CHAI_Drinker

no donation stuff as I can not pay :( I write things on ao3 🤷‍♂️ p.s. don't be freaky if you're a minor https://archiveofourown.org/users/CHAI_Drinker friends art (and mine now lol) https://www.tumblr.com/thatlooksliketheahhhh?source=share Google: how to be an adult

[chaimydrink]

My dni

Block the tag "#tw fuck off!!" If you don't want to see lots of stuff that I am too lazy to tag like slurs and stuff because there a lot of them

Go to the tag "#save me a slice" on my blog for yummy food

Hey look here

Requests closed because issues. I changed this im doing for free short things

Two anon asks is enough. go here, here or here for anything suggestive or nsfw

Making an intro post after forever yippy!!!!!!!!

Call me some variation of my user name 😌😌😌

I am she/her

My inbox is always open for whatever it is that you need

Advice or anything

I can answer in private if you don't want it posted or you can dm me

I like writing the horrors

My ao3

I do write smut so look out for that on my ao3 but not on here 💔

I am an adult mind you so if you no no wanna follow or anything I 100% understand

If i don't publicly say that something is my alt please do not tell people if you figure it out 💔💔

If you think anyone ANYONE!!!!!!!!!!!! is better or worse then someone else because of anything about them (gender, race, etc) you are not welcome here

Same if you think someone isn't valid because they don't fit a perfect mold of what you think they should be

My memory is shit so sorry if im stupid sometimes

Other user boxes

Chance ask blog 🙂‍↕️

[sanitymakesposts]

Mods? Take him to the stump of his favorite childhood tree.

[sanitymakesposts]

Mods, make him busy during a friends planned trip so he misses out on the new inside joke.

[sanitymakesposts]

Mods… change the smell of his parents house.

[evilscientist3]

look boss, our quarterly "subjection to the brutalities of the Absurd" budget is almost blown already. can we not just shoot this one twice in the back of the head and call it a day?

[aro-ace-culture-is]

Aroace culture is not knowing how or when to come out, or if you even should. Like what am I gonna say "Greetings, parental figure, I would like to inform you that I will be completely and utterly bitchless for the remainder of my time on earth. Thank you for your time."

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[sugarhoneybiscuit]

YOU'RE NOT AN ALLY TO QUEER PEOPLE IF YOU'RE APHOBIC

[p0ssibly-an-ali3n]

i've noticed that quite a lot of people are severely undereducated about aroace , aromantic , and asexual people , even allies and lgbtq people themselves

sure , to my knowledge we're not directly focused on by homophobic groups ( thanks for the clarification @/plum-petunia !! ) . but society is still extremely against the mere existence of those who don't feel certain types of love .

i was venting to a friend about being aroace and she asked me " why don't you just not be aroace ? "

people say " aromantic / asexual / aroace people can still date !! " and then refuse to engage with the nuances of an ace/arospec relationship

so many people i've told about being aroace all say " well , you're not gonna be aroace forever , right ? "

hell being asexual didn't stop being considered a mental illness until 2013

the only representation of aro/aspec people in media are cold villains or are "innocent" and "pure" , and even THAT rep is taken away

romance is viewed as better than all else . every conversation is about romance . nothing sells without romance

people can't conceptualise a relationship with romance without sex . people can't conceptualise a relationship without romance with sex . people can't conceptualise having no desire for a relationship with romance or sex .

society doesn't treat us as people worthy of respect . people dont care enough to represent us properly .

amatonormativity , aphobia , and arophobia are everywhere once you notice it

[aro-culture-is]

aro culture is being called childish for being romance repulsed. like SORRY that I didn't wanna see two people kiss in public oh my GOD is that such a crime

@this-is-arophobia

[aro-culture-is]

aro culture is being annoyed at the whole "we're JUST friends" thing as if friendship is less valuable than romantic relationships

Also people going 'ok sure ;)' whenever i say I'm not in a relationship with someone I'm close to

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[marzscreamz]

hot take: the phrase “there is no platonic explanation for that” fucking sucks, bc it not only hurts aromatic people, but also emphasizes the ‘friends can’t be too close’ this can either be rooted in homophobia or sexism

[aro-culture-is]

aro culture is wishing people would stop romanticising forced marriages

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[aro-ace-culture-is]

Aroace culture is thinking that allos are like, only 20% of the population because what do you mean the VAST majority of people feel sexual/romantic attraction?? What do you mean most people actually want to go on dates and kiss and stuff??? SEX IS REAL?????

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[laciffo-natas]

"Queer people should be accepted enough that they feel comfortable talking about themself" and "Nobody owes you an explanation of why they identify a certain way" are two statements that can and should coexist, by the way.

One is about the activism and acceptance of queer people, and the other is just entitlement. Do not feel like you should have to explain yourself to deserve the same acceptance and respect as anyone else.

You are valid in your queer identity.

[aro-culture-is]

Aro is culture is HAAAAAAATING denial tropes in Romance.

"OKay so we share a room, and a bed, and we moved in together recently, and we sometimes hold hands on instinct, and I feel a bit bubbly inside around him but HE'S NOT MY HUSBAND!!"

YES, COOL, FUCKING GOOOD FOR YOU. V E R Y GOOD FOR YOU ACTUALLY, WE LOVE INTIMATE FRIENDSHIPS IN THIS HOUSE!!

BUT NOOOOOO, THE POINT APPARENTLY IS THAT HE'S NAIVE AND STUPID BECAUSE "Of CoUrSe ThEy'D bE hUsBaNdS iF tHeY dO tHaT! No FrIeNdS dO tHaT wItH eAcH oThEr!!!" mauling you mauling you mauling you mauling you mauling you mauling you mauling you mauling you mauling you mauling you mauling you mauling you mauling you mauling you mauling you mauling you mauling you mauling you

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[bunnygirljesus]

Black ppl deserve to feel safe and welcomed on the internet, on fandoms on whatever community or hobbies they want without having to deal with antiblack racist attacks, microaggressions or enablers of antiblackness . And if u genuinely consider urself to be left leaning or an ally or woke you should do and try to unlearn the colorism, texturism , eurocentrism and antiblackness

[aro-ace-culture-is]

aroace culture is finding yourself really attractive and cool and being glad and proud that no one gets to have you because you are awesome and beautiful as is on your own

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[asexual-amanita]

Happy pride month! Please remember to include disabled people in your festivities this year! This includes:

- Hiring sign language interpreters

- Ensuring venues are step free

- Making dedicated sensory safe spaces

- Providing free masks

- Including braille or audio described signage

- Using plain language in speeches

Yes it’s more work, but pride is for everyone, it’s needs to be inclusive.

[aro-culture-is]

aro culture is wishing people would stop romanticising forced marriages

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[this-is-nonbinary-joy]

Nonbinary (specifically Gendervoid who prefers being viewed masculinly if I had to) joy is being called 'sir' by a little kid (who assumed I was older than I am), watching them get confused by my face, and then ending up being called a shapeshifter as an attempted gender neutral equivalent. Heck yeah! I am a shapeshifter!!!

this is nonbinary joy!