im just someone's lesbian wife 🧍

sav, 27, she/her, femmedyke

[sigmaleph]

every day i am thankful to ancient humans for the domestication of the cat. fucking genius idea. agriculture was a good one too btw but you really outdid yourselves with the cat thing

[champainprobs]

I feel like I have the chance to start over and be someone new. the previous version of me no longer exists. sav (maiden name) is no longer in existence and sav (married name) has taken her place. I could literally be anyone. I could be the woman who dyes her hair with box dye and wears eyeliner every day and always cooks dinner. I could be the woman who has a clean house and a paid off car. I could be the woman who becomes a mother.

I'm getting my GED next month after literally almost ten years of being frozen in place because of shame and ghosts from my childhood. I'm planning on going to school for esthetics late August and transitioning careers so I can get the FUCK out of food service.

Nobody talks about how bittersweet it is to shed your previous identity, though. My mom hasn't even met my wife and I haven't met my mother in law. My mom doesn't know sav (married name) and my father will never meet her (thank god). The version my dad knew is gone and he doesn't even know my married name to ever find me, hopefully.

[andpierres]

you should have seen me a couple of years ago!

[champainprobs]

there are so many things I love about being married but being able to refer to her as "my wife" is up there. I feel like gods favorite that I have a beautiful sweet butch WIFE 😭 yes she's too cool and smart and talented and kind and sexy for me but somehow she's my WIFE and I legally have her last name 🕺🕴️😮‍💨 literally no one can tell me anything lmao I'm high on life and my gorgeous butch wife

[gaybichon]

not even funny how true this is for me

[iguessweallcrazyithinktho]

[champainprobs]

I get married in 11 days I'm actively having mental breakdown

[champainprobs]

I feel so much relief reflecting on my early twenties and the path I was headed down vs where I am now. thank GOD the heterosexuality and Christians didn't get me. I really had myself convinced I was bi just bc my first love broke my heart and I slept with guys after the breakup. Convinced myself I believed in God bc my only friends were culty new age Christian girls. thank GOD the alcoholism and felonies didn't get me. I was on the path to end up dead or in prison. I might still be broke and uneducated but at least I'm employed, housed, have two huskies and two orange cats, and a woman who loves me and treats me better than I ever imagined. It's literally not that bad and it literally does get better.

[honeyed-dyke]

anything a man can do a butch can do better

[riotghou1]

[champainprobs]

I'm getting married on May 24th. truly genuinely no take backsies, deposits are down, chapel and photographer booked my dress is bought, hair & makeup scheduled. I have to change my tumblr handle i can't make failed engagements in my early 20s my personality any more

[mamoru]

yes I DO live under a rock and her name is the Moon and she is always smiling but she teaches me nothing

[underwhelmingalchemist]

Sapphics who don't like fat girls are so weird to me. You're supposed to like girl. Why wouldn't you want more girl per girl

[underwhelmingalchemist]

I have faith this post will be seen by exactly who it needs to

[hauntanelle]

god is punishing me because i have tumblr

[valtsv]

might fuck around and let nature reclaim me

[louisedolanart]

by Louise Dolan

[fig-fever]

Sappho, fragment 147 trans. Anne Carson

[lizbethborden]