Cat Gandini

Self Care Coach 👩‍💻  I help womxn prioritise themselves + their self-care so they can end cycles of ppl pleasing, co-dependency + perfectionism. Learn to set boundaries with yourself and others and feel empowered as you increase your energy, confidence, and self worth!

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I don’t want to pile on by adding more content about the coronavirus, but it’s been on my mind a lot, and I can’t help but want to make little characters to help anyone struggling right now. This chibird is here to affirm that living in this pandemic can be hard, but we will get through. I hope you all are doing well, and please stay as safe as you can.

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My creative process 😂

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Do you ever find things you wrote when you were little and just really want to die a little?

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Me at age 11: “I am a sea of feelings. I am an emocean.”

Emocean underlined three times

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Here's a radical notion: if a character is gay, I don't know, maybe DEPICT HIM AS GAY!? . I have a whole lotta feelings about there being "no explicit mention" of Dumbledore's homosexuality in the upcoming Fantastic Beasts film. . In 2007 J.K Rowling stated that Dumbledore was gay and that his great love was Grindelwald. The upcoming movie is the story of Dumbledore chasing down the dark wizard Grindelwald, so not only is Dumbledore's sexuality factually relevant to the storyline, but it would only improve the plot. I'm damn sure if it was a hetero couple in place of Dumbledore and Grindelwald, this relationship would be played up for all it's worth. To me it absolutely feels like a homophobic decision to omit Dumbledore's sexuality because they are most definitely treating him differently than they would a heterosexual character. . Stating that Dumbledore is gay and then not following through with representing him as such really let's down the LGBTIQ community. JK Rowling got a pat on the back for outing Dumbledore back in 2007, but that doesn't mean shit if we don't ever get to actually SEE queer representation. I also find any argument that Dumbledore's sexuality wouldn't be appropriate or "family friendly" hugely problematic as this sends a devastating and long reaching message/stigma about homosexuality and Queerness. . The fans deserve a factually correct movie, the LGBTIQ community deserves more (and better) representation and Dumbledore, poor Dumbledore, he deserves so much more than to be shoved back in the closet.

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Inspired by many unsuccessful shopping trips made recently, trying to find flattering denim shorts

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Snip snip ✂️✂️

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Anxious crying: when anxiety causes your entire body to cry, producing vast amounts of sweat, tears, and snot. I completely understand why mental illness is glamorized, I mean, I just feel SoOoooOo glamorous when I have a panic attack and end up covered in sweat, tears and snot! Like my body starts anxious crying and it's just SO sexy 💧💧💧😎😎😎🔥🔥🔥

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Happy new year!!!

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Everytime I have experienced a complete breakdown (be it physical, mental, or both), this has been my experience. It can be very difficult to deal with losing these “friends,” on top of the crisis you’re already dealing with. I’ve often struggled with feeling abandoned and used. There are always plenty of people surrounding me when I experience wins, but there are far, far, few who stick around…

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🐍🐍🐍 I feel like she was a total Hufflepuff when she first came on the scene, then she went all Gryffindor and now she's embracing her Slytherin snakiness! But let's face it, her and her team definitely have the brains of Ravenclaw to hide all those hidden messages in the lyrics and video clip. #LookWhatYouMadeMeDo #LWYMMD

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When your depression cuts off all forms of communication, leaving you in complete isolation: #LonelyIslandCaitlin . Also, this is a reason why people don't reach out for help when they're depressed - because they're goddamn depressed and a symptom of their depression is that they CANNOT reach out!! So - no more chastising that "you should have reached out." K, thanks.

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Ode To A Cat I am never too much for him. He doesn't find my problems so big and uncomfortable…

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DISCONNECTED My mobile phone broke 5 days ago & I've only just replaced it. Every day without a phone I felt the same - disconnected.