to buy gas for my car so i can keep dashing. its an ouroboros cycle unfortunately. ended up not even being able to do that much today bc of a huge storm and after almost getting into accidents twice the last time its rained here that heavily i just went home so i don't take my chances. i really promise i'm trying my best. i just don't know what i can reasonably do atp.

[kosmogrl]