what am I even still doing on this hellsite?

she/her allegedly 31 much trans, very gay TERFs fuck off

[biocrafthero]

Hornet Phone In Bed was made unrebloggable so I'm making my own post for it

[tgirl-tamag0tchi]

Why do I feel tired all the time when I haven’t even done anything…

I used to be able to push myself through the day.

But physically I just…

I think now that I’m no longer under constant stress… my body can’t keep pushing past its spoon capacity

[tabletopsystemrepostblog]

Mhm, I warned you about this long ago. When you're not in constant fight or flight, your body is actually able to notice when you don't have the energy to keep going.

You gotta learn to rest when you can

[tgirl-tamag0tchi]

I know…

I’m just… not good at resting. Relaxing makes me feel unproductive.

But my body keeps telling me to rest.

[tabletopsystemrepostblog]

Yeah, still haven't learned how to do it myself, but you got the conditions and people to help you, I hear having a quiet, low energy activity can be nice. Such as drinking tea, reading, knitting/crochet/other simple crafts.

Set aside a little time dedicated to just reading a book or fanfic or smut. A time where the only activity you have is sitting down and drinking something slowly.

You got this, just take your time and give yourself some patience

[stjohnstarling]

The social forces that prevent you from being able to admit to your own desires in the safety of your own mind are far more evil than any desire you could have.

[stjohnstarling]

Unacted desires are fundamentally neutral, and you can't decide what to do about the things you want unless you can admit to yourself what they are in the first place. Everyone has desires that would hurt other people if they acted on them, but most people would not actually go out and do anything they know would cause harm. Far more harm is done in this world by people who are trying to pretend they can't possibly want anything they think is bad than people running around going "ehehehe I love hurting people!"

[stjohnstarling]

Providing people with a way of exploring the dark parts of ourselves in a way that cannot hurt anyone is one of the purposes of both fiction and kink.

[stjohnstarling]

All of us have a hungry, horny, angry, scared animal inside ourselves. You do not need to excuse or justify what that animal wants, it simply is. You cannot escape it. Lying to yourself about the animal that you are will only give you less control over it, not more.

[unthinkablearchives]

Delphine Lecompte, Belgian poet

[tlirsgender]

My most diagnosable take is that honestly. As much as people in social justicey spaces talk about exercising your empathy ... there's also value in being able to turn it off so you're not extremely susceptible to emotional manipulation. Sometimes you have to be able to recognize "oh, this is bullshit propaganda trying to tug at my heartstrings" and stop giving a fuck about like. Colonizer feelings or whatever. Vibes can't override your principles

[tlirsgender]

Like idk being niceys is a good start but your politics can't begin and end with 🌈 kindness 🌈 or you're gonna get taken advantage of. The worst people on earth will be like "but what if........ I have a sob story about it 🥺" & you Need to be able to tell them to Fuck Completely Off

[tlirsgender]

There's a certain strain of ... Everyone Is Valid 🌸 style pseudo leftism that ime invariably caters to whoever throws the biggest tantrum. And this is a Problem interpersonally & it's especially bad if you let these people dictate your opinions. Not everyone is valid some of you are racist

[austaylian]

This is as butch as some of you can handle lmao

[lickingandsuckingchristmascoins]

[omegaversereloaded]

ilove when someone posts about an issue that's supposedly plaguing society and it's painfully obvious that said issue is not a thing that matters if youre not on tiktok

[nianeyna]

reminds me of this reddit comment I have saved

[highonoverthinking]

July wasn’t going so well for franz kafka

[plague-vulture]

washing dishes is evil because you go "oh fuck there's so many dishes this is gonna take foreverrr" and then you enter the dish abyss and emerge with your abdomen somehow covered in water and your hands all wrinky and then you look at the clock and what felt like half an hour was actually 10 minutes

[watercolormagicalgirl]

portal turrets were so ahead of their time actually because they’re autistic lil robogirlies who are ever so slightly chuuni and they’re adorable and polite and even though they could kill you in 10 seconds they’re incredible instant-lossbait and they go ahahaha >:3c and aaaa-auuu D: and awawawawa @_@ and other such noises

[junejasprose-addict]

It used to be feminism 101 that using male terms by default is bad, but then trans women wanted a piece of that pie and suddenly everyone becomes philosophers and etymologists discussing the nuances of language instead of just listening to women

[default-cube]

girls love to sit around and do nothing for hours on end

[free-and-to-none-accountable]

[standwithdaanes]

[foone]

I was researching toasters (for kink reasons) and found that the people at rtings take their job very seriously. They've got toast consistency software, and an official toast photography setup to power it.

[butterfly-sapphic]

Do you think rtings research toasters for kink reasons too

[foone]

god I hope so

[virtualgirladvance]

i miss her...

[leshermes]

Jasmine Vine, lead programmer of Hollow Knight & Silksong just transitioned!! I'm so happy for her!❤️🏳️‍⚧️

[c-rowlesdraws]

her bluesky header & icon are so cute too 🥰

[charl0ttan]

[laciffo-natas]

Oh by the way if you use they/them for someone who has explicitly told you not to, it's still misgendering even if you think you're being woke about it

[dreadwedge]

As a transsexual woman 👩 who has had multiple experiences ‼️ I have found 🔎 that the biggest block of cheese 🧀 is usually the one ☝️ that has the largest size 📈

[dreadwedge]

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