Secret sexy sideblog

- Horny trans girl - t4t- 25 - australian - be a decent person if you're gonna dm - longer pin TBD - oh and yes trans women face a specific intersection of hate making me tma

[spiritualdowngrade]

send me pizza rolls in the mail or you can't be Christian any more

[foxgirlmindcrank]

The queerest place on the internet

[thefiresontheheight]

This is a serious scientific question and not a joke, I promise, it's super serious, mmkay? Link on estrogen, her ass bouncing around, right? Keep that in mind. Like from Legend of Zelda, the game series with all those racist caricatures, alright? What if she had been on estrogen. And her ass was fat. Cool, we're on the same page now.

I'll reblog this and I'm a cis woman.

I'll reblog this and I'm a trans woman.

I'll reblog this and I'm neither of those.

Sable wtf are you talking about I'm not reblogging this.

Remaining time: 2 days 20 hours

[innumerable-voices]

Hey hey! I saw your post about how important it is to love everything about someone including their disabilities, and I thought that was beautiful. I've been attracted to overweight and obese bodies my whole life and i give myself so much guilt about it that i think I've ruined my ability to have enjoyable sex completely? My question is, how do you avoid feeling guilty about your attractions? (sorry if that's a heavy question! I don't expect you to solve anything for me but if you could give me any insight I'd be super greatful!🙏🏿❤️)

Alright well first remove "overweight" and "obese" from you vocabulary (unless you're in the very specific situation where someone has directly asked you to use them as part of a degradation kink), just say "fat" it's a a neutral and accurate descriptive word

Second being fat can be a disability and it's always discriminated against, before you're allowed to sexualize something like that you first need to address your own internalised fatphobia and be a real vocal ally for the fat people in your life

Third accept that everyone has preferences in the bodies they like, you're treating being attracted to fat bodies as abnormal and feeling guilt about it because you've been taught that skinny = normal but being attracted to skinny bodies is a preference in the same way

Fourth if you do get the chance remember the person you're with has probably been made to feel awful about their body for their whole life, revel in the chance to help them feel good for maybe the first time and treasure that

Ultimately if you don't do anything to be guilty of and you work to make peoples lives better then the guilt will fade (and maybe be replaced with righteous anger which can be really cathartic in moderation)

[innumerable-voices]

I just adore girls who show off immaturity

Pig tails, bracers, sticking their tongue out to concentrate, pointing their feet in, babbling at me for hours about all their favourite things

*dreamy sigh*

[innumerable-voices]

Most normalist milf ever: do you ahhh, do you maybe need help tying your shoe laces? >.<

[innumerable-voices]

Obviously I'd never want to sexualise or infantalise anyone's physical or intellectual disabilities,,, unless you're into it in which case awww your lil handsies don't work like they should? You get so so sleepy all the time? You stumble over your words and repeat yourself? You can't think good like you used to and it makes you so so grumpy and frustrated? It's okay little thing mama is here I'll brush your teeth and wash your hair and tie your shoe laces and listen to you talk endlessly and make you feel so good in that special way only mamas can, just trust me and it'll all be ok

[innumerable-voices]

You deserve people in your life who will love everything about you including your disabilities not in spite of them

[innumerable-voices]

Saying "cows!" and "horsies!" when she sees them and saying "vroom" when ever she sees big machinery is child behavior,,,

[drowsy-corpsegirl]

The Dom should be praised too

[drowsy-corpsegirl]

Take care of your doms. Praise them. Make them feel cared for and loved. Or you don't deserve them.

[drowsy-corpsegirl]

This applies doubly, x10 tbh, to transfemme doms. You NEED to be nice to her, you NEED to let her know she is doing a good job. That transfemme dom might have a lot of issues with her self worth, she may have been used up and left a discarded husk so many times.

Sorry but I got sick of scrolling through the notes on this on desktop and seeing all the red usernames marked by shinigami eyes reblogging this.

I'm a transfemme dom and I'm proud of it. Take care of us. Love us.

[drowsy-corpsegirl]

And then no one reblogged this version

[enaloi]

ok.

[mousidy]

wild that TMEs expect trans women to behave exactly how they expect men to in the bedroom because most of the trans women I know aren't even that interested in anything resembling sex, they want to play with knives and get hurt

[mousidy]

I'm gonna speculate here but I think a lot of trans women, on top of having sexualities very informed by our trauma, revel in kink in part because traditional modes of sex are not available to us. a lot of us don't want to top and many of us have reasons for not wanting to do anal. dysphoria often prevents us from anything below the waist altogether. of course we lean into things that hardly resemble "sex"

[mousidy]

to be clear this is a beautiful thing, but can we have a moment of silence for the women with debilitating bottom dysphoria combined with a set of kinks that doesn't lend itself super well to non-genital-related play? these women are going through insane sexual dissatisfaction. ask me how I know!

and then help me pay for my bottom surgery

[trainwreck-of-thoughts]

me talking about hypnosis to sceptical third parties: "Well, I'd say it rolls out of principled opposition to pseudoscience, if anything. People, even honest people, report seeing ghosts, say they feel better after taking sham medicine. The most parsimonious explanation for that is that the human brain can fudge its own experiences to be in line with social norms and personal expectation. All I'm doing is tapping into that capacity."

me hypnotizing someone: "Actually I have magic powers. You fucked up big time letting me in and now I can do whatever I want to you. Beg nicely and I'll put your brain back together after taking it apart."

[iamtiret-deactivated20260328]

reblog this to slap the persons ass u reblogged this from 💖🍑

[0w0tsuki]

Watching a bee documentary and they're saying shit transfems on here would get absolutely horny over

[0w0tsuki]

Hey there sis you wanna focefeed me a pheromone enriched slurry that's going to teach my my role in the hive? I'm only a day old I don't know how to be a bee yet

[simplysnaps]

👉👈 anyone wanna forcefeed me the pheromone enriched slurry that teaches me my role in the hive? 🥺 anyone wanna teach me how to be a bee? 🐝

[badwithemotionsagain]

Women with facial hair. You agree. Reblog.

[innumerable-voices]

Direct and specific praise

It doesn't matter what your dynamic is nor your role in that dynamic your partner will be more happy, confident, and secure in theirs if you give them consistent direct and specific praise

"I really appreciate when dinner is sorted when I get home" or "I really like being hit in the ribs" specific but not direct, easy to misinterpret as a gentle reprimand

"You did good today" direct but not specific, it'll make them feel good but won't help them learn

"I really like it when you..." or "thank you for..." or "you did a really good job when you..."

Direct and specific praise

Trust me it'll make everything better

[sophieunderthestars]

Might radically alter oomf's life

[satanfemme]

excuse me ma'am but I met your "evil alter" last night and I regret to inform you she's just a tsundere with moral ocd. no, it's ok, I can still call her evil if that's what she's into. yeah, I don't mind acting kinda scared of her during sex. I just wanted to let you know she's chill. yeah, and her paws are cute I thought so too.

[cattransgirl]

How can cis people even manage to ruin a lesbian pool party that's like 50% trans girls

[callali1y]

listen if a friend of mine transitioned and looked like me i would not be mad. i would not be asking questions. we would have other business to attend to